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If you've been quoted an hourly rate tell them you expect them to stay for an hour.  

If you've been quoted an hourly rate tell them you expect them to stay for an hour.  

If I could I would hire daily. Why not? Unfortunately is not on my budget. 

I have a premium account so I thought I'd check.  I signed out to have a look and yes, all the dicks are gone.  The profile pics are now dickless 😞.
A dumb change in my mind but it's their call.

I say it's the provider's job to keep track of time.  He's the professional in the room.  Your only job is to relax and have fun.
Kevin Slater

On occasion I have employed escorts with whom I had a long acquaintance as my driver, nothing "mundane" such as housecleaning, painting or running errands. 

Rather than asking what the escort is willing to do, it seems more efficient is the client say something to the effect: I really love ass play, nip torture, cock and ball torture, restraints and food. Anything there you can't provide? Oh yes, I always ask about kissing because I love to kiss and even if the guy will let me strap him down and fuck his face with a cucumber, if he doesn't kiss we don't connect

I think it's normal and fine for attachments to develop both ways between clients and escorts. Human beings naturally seek companionship and as we get to know each other, of course bonds will form. I have genuinely become friends with a few guys I have hired. One of them I consider a good friend and he no longer escorts and we still hang out (non-sexually) from time to time.
What is tricky is expecting the business side of the relationship to change at all. I always think of it as if the escort had another job. If I had a friend who was an artist, I support my friend by buying their art, not expecting it for free. Ultimately, the same is true even if you do have a genuine friendship with an escort. Companionship and sex is his job and you should not expect that to be free. Maybe because he likes you, he'll give you a bit of extra time or something, but that should be completely at his suggestion and never expected by the client.

For non-sexual companionship services, I charge something more than my massage rates but less than my full service rates. Not by much, but a bit less. I do so because it takes effort and focused attention, but in a different way. Arguably it’s much more engaging and challenging than the small talk I have with a typical client at the beginning of a massage. The client wants my intellect and wants me to look good, perhaps touch me, and for me to engage them in every way but sex. That takes a high level of effort and personal connection. 
The companionship client typically wants more than an hour of my time, so it makes sense to do it. For full service, I charge $300/hr or $500/two hours. I charge $225/hr for à la carte companionship services. If the client wants two hours of companionship, that’s $450. Not much less than if they hired me for full service for two hours ($500). The companionship client may be less common than the full service client, but they are not paying that much differently.
More commonly clients are interested in an escort session and/or boyfriend experience, depending on the terms you prefer. These typically include time in the bedroom, and time outside the bedroom. See recent thread on “BFE”. I charge $1000 for up to (5) hours of escort service. The sexual part is typically up to couple hours and the rest is up to the client to decide what non-sexual activities they most enjoy while spending time with me. My long escort sessions work out to $200/hr, which is a pretty good deal for clients interested in both the sex AND the rest of the experience…which could look very much like the non-sexual companionship service I normally charge $225 for.
I suppose it all depends on the client’s sensibilities, budget, and priorities, but the longer the session, the easier it is for me to justify a lower rate. Example: I can do (1) five hr session for $1k, or (3) one hour full service sessions for $900. Realistically I probably can’t deliver on three clients a day for the latter, so the former makes a lot more business sense, even though the per-hour pay rate is lower.
Another consideration is that the typical client who books a five hour escort session is far more likely to cancel, and more often than not in less than 24 hrs of their start time. That’s frustrating. On paper it makes business sense, but in reality it’s all a total crapshoot.
My approach is I’m getting paid decently no matter what service I’m providing, so it matters a lot less exactly what I’m doing. Even some massage clients regularly spend $300 or more. The difference there is that I’m spending more time with the massage clients for the same money as I would make providing the other services over a shorter time. It’s easier for me to take multiple massage clients a day. It’s much more difficult for me to have multiple escort and/or sex work clients per day.
 

I'm such a lonely person with no one in my life. I've once paid someone $100/wk to text every day. Someone I wouldn't normally get to talk to me.  

Note there is a setting that turns that off. Also, it's not just providers but any RM users including clients that get "who saw me".

It has been ages since I have posted here and I'm not sure if I should even get involved in this discussion, but it is a lively discussion.
OK.
9 in 10 posters here will give you the same basic line of advice:
"Fall in love with The Experience, but not with The Provider".
Write that line down and keep it on the back burner, "logically speaking", so that you don't over-analyze what can't always be analyzed so easily.
Now... I will play the 10th poster and throw you a curve-ball.
Life can be complicated. Human relationships can be complicated. I developed feelings for a masseur who doesn't just do "hands only" work with clients and, over years of contact with him (and I am talking seven years now), we have developed a relationship that has gotten much closer with feelings that have become mutual. Yes, there has been much activity occurring "off working hours". Of course, you can not be the jealous type in this kind of relationship because people must make a living at what they do best in a world where many need special tender loving care. In addition, you yourself may need to help out at times too as you would in ANY kind of relationship, especially during bad times like nationwide pandemics when clients become fewer in number and the rent needs covered. 
Think of "The Provider" in much the same way you would a physical therapist or psychiatrist addressing your needs and improving your life for the better. Sadly, the United States is still a very backward country in accepting all of this as it should be accepted. Then again, just being gay in the United States was considered a "mental disorder" as late as 1973, doing "gay" activities could get you in jail in multiple states as late as 2006 and same gender marriage (as well as so many other relationships of this kind) was strictly out of the question prior to 2015. Since you say you are still in your twenties, two of these events only happened in your own lifetime and, yes, much more progress needs to made. Most of us posting here have had to get over a great many, many family and environmental issues just to address our own needs.
But... pardon me for getting off topic here.
Back to you.
If this fellow put you at ease and allowed you to experience things without judgement, then definitely revisit him again when you physically and financially can. Become a repeat client and view him as a potential friend first and foremost. You have already read some posts here mentioning wonderful friendships that have developed from these experiences and that is something that should never be overlooked.
Don't fuss too much about the feelings part. After all, you only spent ONE visit with him! That is like having a blind date with a perfect stranger whom you know virtually nothing about outside those two hours or so. Maybe on that second visit a.k.a. "date", your feelings will change. Something that happens may change your perspective of him altogether. Again, go up to the line quoted above as a possible rule of thumb. Yet don't overlook what possibilities could happen in the future. Just take one day... and visit... at a time. View your developing emotions and relationships as a good thing and not a bad thing to be afraid of... and remember that there are many kinds to experience in life.

Wow, he sounds like a very thoughtful and considerate person. I would have compensated him for the hour, but maybe try hiring him again in the future to see if things go better? I feel like a lot of escorts would have demanded the full payment even if they didn't deliver so kudos to him for not doing so.

Toronto the going rate is $300 to $350.  A deal for visiting Americans after exchange ($225 to $265 $USD).