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Seems to me this is a question about providers in general and why they love Spiderman.

Not interested in the juvenile back and forth, but this comment means nothing. If you REQUIRE a deposit, doesn't that automatically mean that all of your clients are OK with them? The ones who weren't declined your services.

While I've said several times that a deposit is a deal breaker for me, I must admit this is an honorable reason to require one. I'd never do a 4 hander, but I can see why it makes sense if you've been asked to contract someone else.

Even if not interested, treat people politely. If the provider says they're not available, I'll thank them for responding, since not everyone does. If there is a face Pic, I dont ask for more pics. And I'll ask the provider, should we meet, what would make it enjoyable for them, or if there are any limits they want to make me aware of. I want a provider to want to see me again, so I try and make it as stress-free as possible, (but that doesn't mean I will ever send a deposit).

Is there a superhero kink I missed out on? I can't beleive how many RM ads I see with at least one pose in a spandex Spiderman costume. Is that a thing?

By the same token, if you've seen them before, they shouldn't be still requiring a deposit. It would reek of desperation or maybe a drug problem if they need cash that desperately.

My interest in guys is pretty narrow, so it's got to be a 'yes' for me before I reach out. If the response and price is satisfactory, then I can book. If a guy wasn't my 'type', not only would I not know the price, but wouldn't be interested if free.

Providers: clients who won't send a deposit aren't serious and time wasters Clients: providers who ask for deposits are likely scamming and not serious about their profession. Oh, what a tangled web we weave. I guess we'll both have to decide if we're desperate enough to break the cardinal rule of our 'side'. I know I'm not. Maybe it's because I'm pretty open to conversation and showing I'm "real," or maybe because Im clear that I pay cash only, but I've never been asked for a deposit or that would be the end of the conversation.

Would be nice to see a face instead of the same pose in 10 different shades of underwear.

Thanks, but now that he left Orlando for Charlotte, I don't think it matters to me. 😉

Fairly new with one review, but his one picture looks cute. Not much to say either. https://rent.men/Sunsetboyy Anyone know anything about this guy?

Can you explain the difference? I would have expected more to travel since you have expenses to cover if he isn't real or sends you on a wild goose chase.

I think one doesn't need to look much further than social media. The epidemic of 'influincers' who are completely phony and people who don't live life, but document their fake life to get views and followers is frightening. Maybe it's generational, but I don't have Instagram, tic toc, or whatever else they are using, so obviously I don't follow anyone on anything except YouTube which I'm sure the new generation is long over. But when so many think the easy path to not really working is doing these things with enough followers, instant gratification and anonymity are causing a downward spiral.

I will say I recently got a counter-offer that worked out. I think his pricing included a large surcharge, as he is usually requested to bottom. Once he read my profile and saw my needs were more vanilla, he offered a reduced price much lower than his autoreply. He also pointed out how helpful my profile was and that he wished everyone was so clear about what they wanted. I was just glad he actually read it.

Curious if you don't mind. What would you say your needs would be when hired long term?

No, it wasn't a deal breaker for me. I was just a little surprised at the notification for an overnight. He managed to cum three times so I must have been doing something right. He also said that was close to his record and he was surprised at the number. Now he could say that to everyone, but he felt genuine to me, which is what matters.

I haven't had those problems. But I've only really used rentmen, am pretty selective, and am very clear in my profile that I pay cash. And I ask them to read it to ensure we're a good match. The ones that reply have generally read it, and I've had no issues. I'll also offer to have a quick chat so they know I'm real.

I would say if you have dinner, play, sleep and play, yes. Thats pretty much an overnight. For me the appeal is that it doesn't feel as transactional if you spend some time talking, cuddling and sleeping spooning, maybe even taking a fun break in the middle of the night. The few times I've hired for an hour or 2, I didn't find it relaxing. I was watching the clock, making sure I did everything I wanted before he had to go. I may do a shorter session with a provider I already feel comfortable with, but experience has shown me that overnights are the way to go for me.

Interesting that you think popularity of opinion makes one correct. I simply asked a question about what others found normal, as I was surprised. Nobody was treated like a robot. But feel free to get 100 people to give you a thumbs up if it makes you feel good.

That's quite a leap. I don't see where anyone did that. Assuming a younger person, especially a professional sex worker, would be able to have ejaculate as many times as a 60 year old isn't treating them like a robot. If you asked any of the men I hired, I am 100% certain they feel the same way.

Nobody's perfect.

Apparently not much. He's referenced in Zayne's RM ad and he has an expired profile, but you can still view it. I think Zayne said he mostly just works with Zayne.

Why? Because if you are wanting a BFE, is the point that you are getting the illusion that it's a boyfriend? Or do you expect your boyfriend to be with multiple people per day and discuss them with you? And if you do, great, but not what most people expect, I'd guess.

Just curious here. I recently did an overnight and the provider told me that he can only promise one ejaculation, but can usually do more. Is this a normal provider comcern/comment in your experiences? It wasn't a problem (and there was more than 1). Was he hedging based on his ability, my attractiveness/skill, or just this particular provider? I do appreciate being forewarned. And almost took it as a fun challenge. But still found it surprising for an overnight, when young bucks of 25 should be ok every couple of hours. I'm 60, and use no enhancements, so my needs wouldn't have exceeded is abilities, but I guess he didn't know that going in either.

After my expected provider disappeared on me on a trip to St. Louis, I reached out to Zayne. I got the autoreply, which was thankfully followed up with a personal note answering my questions. I did have pause because he was a porn star, and that's not something that interests me and generally drives the price up. But I did agree to an overnight. As another said, he was running a little late, but his communication was great. He came, looked as advertised and we had a nice chat getting to know each other. He's very sweet. Was agreeable to requests, stated his preferences when asked, and wasn't distracted or doing other things during our time together. I enjoyed our time together and think there is evidence of him doing so as well. I strongly recommend him if you get a chance.