JamesB

I’m curious, where did you get the idea that being a sugar daddy implies monogamy?

I’d say my year was pretty uneventful. Aside from seeing my regulars, I tried several new providers and while I did not find a keeper I also didn’t have a shitty experience.

I agree with you, and I’m not saying that misleading stats on a profile are acceptable. However, the reality is that most providers don’t have accurate or up-to-date information on their profiles. I usually assume they are a bit older, shorter, heavier, and have a smaller D size than listed. For me, what matters most is that the pictures match the person who opens the door. If they don’t, or if the photos are very outdated, that’s a dealbreaker, and I’ll simply walk away.

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I highly recommend hiring someone. The process of searching and selecting a provider together can be a refreshing change of pace in itself. Plus, you'll likely feel more comfortable and able to fully enjoy the experience knowing you have control over what will and won’t happen. A good provider can also offer valuable advice based on his experience, introducing ideas you might not have considered but may be open to exploring.

I've noticed this issue on several occasions. I always assumed it was just a problem with the website not loading or displaying properly.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/7250/

I would add another reason: I know two providers who retired once they had raised enough money to start their own businesses. In both instances, that was their goal, and I must say, I was genuinely impressed by their discipline and commitment in achieving it.

I’m absolutely borrowing this post for myself!

I see the D size and posted age more as wishful thinking than an accurate reflection of reality.

I don’t understand. Why would it matter if he has a partner? Would you feel the same way if he had several regular clients he saw weekly? Why should this be an issue? Does he concern himself with whether you have a partner, spouse, significant other, FWB, or even other providers? What he does outside the time you’ve hired him for isn’t your business.

Here is a working link: https://rent.men/Luismanuelrondon

Responding to childish and unprofessional behavior in the same way achieves nothing except lowering yourself to the same level of immaturity.

It can be changed here.

I only noticed the "Based in New York" part of the MF ad and missed his mention of being from Orlando, my bad.

@dutchal What makes you think he is from Orlando?. Phone code is from the west coast (VoIP) and I don’t remember seeing his ad in Orlando.

I would never click on a link sent by someone I don’t know. In fact, even if I know the person, I’d still be hesitant to do so without taking the proper precautions. My advice would be to describe what you want your session to be like and let the provider do his job. If, by the end of the session, you’re satisfied with the interaction and are considering hiring the provider again but feel there’s room for improvement, you could view the video together, so he´ll have a better understanding of what you would like.

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“concerned about law enforcement” in the US. Outside the US you can see the rates if the provider chooses to post them. At least that has been my experience.

https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/135341-411-on-latingabo/#comment-2014979

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Well, that depends. Is he traveling at the moment? If he is, using a massage table might not be practical or even possible. However, if he’s at his home base and simply doesn’t own a massage table, chances are he is not either trained or professional.

I can’t talk about clients personally, but I've heard from providers about cases ranging from mild depression to severe mental health issues, including individuals who can be dangerously unstable. That said, I’ve also encountered providers who don’t seem entirely competent themselves. One case that stands out involved a regular provider who struggled with anxiety. Unfortunately, when he sought help, he was merely prescribed some pills without any real therapeutic support. I strongly urged him to find a therapist who would provide more comprehensive care instead of just medication. He took my advice, and the last time I saw him, he seemed to be doing much better. Experiences like these highlight the substantial shortcomings in how mental health is handled in the US, particularly when it comes to offering comprehensive and effective care for those in need.

I have a NO deposit rule. My concern with deposits is that they solely benefit the provider and offer no protection to the client. Additionally, there's a privacy risk and the possibility of creating a paper trail that could come back to bite you later. Since most providers don't require a deposit, I prefer not to pay one.