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100% agree. You can find assholes both in and of the closet, though.

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I wonder how she has handles decades and decades (and decades) of people talking about her look. It also amuses me how she manages to create so many conversations about it. Like I said in the 80s, 90s, 2000s, and 2010s, I say in the 2020s: "You go, girl".

My views on that has changed as I have grown older and wiser. Originally, I resented them, and I didn't like them at all. I used to view them as wanting the joys of sex between men, but hiding from the responsibilities that come with being gay. I saw them as opportunists. In the community where I grew up, the closet cases I knew were the type that attacked gay men as way of shifting the focus out of themselves. That was part of what made me resentful. That type of closeted guy still exists today, and I still reject and resent them, but I've also learned about the ones I never heard of before. Many men find themselves in situations where they cannot be out, and they do not attack gay men in a lame attempt at keeping their cover. Many value having a family, children, their faith and other things that go against their sexuality, more than being open about who they are. It's a decision that they have made, but they don't judge others who don't make the same decision. So today I know that there are different reasons why some men hide their true sexual orientation, and I have to put my money where my mouth is. That is, I claim that I am open minded and non-judgemental, so I dont' judge them or their situation, I only set boundaries with the ones who seem to need to attack gay men or trans people to reinforce their closeted status.

Just my thoughts. In all honesty, lack of kindness has been a constant in the gay community. For decades, I have witnessed some gay men treating each other like garbage for no reason. I see men trashing and assasinating the character of fellow gay men just for pleasure. That's not a new thing. In the provider world, kindness has been one of the needs that they fulfill for clients. However, if you look around the society where we live in today, seems like common courtesy and kindness are less and less. I think that it's a reflection of how we are living today (overall). Also, some providers do have an attitude of looking down on clients; they seem to think of clients as these "losers that need to pay to get some". Also, there's a difference in the way the newer generation communicates. What some of us in the older generation might find off-putting, to them it might be just communication. We do have to factor the fact that the way the newer generation views the world is different. The good thing is that those unkind providers can be weeded out since there are way more options available. When I encounter attitude or lack of courtesy, I just move on. Like the subway, there's always a next.

Hello, and welcome back to the industry. Consider your license and certification to practice in all states valid and current 🙂. As a client, I always want to see as much as possible, but depending on how those two pictures are and what they show, they may or may not be sufficient. I have hired providers who don't show face in their profile. Not ideal to me, but I figure that people have many reasons not to show their face (although sometimes they show things that can identify them, such as tattoos and outdoor places where they pose). If you create a profile with not too many pictures, my suggestion is to make the written portion of it rich in information, so prospective clients can have more information about what you can offer. That can help balance the limited amount of pictures. I have read discussions here of clients being suspicious of profiles with only a few pictures, or no face. So it could be a problem for you as a provider. Is there a reason why just two pictures? Could you add more, even if they don't show face? Maybe in time? Variety and versatility can be good selling points. Just something to consider.

Welcome to Philly, the city of poor attitude and mediocrity. That said, I've found the dismissive replies that don't address the questions in other providers. The moment that I get one of such answers, I just move on. There are plenty of providers to choose from, and I personally don't get hung up on one provider. If I get a response much later, depending on the response, I'd give the provider a chance. There are legitimate reasons for providers to not respond right away, such as traveling, tending other clients, or just self-care. To me it's more about the type of response I get. I've gotten a lot of poor attitude in Philly, so many times I don't even bother. Good that I travel and also have my reliable regulars in Philly. As for the things that the provider offers, to me those are things that the provider offers, not something that I have to do if I hire him. I don't buy everything there is on display in a store; I just go get what I need. Same thing with providers. Advertising that he is willing to do something doesn't mean that it's what I hire him for. When there are specialized providers, they are clear (in my experience) about what exactly they are after, what type of clients they are catering, and sometimes they even have photos. Best is to communicate, and of there's no response or a poor one, then that is comunicating something.

I don't see the point of it for a client. I can see the provider benefiting from the deal, regardles of him meeting his end of the bargain. As a client, nope!

I think that that's not a cheesy description of themselves. That pretty much states what you can expect from the provider. I see a difference between poor imagination and use of overinflated words when describing themselves, the use of cheesy gimmicks in prose and in their pictures (like the soccer players/construction workers/medical staff/police officers guys), and stating what their intent or what they are willing to be/do for you. Like you, I immediately dismiss any profile that involves "findom", "sugar daddy", or the actual use of the word "relationship" in certain contexts.

Just my view, and only my view. I dismiss some of the exaggerations and look at the overall information of the profile. That gives me a better picture of the provider. I have hired providers with cheesy phrases in their descriptions and other gimmicks and never had a reason to complain, but that's just me. I don't go to a bathhouse for the background music, so I don't visit a provider profile for his prose.

Interesting. I believe that may be the case, and I also felt good chemistry between us right away, from the very initial contact, something that I have rarely experienced. I certainly don't see fisting as a regular practice in my sex life, but yes, maybe because it was him, and we were both very present LOL! You made me laugh. I'm certainly not joining the Future Farmers of America either. I feel the same about getting fisted. Also, I did worry about my fingernails being too long and causing damage (it didn't stop me, though). Thank you all for your thoughts. I'm glad I found this place where I can share about this.

Just want to share this. Feel free to remove the post if not appropriate. Please know that in the Spanish-speaking world, the name Jesus is common. I know several people with that name, many parents name their children Jesus. So in my recent vacation to Puerto Vallarta, I met this massage provider named Jesus. It was in one of those places where masseurs stand at the entrance offering massages to any passersby (that they find suitable; some completely ignore me). Right from the initial contact I felt good chemistry between us, and about 5 minutes into the first massage we were already blwoing each other. He told me that he likes getting fisted, and although that's not my thing, I decided to say yes and went along with it. Now, that wasn't the first time that I incurred in the practice of fisting. My first ex, way, way back when (in the 80s) liked getting fisted, so I did it a few times for him. That was my introduction to that practice. After that, I've had a few encounters with some guys who wanted it, some I did fist, some I didn't. Never cared for that practice; I don't even think about it, and don't watch pornography that contains that practice, it's just not part of my sexual world. That is, until I met Jesus (why does that sound blasphemous?). So for some reason, I was very aroused and excited as I was in the process of doing the fisting. He was prepared (clean and with all the necessary materials for it). I don't know what was it about it this time that I could not get enough of him. We had an incredible session, and after the session we talked. He told me that he has a boyfriend who doesn't know what he does for a living (how on Earth?) and that he doesn't do what we did with everybody (not that I care one way or another), but he did say that he loved it from me. I left it at that, and then on another day I was zipping my coffee at a cafe, and he passed by, said hello, and we chatted a little. He invited me to another "massage session", which I accepted since, why not. Again, I was suprised by my level of arousal with him. Then there was a third session, and then a fourth session. At that last session, he gave me his number and we agreed to meet me later outside his workplace, so we got together and had an incredible time. We also learned a little about each other. Never in my life did I imagine that I'd be som much into anyone who likes a practive that I don't even think of. Back home, I loved my encounters with Jesus, but I still don't think about the practice of fisting as anything I want to integrate in my sex life. This experience feels like some kind of Christmas miracle (now I'm really being blasphemous), something that I enjoyed, was magical, but I don't think that I will be able to reproduce with anyone else. When I told my husband about my Jesus experiences, his body language (as I know him for decades) was telling me "don't even think about proposing doing that with me". I imagine that providers might step outside of their own preferences to cater some of their clients, but as a client, has anyone experienced something outside of their repretoire that turns out to be exciting? I'd like to know.

That's why we have eyes and metacognitive skills. Yes, I see a lot of stretching things, but it's no different than any other advertising. Not a big deal to me. In fact, two of my favorite providers are much older than the pictures they have in their profiles. They still look good, and they certainly did good.

Hope the venting here helps.

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When talking to the younger generation, I try to be more specific, both because they might not have heard of people from the past, and because they have the attention span of a gold fish. I'd say something like "in the XX decade, then senator XXX..." Also a new generation thing is assumming that every older person is some kind of pervert predator (in my case they got only the first part right).

That's strange. Not a great strategy for the provider. Well, you got two others.

I actually remember I read a book about the cases that the Espisodes of Law and Order are based on. Many episodes are inspired by true cases. My surprise is how many men have fathered children that way.

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If that's child pornography, I'm the reencarnation of the Mother Theresa. He's either looking for attention, money, both, or needs some therapy. Just signs of the times we're living.

Not in my area. Not sure why my town has so few travelers, never great and their stay is too brief. However, I myself travel and have treated me from an entire harem of provides (within reason). Not sure if it's the novelty of a new place or if my town is just that lame. I'd say don't go broke, but that's the kind of problems you might want to have.

I wouldn't necessarily state it the way Lucky has, but I share the same sentiment. Why is that news? If you don't have job readiness skills, if you resent having a 9-5 job (like most-to-all of us do), but refuse to shut up and do it anyway, you'll go broke unless there are priviledges in place. What makes her so special or news worthy? Does she think that we working people love going to work? I had to learn to work the hard way since I'm first generation college graduate, and the only career advice my parents could give me was "Learn" (excellent advice, but nothing else). Was wonderful advice, but I did have to learn to work and behave properly in the workplace, sometimes the hard way. I did it, but prefer not having to do the 9-5 thing, however, I shut up and do it because the alternatives to the 9-5 thing are not suitable for me. How come I'm not in the news for it? In fact, I think that a success story like mine has more relevance than some stupid little brat complaining that she's broke. Grow the fuck up, that's my advice to her.