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Maybe he has multiple personalities. Who knows? Too many providers, too many possibilities. You never know what might trigger a negative reaction in people.

My two cents, and please keep in mind that I'm talking hypotheticals, as I've never experienced anything remotely close to an entire week with a provider. I'd give half upfront and the other half at the end. Seems like a good compromise, especially since you know him so there should be a degree of trust in venturing to do that. Enjoy your time.

Last year I went to Oaxaca, Mexico, with the expectation that the place is like the cities in the coast or Mexico city. It turned out to be quite conservative and, though interesting in terms of culture, architecture and things to do, gay life seemed more like an afterthought. The availability of providers in the area was limited and not the best quality, especially in terms of safety. The experiences weren't terrible, but they were the least satisfying of the year. Guys I hired there were not the best providers.

I don't think "addiction" is the correct word to describe the times when I feel I can't get enough. In my case it's more like a binge of sort that stops at some point. After my initial first binge I've never been so actively hiring. I do hire but within reason and within my resources. I've never allowed hiring or providers interfere with my life, my family, my work or any other aspect of my life. I understand that one of the aspects of addiction is that it takes over people's lives, and fortunately, that's never been the case with me. My position is that for as long as it doesn't interfere with anything in my life, it's not an addiction, nor is it a concern of any kind. In fact, self-care was the original reason why I started hiring.

Personally, I can get a good sense of you and your looks, as well as the way you look now with your current pictures. Professional pictures definitely enhance your image, but personally, all I need dis to have a sense of how you look, and how you look now. Hopefully you don't decide to photoshop things to the point that they look unrealistic or misleading. Go for it.

Never the same experience, never at the same point, even with the same masseur. It does depend on what/how they're doing what they are doing, but it also depends on my mood and what I intent to get from the massage. Sometimes I've stopped a masseur from getting sexual with me.

I've seen (and felt) some who are quite thick. I can't attest for every picture, but I know for fact that some are real.

In porn, he's out of this world, with his award winning ass. Haven't had the pleasure of meeting him, though.

Le the bottoming experts share their perspectives. I hope this helps.

No, never. There are some that I don;t hire again after the first time, but those that I've seen more than once have been great. Yes, several, in different countries, two here in the USA where I live.

Actually, in my experience as a client, there have been providers who change (or have attempted to) their rates after booking, claiming that they "forgot to update my profile". Happened to me twice with masseurs. Considering that, it might be annoying to those who maintain their rates up-to-date, but to me as a client is a valid question. However, I don't ask "what is your rate", I make a statement like: "just to verify, it is $XXX for X amount of time, correct?". That shows that I am aware of what the profile says. The reality is that this type of work is prone to "misleading" information, so confirming everything is how I protect myself and my money. May I ask, is that a big bother to you and if so, why?

Hires total: don't know Where I met them Ireland Mexico Cuba New York New Jersey Pennsylvania Florida France Cities where I met them All outcalls Where they're based Didn't ask (my mouth was busy) Where they're originally from Didn't inquire, but my guess: Ireland, Mexico, Cuba, Puerto Rico, United States Their advertised positions Vers Base hourly rate Between $7 - $300 Didn't do bad. I didn't hire excessively (I have in previous years), I think I did just right.

Offended? It' a rather strange word to use. Anyway, I agree that it's unusual for this to happen three times with three different providers. My rule is that RM is no different than the rest of the world outside. There are great people, bad people, jerks, and the same everyday nonsense that one can find anywhere. I don't know if I've been block. I'd suggest to just move on. Providers can manage their business any way they choose, and if blocking people works for them, fine, saves time to those of us who have no time to waste in nonsense or in incompatible people.

Annoyed. It's my time, that I'm paying for, so they should be focusing on me. I have never felt emotionally attached to any of my providers, probably because some have attempted to be manipulative that way, and because emotional bonding is not what I am interested in. The stripper with daddy issues and an award winning ass, who took all my fun money last December in Puerto Vallarta, was that type, wanted to play with my emotions. I see right through that game, and I'm very good at recognizing psychological and emotional manipulation. Additionally, I'm neither alone nor lonely. My reasons to hire have nothing to do with craving company, love or support. I think people's particular situation in terms of the people that they have around them, love and socializing, all play a major role in being vulnerable to manifesting jealousy, becoming protective, etc. There's nothing wrong with feelings, but there can be many things wrong with how we act on them.

I am interested in the opposite. I prefer guys my height or shorter. Not sure why I find off putting to go out (or hire) a guy who's taller than me. I think it's just a matter of preference, and it's not written in stone. Some providers I've hired have been taller than me and I've enjoyed wit them as much, but I don't prefer them.