Travis69

This isn't helpful.

How about using disposable puppy pads? Just crumple that shit up and trow it in da trash. Easy Peasy! Next!?!?

OMG, the décor there is so horrendous. Buffalo carcass and cactus, and woven serape.... Fuck NO !

By NOT calling them out and sending them on their way, as SOON as they arrive, only encourages these fraudulent, phony, cowardly guys to continue their pursuits.

I recently permitted things to go too far with a rentguy using a fake pic.
 
I regret not sending him away upon first sight. As it was, 5 minutes after starting, there were ample red flags, and I sent him away, after retrieving 75% of the fee he'd demanded upfront.
 
His attitude suggested absolutely no regret or excuses about using a fake pic. He felt justified on the basis of discretion. In hindsight, that attitude sticks in my craw.
 
I wont let it happen again.

I have his Sean Cody film and he bottoms in it.

You've certainly picked an unusual (for you) web forum to post these warnings. I'm not sure whether you have quite grasped the raison d'être of this Forum. We are a group of people (for the most part) looking for experiences with escorts. Most of us are well aware of the risks involved and choose to pursue this hobby in spite of them. And really if you aren't in a monogamous relationship, we are all at risk of picking something up.
 
Gman

I think it's a generational thing. To those of us who lived through the worst of it, we would always think of it as a big deal.

And this whole notion that having HIV is no big deal is BS. Sure SOME people live with it. BUT
you're unambiguously healthier without it. And there is more than one strain , and not every one reacts well to and/or can afford the various medications.

Those queens will tell you you're clothing, car, furniture, pet, hair style, shampoo, sheets, drapes, dates, eating habits, job, china, crystal, jewelry, toilet paper, bath towels and vacation spots are all wrong also.

I'm putting up a GoFundMe page.
 
I'll go see Pan, investigate for the team. If he's unbiased about my size, and its an excellent experience, I'll refund the money. If I confirm that he's a discriminatory creep, this community will have invested in a reliable fact-finding mission. Either way, I'll report back.
 
DAMN! I just discovered my post retirement, second career. Secret Shopper for the escorts & masseurs' clients' community!

Good grief

I would check with Kevin Slater. Not sure if he is into it but he knows the NYC scene quite well.

I would check with Kevin Slater. Not sure if he is into it but he knows the NYC scene quite well.

Interactive means SEX. People go for the massage and stay for the SEX!!!!!

Read your ad. Unfortunately I am too old.

TAXI!!

Still sounds like a therapeutic massage more than anything. He might indeed have been a great therapeutic masseur for you, but not necessarily sensual.
 
Plus the the two experiences of posters here — texting while massaging, as well as unceremoniously ending a scheduled massage to go to the movies — sound like serious professional no-nos regardless of whether the massage is sensual or purely therapeutic.

It depends on the guy, but sometimes some clothing can be hotter than total nudity. What MarkNY described sounded kind of sexy to me: "tiny shorts where you can feel his erection through them".

I would mention it before the appointment just so you aren't worrying about it before the door opens. Many mention their race, weight, age to make sure there will not be a problem. It is sad that you have to do it but reality is many escorts or masseurs have certain hangups about race, weight or age.

I would mention it before the appointment just so you aren't worrying about it before the door opens. Many mention their race, weight, age to make sure there will not be a problem. It is sad that you have to do it but reality is many escorts or masseurs have certain hangups about race, weight or age.

I would mention it before the appointment just so you aren't worrying about it before the door opens. Many mention their race, weight, age to make sure there will not be a problem. It is sad that you have to do it but reality is many escorts or masseurs have certain hangups about race, weight or age.

I would mention it before the appointment just so you aren't worrying about it before the door opens. Many mention their race, weight, age to make sure there will not be a problem. It is sad that you have to do it but reality is many escorts or masseurs have certain hangups about race, weight or age.

I would mention it before the appointment just so you aren't worrying about it before the door opens. Many mention their race, weight, age to make sure there will not be a problem. It is sad that you have to do it but reality is many escorts or masseurs have certain hangups about race, weight or age.

I would mention it before the appointment just so you aren't worrying about it before the door opens. Many mention their race, weight, age to make sure there will not be a problem. It is sad that you have to do it but reality is many escorts or masseurs have certain hangups about race, weight or age.