Callas

Yes, it’s possible to appear to be rude over text but sweet in person

He is adorably adorable and more handsome than his pics (the current longer hair fits his personality more)
Nice chest and arms
He is very nice in person, one of the nicest
Massage steps are there, relaxing, but lots of room for improvement (he lacks the spirit of massage, or maybe because he did a bit fast while I prefer slowly?)
I also got everything I asked. I think I will be his best client from now on (copying this phrase from another forum member haha). I’m obsessed 🫣

Minus:
- not as masculine as I imagined looking at his pics, BUT whatever it is, it fits him so well. It was a pleasant surprise 
- Abs are not there; nowhere near his pics. He may be bulking?
- the 🍑 is not as good as others said, NYC has lots of better 🍑

It’s a 10/10 from me. He is currently among my TOP 3 favorites. 
He’s worth all his rates.
 

One of the best experiences I have had! It felt so good, so fulfilled that I felt like I could live without s*x for a week. His moan when he cum inside me was masculine & f**king s*xy (only my crush’s moan could compare). 
 
Pros:
- masculine
- he looks much better than pics, great muscle, the body is beautiful as a whole
- clean shaven 
- kissing was so good
- smooth skin
- very nice 🍑
- polite, nice, sweet

Cons:
- there are a few hairs on his chest, would be perfect if those are gone
- 🍆 is a bit small, but its size & length are perfect for my tiny 🍑 — it fits mine so well 🔐

Verdict: Worth repeating. My TOP 3 favorites. TOP 2 tops. I will be his best client from now on. 

Is he just toned? Or muscular ?

One of the best experiences I have had! It felt so good, so fulfilled that I felt like I could live without s*x for a week. His moan when he cum inside me was masculine & f**king s*xy (only my crush’s moan could compare). 
 
Pros:
- masculine
- he looks much better than pics, great muscle, the body is beautiful as a whole
- clean shaven 
- kissing was so good
- smooth skin
- very nice 🍑
- polite, nice, sweet

Cons:
- there are a few hairs on his chest, would be perfect if those are gone
- 🍆 is a bit small, but its size & length are perfect for my tiny 🍑 — it fits mine so well 🔐

Verdict: Worth repeating. My TOP 3 favorites. TOP 2 tops. I will be his best client from now on. 

Had a fine experience with him
Pros:
- cute, big, pink nipples 
- pretty good massage
- tall 
- as muscular as pics
- masculine 
Cons:
- not as handsome as pics: currently, his face lacks the fullness it had as seen in the pics; the slimmer face, especially the cheeks, significantly reduces his cuteness. It was a disappointment 
- the shape of his chest is not my type, and it’s not ok IRL (i think this cannot be changed)
- he shaved his body hair, but the hair roots are hard 
- he is nice, but not warm (he barely smiles)
- subjectively, his tattoos are bad: bad design, bad placement
- his extras were sexual, while I want sexually sensual 
Verdict: worth one-time fun, but not again… or maybe next year when his face regains its fullness

Just met again this month. Amazing as always. Same as last time I reviewed.

YMMV, but for me:
- sensual enough to keep happy
- yes
- yes
- yes
 
 

Updated:
— his massage got worse and worse and worse 
— after this 4th time, i think I won’t see him again despite the extras 
— the most boring massage I have ever had
 
I don’t know why he has many good reviews on RM. Please share your good experiences.
 

Pros:
- he seemed kind, sounded like he meant it when saying “i’ll be careful” when I asked for light pressure
- masculine, but … (see 1st cons)
- great arms & legs
- 🍑 is 😋
- executed all my requests (was a bit hesitant about the last one, but ok’d eventually)
Cons:
- too straight? I only lightly touched there for less than 3 mins total throughout the session, but no reaction 
- chest needs some extra work
- massage was a bit boring, but (see last pros)
 Verdict: Will repeat 😊
 

His RMass shows HIV positive. I have never done it in this case. If i use condom and on PrEP, i should be fine, right?
 
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It’s dramatic. But if anyone really likes his look, try to limit ur asks initially, and just go for the first date.
he was really sweet to me despite our rocky initial convo.

His new pic is hot. Should I see him again?
any recent experience?
 

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pics are real
cute
nice
need to work on his skills, but … worth repeating 😊

One of the best experiences I have had! It felt so good, so fulfilled that I felt like I could live without s*x for a week. His moan when he cum inside me was masculine & f**king s*xy (only my crush’s moan could compare). 
 
Pros:
- masculine
- he looks much better than pics, great muscle, the body is beautiful as a whole
- clean shaven 
- kissing was so good
- smooth skin
- very nice 🍑
- polite, nice, sweet

Cons:
- there are a few hairs on his chest, would be perfect if those are gone
- 🍆 is a bit small, but its size & length are perfect for my tiny 🍑 — it fits mine so well 🔐

Verdict: Worth repeating. My TOP 3 favorites. TOP 2 tops. I will be his best client from now on. 

Just met again this month. Amazing as always. Same as last time I reviewed.

Imma see it tomorrow. So excited!!!! 

Some fans are just a little too much:

P.S. If the man holding the pillows happens to be a member here at CoM then I apologize to you sir.

Welp, I spoke too soon. He did respond to me. He still wants to see me. I also would like to see him but when I getter a better handle on things. As someone here said, if it weren’t for the cash we wouldn’t be in each other’s circle. It’s a good grounding exercise to remind myself of that.

All the time. lol!
Seriously I’ve come to love (platonically) a number of the providers I’ve met. Many of whom have become genuine friends. We talk regularly and we even hang out off the clock. Some of them I still hire… some have retired but we remain in contact and travel together. One guy I met a few years ago calls me family, I still hire him on occasion. I just visited with him for about a week purely to hang out with no funds exchanged and no bedroom activities.
There is a provider who I have known for about 15 years, I have a deep affection for. I’ve talked about the situation in the past on the previous iteration of the forum. Although we’re not quite a couple, it’s probably the closest thing to one. He rarely charges me for encounters. We communicate a lot off the clock. However, I will give him some funds to cover gas and tolls when he travels to see me. I’ve told him how I felt about him and he has reciprocated the same sentiments. I’m happy to remain extremely close friends but if it goes beyond that point… I’d be happy to.
Talking with a number of providers over the years, I know they do sometimes get into serious relationships with clients. I don’t know how common it is. I wouldn’t even suggest seeking out or trying to force something that isn’t there, but it does happen.
We are all human… mostly lol! Some are better at guarding and controlling their emotions in this hobby. Others just let their emotions carry them wherever. I lie somewhere in the middle, I think. I don’t go into these encounters seeking friends or anything beyond the transactional portion of it. It’s just that of all the guys I’ve seen since starting this hobby… a relatively small number of them and I just bonded.

"Zilch" may not be the response you wish for, but truthfully, it's the best gift you can possibly receive.  It affirms the fact that the relationship was purely transactional; it expedites your waking up to reality.  If he were to lead you on by giving you some ambiguous signals, the final outcome would've been more painful.  Ripping the bandaid off is the most ideal course of action here.

You did something I couldn't do. I fell in love with a provider and told him how I felt. Instead of cutting me off, we continued  to hook up for over six years! There's A LOT more to this story believe me! Lol. I am glad you cut it off before it got messy.

Because I was started developing feelings for him.
Yes, I know, classic. 
I recognized it happening in me and nipped it in the bud. The provider told me he was coming to town and I told him although I enjoyed seeing him that the relationship was becoming more than transactional for me. That for my wellbeing I had to stop seeing him.
Not sure what I expected but I got dust from him. Zilch. I get it. But still disappointed I didn’t get at least an “I understand, wish you all the best” etc. Not really posting for advice just wanted to vent and hear if anyone has had to stop seeing a provider for any reason and how they reacted to it. 

You are a true romantic @Callas . Don't lose that.

Some people are more likely to catch feelings than others, but we all do it eventually. I've had crushes on masseurs, dated masseurs, and had purely physical experiences with masseurs. It's all part of the messy joy of human connection. 
Be nice to yourself and accept that feelings are an important part of what gives you pleasure. Your emotions will pass so be patient. 

At best not capable of enjoying arts, at worst not capable of feeling love.
Doesn’t mean it’s real, but sad fact that you haven’t seen or heard something doesn’t mean such something doesn’t exist.

I think I’m about to fall for another provider. I meet him weekly trying to forget the previous crush. It’s been ~15 months. 
i didn’t miss him. It was just physical. But recently I started to miss him if I don’t see within 5 days between meetings.
why does my heart have to be so weak? I’m so disappointed in me. How to stop falling in love and just enjoy the physical pleasure?
He is the only one I see once weekly. I used to solely see my crush ~2–3x / week, but now I spend the other 1–2x on multiple others. 
 
I probably cannot stop seeing him until he breaks my heart just like my crush, or worse. I’m so helpless 😭