ShortCutie7

Very sexy guy… something about his pics turn me on in a way that not most ads do. Age is just a number; he looks like a twink to me!

if we’re using time machines, Maxwell Caulfield

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I think paying for videos/pics is a decent balance for having you fulfill your fantasy without getting anyone in trouble as long as he has no way of finding out who you are.

And THIS is how people live comfortably for less than 114k in NYC.

Interesting, I would say that the main reason that there can’t be a comparison is that it requires an entirely different kind of skill.

I totally get that. My point is that people are still greatly overestimating the income of even a relatively well-off New Yorker. According to the smartasset calculator, a $1500 weekly take-home in NYC would require an annual salary of $114,000. This is above the salary of most people I know who live comfortably in NYC and have good jobs with postgraduate degrees etc. While you can’t compare an hourly rate of a regular job to escorting, you can still do the math to see how many hours of work it takes to buy one hour of an escort’s time… in my case, it is way more than a full day. And I am a white male with a master’s and a decent job…

To be clear, I was the one doing the sucking. It made me feel much safer as a client and the escort still seemed to enjoy it.

Agreed. I did have a general idea of the subject matter going in but admittedly had to look up what happened during the first 20ish minutes because it was NOT clear at all. I’ve always wanted to see this show because I love the song “Pinball Wizard” and then listened to some of the other songs which I also really liked. The plot started off hard to follow (as I wrote above), then turned disturbing, then stupid. I was actually contemplating leaving at intermission for the first time in my life but I stayed because the singing was incredible and I wanted to hear some of the act two songs.

I requested my escort wear a condom for today’s hookup and he did- it was not flavored and I really enjoyed sucking it. If anyone reading this has ever considered using a regular condom for oral, I suggest giving it a shot!

I saw this tonight… outstanding vocals/performances, great music, and impressive production. But what an awful book… and I like pretty much everything 🤯

I just saw him today and had an amazing time! His Twitter looks fine on my end.

I saw Angus earlier today and am still floating on cloud 9! I only have one provider to compare him to, but as far as all of my sexual experiences, he is one of the best I’ve EVER had. He is gorgeous inside and out- stunning blue eyes, incredible cheekbones, smooth skin, and a perfectly lean body with a beautiful cock and butt to match. He was a warm, friendly, and very accommodating host. He asked my preferences/interests via messaging in advance and delivered exactly what I wanted without my having to verbalize it. He was generous with his time and body and I left feeling like a million bucks. Highly recommended!

It’s funny, today I ordered bacon at a diner I’ve been going to for my entire life, and the waiter said “aren’t you Jewish? I thought you couldn’t eat bacon!” And my response was “if I kept kosher, I wouldn’t be able to eat here at all!”

I personally think that the whole concept of graduation is kind of silly (“congrats, you did the minimum to pass… now let’s have your family travel potentially crazy distances to watch you walk across a stage while someone says your name”), but I do think that there is a societal expectation around a decent gift, so I’d say $100 bare minimum.

I HAVE seen plenty of people of all ethnicities/races (including white) smoking in NYC, but yes, it does seem like Chinese people (more than any other group) are the biggest offenders. What’s baffling about the weed in the air is that you smell it without being anywhere near someone smoking it… this is not the case with tobacco smoke or vape.

Sounds like you worked your ass off to be accommodating to your friend and it still wasn’t enough for her- you did nothing wrong in this situation. The pandemic has altered peoples’ brain chemistry in many ways (especially when it comes to things related to their health… myself included) and she’s not the same person you became friends with.

I regularly see people smoking in NYC (both cigarettes and weed). I HATE the smell of weed so was not happy when it was legalized and now smell it everywhere, even sometimes from inside a car with windows shut and no smokers in sight, which is bizarre. I actually don’t mind the smell of cigarette smoke, but am always surprised that it’s usually healthy-looking people who I see smoking.

I’d think a description of yourself would be sufficient so that there’s some amount of familiarity that the person the escort is meeting is the one who contacted him, as well as to alert the escort to anything major that could be a dealbreaker (ie I think it’s important that he knows how short I am).

I don’t think so… I made it very clear that I wasn’t looking for “now”. The nature of my conversations weren’t time-wasting (they weren’t lengthy, I just took a reasonable amount of time to respond) and part of the purpose of this tactic was to eliminate guys who were aggressive etc.

Lmfao as a 5’3 guy, it’s hilarious how some guys have no perception of how the number translates to a human… so many guys have told me I was shorter than they were expecting 🤣

Thank you! Part of the reason I hooked up with the undetectable guy in the first place was in an effort to actively fight the stigma in my mind (previously a poz status had been an automatic “no”). I felt comfortable/safe with the science in my brain before the hookup, but not after the fact subconsciously.

Woooofff 🤤 Just buddylisted him even though he’s not in NYC…

Yes, it’s inherently dangerous in that you’re alone (and often in a vulnerable position) with a stranger! He could rob you, hurt you, or even kill you! And beyond that, the potential embarrassment and/or illegality that comes with the encounter makes it less likely for the client to report the crime. My vetting process on Grindr involved chatting over the course of several days. My vetting process with an escort would involve ensuring he has multiple reviews by people who gave other reviews on RM and on here. The reviews don’t necessarily have to be positive but it’s important that he look like his pics and not be deceitful. For the one escort I have met, I was able to figure out his real-life identity and confirm that he was a real person with friends, family, etc.

You’re not alone! I once had a very very mild/vanilla hookup with a guy who was undetectable… I was too scared to go anywhere near his cum, and my mind was racing for weeks afterwards, thinking that I could have caught something just from making out with him (what if we both had cuts in our mouths and he didn’t take his meds, etc). This fear of STIs in general has essentially made me celibate for the last few years. I know my fear after that particular encounter was illogical, but I can’t deny that I had it and have to accept that it’s best for my mental health to simply avoid.