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I met with him over the weekend and had an incredible time.  I met him in Ft. Lauderdale and he is NYC right now.  
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He is one of the most handsome men I have ever met in person.  Don't worry about the lack of face pics, he is stunningly handsome!  On top of that, he's a really good guy.  We were talking and he told me he likes to travel and asked me where I lived.  I told him Pittsburgh and he told me has been to Pittsburgh before and he likes to visit here during the winter, which confirmed he has changed things up and was previously XLTomXL.  
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Adding this one to my Christmas Wish List. Hopeful Santa comes through for me.....

 

A phone and underwear in a sauna? Two red flags for me.

Sadly, I forewent many of these opportunities when I was hunger and hotter. I don’t forgo them anymore when I’m lucky enough to encounter them!

Sounds like you need a written invitation! He was coming on strong….you should have followed him. Don’t worry about your accent, all you need to do is get down on your knees. You can’t speak when your mouth is full. 

Here is the situation:  I went to the locker around 1 pm o'clock yesterday after my workout, inside the locker room i passed by a hot young man and had a short eye contact, a min later i went to the sauna.  There was this young guy i just met and another older man inside. While we were facing each other (he was seated, i was standing agaist the wall), this young guy placed his phone down, started to raise his right leg on the bar surronding the hot stove, moved away his hands to expose his bulge in the underwear, touched the bulge a few times, and kept on looking at me. Then he moved to stand by my side, tried to adjust his underwear then went out of the sauna.
I was wondering if i should follow him, i guess there is not much action to do anyway since this is a gym not a bathhouse. I am not confident to talk with him either since my strong accent might be the scene killer.  
Anyway I am pretty surprised with this encounter. This guy is pretty hot, he is probably straight ( his phone screen showed the upper body of him and a girl). Maybe he was horny and just want to have a quick release during lunch break.

I agree with Sam Miller. He is upfront about being short so that didn't bother me at all. He does look like his pics, very nice looking.  There was no personality and he was distant and aloof. I wouldn't repeat either, there are better masseurs out there.

OMG, guys check out this profile....its a SCREAM. 
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Well, it is a business and we should all conduct ourselves as such, but some do not. 
I always say professionalism goes a long way. 
I would say, trust your gut on the 3 and pick the one that you said you felt more compelled to go towards. 

I searched for this particular topic and didn't find anything specifically about this, which is why I am posting. A little context first.
I went to a conference in Orlando last week, and I managed to talk my employer into letting me stay in the hotel where it happened for an additional night. I planned to treat myself with a provider for that night and return home happy. Went to RM and identified three prospects. I texted them with provider 1 being my preferred of the three.
I sent the exact same initial text to reach out to each one of them (something along the lines of "I saw your profile, liked what I read, I am interested. Are you available?")
Their initial responses were quite different.
Provider number 1: "Aww thanks!! I'm just not available this weekend. How long are you in town?" Provider number 2: "$XXX for one hour $XXX per hour for 2 or more". Provider number 3: "Hey there, thanks for checking out my profile. I can be available. What part of town are staying in? Typically my rate is $XXX for the hour. I'm located in the xxxx area." I went with provider 3 because provider 1 wasn't available, and provider 2 didn't entice me much to further the communication. I dissed provider 2 because it didn't show much people skills.
Questions to providers: Do you craft your initial reply, do you just answer based on the initial text, or combination of both? Do you think that how you reply matters (of course, aside from being polite and basic communication manners) and makes a difference in your business?
Questions to clients: do you care about how the provider replies, or does it impact your decision of going further (of course, based on the premise that it's not rejection or unavailability).
BTW, Provider 3 was excellent. I ended up extending my stay.
 

He’s def based in Vegas, I think he travels on occasion.  Great masseur and client focused, wonderful Latin gem.   Very highly recommend! 

This might be it… 
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He’s MAGA 

He shot a text saying he was available with his pic. I told him I've never seen him before could he please delete my number since I didn't want to be contacted. I definitely don't know the guy and have never seen him. His phone number matches up with an ad.
I'm guessing he got upset, claims we had a massage in the past and we took pics together, I'm immediately thinking ok this is one of those scams... "I thought you liked it we have a pic together" ... "Are you married"... "If you want me to forget your number I'll need 100 dollars"... "I'll tell your wife that".  He basically turned into a fake extortion scheme.
So, beware. When he gets offended, he extorts. LOL
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Time Management... And the Option to hire people to help with basic activities. 
My parents rarely hired anyone for routine maintenance around the house; they did everything themselves.   But I came to realize that I could perform better if I hired people to perform my basic routine tasks at less than half the price of my time: Weekly housekeeper, monthly landscaper, monthly pest control, etc.  They get the job done faster and better than I could do it myself, and it frees up my time to work overtime or to relax.

Children, children, please! 
Save the snotty comments for Thanksgiving dinner. 😜

I 100% agree with this.  While I am a strong D, I have a problem with all the "free college' and tuition forgiveness since it devalues the trades and other legitimate skill development paths......we need tradespeople, emergency services, military and other non-college educated people to make our economy hum.  I WOULD be a fan of a national service program to support skills development.

Vegas is a great product overall. Nothing quite like it. But I think Vegas is alienating some travelers with high resort fees and a lot of nickel diming on things in hotels.  Bottles of water in your room for 25 bucks? 😳😱  Give me a break.  Plus, most states have ample local casinos now which keep people closer to home and technology has made gaming and betting on devices and computes very easy now.  These factors provide some  headwinds  for the Vegas casinos.  🎰 

The Vegas beancounters haven’t quite grasped the difference between “luxury” and “gouging.”  Michelin-star cuisine and penthouse suites are luxury.  A $26 bottle of water is gouging.  Even though a billionaire could easily afford a $26 bottle of water, he would still say “f*ck that!” because it’s a shameless rip-off.

Any new recent experiences with him? He’s super hot. 

Saw him a few weeks ago. So sexy and a great massage with even better extras. 

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