soloyo215

That's good old fashion fear of intimacy. Just another made-up term.

1. Not women, depend on the men, don't care about cis or non-cis if I like it. 2. I don't feel like I am in a position to establish "acceptable" standards of exposure. If I don't like something, I just don't look again and keep minding my own business. My preference is men, and in all honesty, though I've never particularly look for them, if I see one and like it I don;t really analyze or place it in a category, so I couldn't tell about the context. 3. I choose not to answer that question. 4. See #3 5. I don't feel strongly about people revealing their chests. My only concern is in countries like the USA and England where a person might be threatened by others for it. Unfortunately, things like that become an issue because of the way most people think about the human body. In other countries, most people can't care less either way, though there should be a sense of decorum in certain circumstances.

I've gotten several of those "Hi". Have responded to some, and one ended up in a booking, the others were out of my area, but I had a nice conversation where I ended stating that I might consider them if I travel to where they are of if they come to my city. No harm done, just a nice, polite conversation. They reach out to prospective clients. I don't see anything wrong with it. It's more annoying when I get those from Dell and T-Mobile.

In some areas finding parking is a deal breaker. I live in an area where that's a major issue. Maybe that's an issue in that area, so it's worth mentioning.

I'm not sure what your point is. We already know the risks, plus, as I stated, risk is always present; it's a matter of our decision to take it and handle it. Plus you haven't mentioned anything that is exclusive to escorting. All those things can happen on your way to a 9-5 job.

There's always a risk in your reputation, your personal safety and your health (physical and mental), but that can also be said of many other professions outside escorting. In my experience, there are plenty of people who are professionals and have escorted in the past, many of which manage to hide it, or are in professions where that's not necessarily a deal breaker. Your choice of career outside escorting can determine how risky having been an escort is. Also, you may not need to advertise online. Escorting exists since the beginning of time, way before sites with profiles existed. Risk is always there, all we all can do is minimize it and decide which ones are worth taking. Best.

First, you don't know that Second, I don't have to explain things to you Third, re-read my post again. Fourth, stop trying to be a jackass with me. You're not going to win.

Re-read my post. I said how I stop them.

When it comes to MY beliefs, absolutely.

Maybe agreeing with them help stopping them, but I don't agree with them, and again, they are not entitled to have the last word, especially about what MY beliefs are. That might not be as important to others, but it is to me. Also in my experience, agreeing with them has been taken as I am interested, so they double down on their proselytizing, which is not exactly what I am interested. Some might back off at the first try, but most (again, in my experience) won't.

That's a huge no-no for me. If he's hot enough and good in every other aspect, I might try to politely letting him know to stop that Christian shit. In my experience, however, I know that they don't stop until they feel disrespected. To avoid things getting to that point (since I won't stop either until they get it - part of the problem with people like that is that they always want to have the last word in everything), I prefer to thank him, then just end it and block him.

Shout! Shout! Let it all out. You are in the right place here for this. I know that many of use claim that we don't care about what others think, but that's true only to some extent. Enjoy your hiring.

I understand it's short for submissive. "Bottom" doesn't necessarily means submissive. Then there's passive-aggressive "submissive", which are those (who I find annoying, not my thing) who claim to be in a submissive state but are in complete control of what happens in a session, even though they use a lot of "Sir" when talking.

I do have an age preference, but if I see what I like in the pictures and the profile, I might not care of age, real or not. It is not the most important thing I look for (within reason, of course). It's quite impressive if he can pass for a 32 year old being in his late 40s (at least). I wonder of he has gotten rejections over it, just curiosity.

I don't know. Never saw or heard of it before. He was definitely skillful.