JamesB

Here’s a screenshot of a direct message from a 5 star reviewer on RM.

Back in my college days, my go to quick breakfast was always the McDonald’s Egg McMuffin. I wasn’t really a fan of much else on their menu, except for their fries of course.

Wishing you a smooth and successful cataract surgery today! You will be seeing the world in high definition very soon, just don’t be too shocked when you realize how dusty everything really is!

None that I know of. Do you report to Mr. Number “the VAST majority of people that contact” you?.

While it’s true that plenty of clients skim ads and waste providers’ time with questions like “Can you host?” even when the answer is clearly stated, the frustration definitely goes both ways. Providers can be just as guilty, many ignore messages completely, don’t bother to read client profiles with key info like preferences or boundaries or reply with vague copy-paste responses that barely address what was asked. This kind of mutual negligence isn’t unique to this industry, it happens everywhere. Here’s a typical scenario I’ve run into way too often. When I reach out to a provider for the first time, usually when they’re listed as “available” on the site, my message includes four simple questions: rates, whether they’re comfortable with my expectations for the session, their availability on a given date and, if they host, a general idea of their location. What happens next? I might get partial answers to one or two questions usually a day or two later. So I follow up with the remaining questions. If another couple of days go by without a clear response, I move on. From their perspective, I’m now a “time waster” because I texted twice and didn’t book. From mine, they’re the time waster because I spent days just trying to get basic information. So… who’s really in the wrong here?

First, it’s important to get clear on your own motivation. Do you want to know because you feel misled or confused? Because you’re hoping for a more genuine connection with him? Or because part of the appeal for you was the “straight” element has been part of the fantasy and you are not sure how to feel if that’s not true?. Even though you’ve built a personal rapport, he’s still working in a professional setting. Many providers, regardless of orientation, create personas that are partly based on what helps clients feel most at ease or aroused. So even if he is gay, listing himself as straight might just be part of creating that fantasy. My suggestion? Let it go. Respect how he chooses to present himself and keep enjoying the experience for what it is. There’s not much to gain from confronting him about it and plenty of ways it could make things awkward for no real reason.

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Personally, I never scroll through my contacts, I just use the search function. So whether I have 1,000 or 10,000 contacts doesn’t really make a difference to me.

I have one provider I’ve hired several times during the last 3 years, and even though he never sets a timer or alarm, his sessions end exactly when the agreed time is up, not a minute more, not a minute less. Technically, I can’t complain since he delivers exactly what I pay for, but I have to admit, it does bug me a little that he won’t linger even a few extra minutes. I’ve definitely had my share of providers who cut sessions short and needless to say, they never get a second booking from me.

Under the Federal Reserve's Regulation E (Electronic Fund Transfers, part of the Electronic Fund Transfer Act of 1978), banks must disclose their posting order in account agreements. However, there is no federal mandate for a "credits first" sequence. Banks can choose methods like chronological order, low-to-high, or high-to-low, as long as they're transparent. A few states like California via the Rosenthal Fair Debt Collection Practices Act, have rules limiting unfair practices, but nothing nationwide requires credits before debits. The Consumer Financial Protection Bureau finalized a rule in late 2024 to cap most overdraft fees at $5 (effective October 1, 2025), treating them as loans with stricter disclosures. However, this was repealed by Congress in March 2025 under the Congressional Review Act. As of now, standard fees, usually $35, remain but posting order is still unregulated federally beyond disclosures.

I used to clean out my phone book back when it was an actual paper one. Every couple of years I’d replace it, and that was the perfect time to do some housekeeping. Since going digital, though, I haven’t bothered. Now I just have a ton of useless contacts sitting there with no real reason or pressure to delete them.

On the other hand, you’d be surprised how many clients don’t even know written reviews exist on RM. Let alone how to use a VPN to actually read them.

I’m not really a fan of overnights, to be honest, I only do them with a few regulars I already know very well. That said, spending the night with someone you’ve never met is a bit of a gamble for both sides. May I suggest starting with a 2 hour session and ask the provider if they’d be open to extending it to an overnight if things go well and YOU feel like it. Think of it as a “test drive” before making the full commitment.

Being unable to read the written portion of reviews isn’t tied to membership level, it’s based on your location. And yes, I completely agree most clients don’t bother doing much due diligence.

No, nope, absolutely not. Unless there’s a legitimate medical reason, I’m not letting anyone come near my junk with a knife.

Opting out of facial recognition at airport security might feel like a privacy win, but it’s largely an illusion that achieves little while ignoring the broader surveillance reality. Your face is already everywhere in the system the moment you applied for a passport or driver’s license, your facial biometric was captured in high-resolution government databases (e.g., DHS’s IDENT/HART or state DMVs). TSA’s facial recognition at airports isn’t creating new data, it’s matching you against photos you’ve already surrendered. Your biometric profile exists whether you scan or not. Airports are saturated with cameras, gate areas, concourses, baggage claim, even retail zones. These feed AI systems that don’t need your consent. Companies like Clear or airline apps already use facial recognition for boarding passes. The data is already shared across borders and agencies. CBP shares biometric data with five eyes partners (UK, Canada, Australia, NZ) and interpolates it into international watchlists. Your passport photo is cross-referenced globally. Any hope of privacy died a long time ago.

I’d like to think I still treat providers with the same respect and kindness as I always have. But I have to admit, after quite a few less than professional experiences over the last year, my expectations have definitely lowered. Maybe those lowered expectations are starting to show in a way that’s not very appealing?

If I understand your post correctly, you’re trying to regain access to your social media accounts (Facebook, X, Instagram, etc.). I’m assuming you no longer remember the passwords for those accounts. If that’s the case, each platform has a recovery process for forgotten passwords, have you tried following those steps?

I had a regular provider who announced his retirement in an unexpected way. As he was leaving my place, right at the front door, he hugged me, kissed me goodbye, and said, “By the way, I just started a new job, so I won’t be doing this anymore” and then walked out. I was completely speechless. A couple of days later, I texted him wishing him luck with his new career, and he replied saying he could still see me on weekends. I did book him once more, but the vibe felt off, so I never hired him again. We still exchange messages a couple of times a year, usually for birthdays or holidays.

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Also here for cross reference. https://rentmasseur.com/CaioBra I met Caio recently. His photos are a bit outdated, but still quite accurate. He’s definitely handsome and fit. He says he’s from Brazil, though he speaks fluent English with a noticeable German accent. Make of that what you will. His place is clean but located well outside the usual visitor areas, so keep that in mind if you’re planning an incall. As for the massage, I’m not exactly sure how to rate it, let’s just say it’s… different. Not bad, just not what I’m used to. The session takes place on a bed rather than a table. He begins fully dressed and only gets nude toward the end. The extras are solid, and he’s polite and easy to talk to. We had a pleasant conversation, but there was zero connection. I did get a bit of a gay4pay vibe. While I wouldn’t personally repeat, I wouldn’t discourage anyone from giving him a try.

I don’t believe in ghosting. If I’m not interested in hiring someone again, I make sure to communicate that clearly. And if I might be interested in the future but not at the moment, I let them know as well. It takes less than a minute to respond, and I believe it’s simply a matter of courtesy.

Yes, you are!! And don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. 😂😂