JamesB

Assets Typically Subject to Step-Up in Basis: Real Estate: Homes, land, rental properties or other real property owned individually or jointly Stocks and Bonds: Individual stocks, bonds or similar securities held in taxable brokerage accounts. Mutual Funds and ETFs: Funds and exchange traded funds in taxable accounts. Collectibles and Tangible Property like art, antiques, coins, precious metals, furnishings or other personal property. Business Interests: Ownership in partnerships, LLCs, sole proprietorships or other business entities. Assets held in revocable trusts or jointly owned (with rights of survivorship) often qualify, as they are typically included in the estate. Bank accounts, cash, or similar non-appreciating assets are at face value and don't require a step-up, but they are passed without capital gains implications. Assets Typically NOT Subject to Step-Up in Basis Retirement Accounts: Traditional IRAs, Roth IRAs, 401(k)s, 403(b)s, 457 plans or pensions. Annuities: Tax-deferred annuities (gains are taxed as ordinary income). Assets in Irrevocable Trusts: Those not included in the decedent's estate (e.g., irrevocable grantor trusts) generally do not qualify. Gifted Assets: Property gifted during the owner's lifetime (prior to death) carries over the original basis, without step-up.

This is my response from a different post on a closely related subject. https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/166588-are-subsequent-sessions-different/#findComment-2565276

How about adding the cruise details to your ad description?

First of all, if he hasn’t asked for it upfront, don’t feel pressured to offer it. Even when you trust a provider, it’s worth remembering that money has a way of changing behavior. Paying 100% upfront introduces several practical risks. If something happens on his end after the cash has changed hands, illness, a family emergency, or another issue, you have no real leverage to secure a refund or even a reschedule. Also, while most professionals remain professional, full prepayment can sometimes shift the power dynamic or weaken the incentive structure of the arrangement. There’s also risk on your side. If your plans change or an emergency prevents you from going, recovering a large cash amount from an individual can be extremely difficult. While it is legal to fly domestically with any amount of cash, large sums can attract attention. If TSA encounters a significant amount of cash during a search, they may refer the matter to law enforcement. You could then be asked to demonstrate that the funds are legitimate, which can quickly turn into a major headache and even cause you to miss your flight. There are safer alternatives. One option is to ask whether he would accept a cashier’s check or certified bank check. It’s safer to carry, widely accepted, and can be canceled if lost. Another option is to offer a partial amount, for example $3,000 to $5,000, a few days in advance as a good-faith security deposit, with the balance paid upon arrival.

I’ve become much more selective over time. I used to jump into bed with anything that had a pulse, but these days, especially when hiring, I’m far more discerning. I know what I want, how I want it, and when and I’m no longer willing to tolerate nonsense. The moment things don’t align with my expectations, I move on. Also at this point, my tolerance for drama is zero.

The OP is talking about a domestic destination.

Another new RMen profile, same old pics: https://rent.men/UrRicanKing

First, you need to decide what “safe” and “worth it” mean to you. If you’re not comfortable giving your credit card information to RM, you can always pay with crypto. As for whether it’s worth it, only you can answer that for yourself. The main advantages are access to private galleries and in my experience, providers tend to take premium members a bit more seriously.

Just like with any other “intos” that are important to me, I always ask them to confirm they’re okay with it. With Latin providers, I make a point of confirming in Spanish so there’s no room for the usual “no hablo” excuse.

I met Joao two, maybe three years ago. At the time he was based in Orlando, though I don’t believe that’s still the case. He’s a super nice guy from Brazil, and his English is very good. His photos are accurate, and he gives a decent massage, though as FLJock mentioned, it’s on the shorter side. MT and HE are included, and the extras are very good. If the massage itself is a priority for you, he may not be the best fit. But if you’re looking for a brief, solid massage followed by play, I can recommend him.

This is the one I use. Works like a charm. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09321LDK8?th=1

Are you sure the urge to disclose isn’t coming from a less flattering place? He wronged you by taking your money, and even if it’s unconscious, there’s a real risk that this disclosure is about moral positioning, controlling the narrative, or preemptively absolving yourself. Ask yourself this: if no money had changed hands, would the same urgency still be there? If the answer is no, then this isn’t really about transparency. It’s about discomfort with unresolved moral business. Just make sure you’re not telling yourself a cleaner story than the one that’s actually driving the impulse.

Why? I really fail to see any upside to this.

Very common. It’s just the provider keeping you engaged, so don’t overthink it.

I don’t bring new providers into my home. The first meeting is always at their place or at a hotel. I also make sure one person knows where I am, who I’m with, and for how long.

As part of my research when considering a new (to me) provider, I usually reach out to other clients on RMass and RMen. I don’t get a 100 percent response rate, but I’d estimate around 60 to 70% from recent clients. Some take the time to provide detailed feedback, while others offer only brief, general responses. I’ve been doing this for quite a while, and over time I’ve connected with a couple of local clients who share similar tastes as mine. We now exchange information regularly. As for DMs here on COM, my response will depend on how long the person has been a member and how much information they’ve shared publicly.

As far as I know, Colombia is on a restricted list for certain types of visas, but not for the visitor visa (B1/B2) you’re asking about. That said, these lists change frequently, so I could be mistaken. In general, as long as you can demonstrate strong ties to Colombia, such as stable employment, assets, family connections, and financial stability, you should be fine. Just keep in mind that the final decision always rests with the consular officer’s discretion on the day of the interview

Also here for cross reference. https://rent.men/gabnogueira

I’d just be upfront and ask if they’re okay with it. Most of the time the answer will be yes. To be safe, start by asking the one you think might be less comfortable with the idea. If he says no, there’s no need to approach the second person.

This statement is mostly true but there are some important legal nuances depending on where you live. In some states the law defines "Massage and Bodywork" as the same thing. In states like Delaware or North Carolina, you cannot use the word "bodywork" in your advertising unless you are a licensed massage therapist. There is also the "Scope of Practice" trap. Even if a state doesn't protect the word "bodywork," it usually protects the action of manipulating soft tissue. If an unlicensed "bodyworker" starts kneading muscles like a massage therapist, they can be prosecuted for practicing massage without a license, regardless of what they call it.

To be honest, I tend to pay more attention to selfies than to professional photos. In my experience, they’re usually closer to what someone actually looks like and are often more up to date than polished shots. That said, I don’t see anything wrong with having both types of photos in a profile.

I clearly need new glasses. I read, “I went all the way to Key West. This was well over a century ago,” and my only thought was, “Holy crap, how old are you?” 😂

I don’t see anything wrong with confirming rates or any other details listed in an ad. Expecting prospective clients to behave exactly the way you want is a great way to collect disappointment and frustration as a hobby.