ShortCutie7

Exactly, it’s not the science I don’t trust; it’s the margin of error in people taking it… how many of us know a woman who took birth control “as directed” and got pregnant anyway? I would guess all of us… there’s an innate margin of error to literally anyone doing anything, even if they think they’re doing it right.

@lseactuary90 as a fellow 30-something in NYC I feel you (and have also never been in a relationship), and I really don’t think it has as much to do with you as it does the game itself. When I think of all of the gays I know who are around our age and in committed long-term relationships, I don’t think most of them met on apps or dating sites; they met through friends, work, activities, etc. When I was in the stage of my life that I was open to dating/a relationship (I genuinely don’t have the time for that now, but that’s another story), I went on a couple dates and had a few “mind-blowing” hookups, but they never went anywhere. My philosophy is that love will find me when the time is right.

And this is why I don’t trust PreP on its own and will always rely on a combination of condoms and vetting/very rarely fucking. I saw more than one “starred” Grindr guy’s status change from “on PreP” to “undetectable”.

Hot!!! Are the five stars just based on his profile or from meeting him?

It’s not, hence the discussions about “kosher-style” etc lol. I have and do like it a bit better than regular ketchup, but still don’t think it pairs well with the vast majority of dishes.

Totally! If I have a choice, I’ll usually go with honey-mustard for nuggets and A1 for a burger.

I don’t have any specific recommendations as a) I’m also new to seeing escorts b) I’m not interested in getting topped by an escort but, based on your description of yourself and what you want, you would probably be best off seeing a provider who identifies as bisexual or even straight. Do you have any preferences other than age and position that could help us narrow down the field?

I’ve done a significant amount of sexting via Facebook messenger in the past and never had an issue… I think you should be safe on there as long as you don’t bring up any illegal activity.

The pic where he’s lifting his shirt turns him from a “maybe” to a “yes” for me… has anyone here met him?

I eat ketchup only when there are no other sauce options with fries (on the rare occasion I eat them), nuggets/tenders, and burgers. I can’t fathom having it on eggs, steak, vegetables, etc.

I met AngusStevensxxx (linked above) a couple months ago and had a wonderful time. Very sweet and sexy in a “boy next door” way. He’s around 5’7 so was taller than me without towering over me (which most guys do).

Very surprised to hear that- I contacted him on Scruff (for a regular hookup) and he told me he was an escort, which is actually one of the things that led me to this website.

So, it looks like your preferences are: Latino, mid 20s-30s, muscular but not bulky, not completely clean-shaven, shapely butt, not a total top Here are some of my buddylisted guys who fit your criteria (none of whom I’ve contacted or met): https://rent.men/Lucas_Guess https://rent.men/AlejandroMc https://rent.men/BrunoMathias https://rent.men/MiguelZeus https://rent.men/BillyMontero https://rent.men/Mateo_fitx

Different strokes for different folks… Sanic is on my list!

I frequently see some amazing asses in form-fitting slacks walking around Chelsea in the morning!

This is ENTIRELY possible- I know lots of people whose appearances haven’t changed at all in the last 10-15 years. And grooming/attire/products can do a lot to make people appear significantly younger than they are. That said, you probably just lost a lot of (overweight) potential clients who may have been offended by this comment.

Appearance absolutely does matter in literally every aspect of life (regardless of whether or not it should), but all OP needs to do is inform the escort that/how his appearance is different from what it was when they met.

What a tight-looking torso! Do his abs feel as hard as they look?

They’re all insanely hot, but Bulgaria, Ireland, and Italy were the guys who stood out to me most in the montage.

I had Taco Bell today for the first time in years and was genuinely shocked by how good it was, and ordering on Seamless allows you to customize it (no sour cream, extra meat, etc).

As an NYC native, I find the hotness here fluctuates- some days there are gorgeous guys everywhere; some days there are none. When I went to Toronto (during the summer) about a decade ago, I couldn’t get over how hot the guys were.

Thanks so much!

Wow! I’ve never been on a ship without family, but the way I sometimes fantasized about the dancers/singers… if I had known it wasn’t strictly prohibited for them to mingle with guests, I could have potentially gotten into all sorts of trouble 👿

I’m in a somewhat similar situation to you, OP. I’m a little older than you and have been able to live on my own for a few months at a time here and there when school and work made it necessary. I am an only child and my father has been very very sick since I was a teenager (it is a condition that has not gotten worse but remained stagnant and he is completely unable to take care of himself). I live with my mother to take care of him, and now my mother is sick herself, so I take care of them both. Now that I’m in my 30s, I feel like I’ve never really had a “life” and completely missed the experiences others got to have in their youths. It’s incredibly frustrating, but the reality is that even if I were to get a place of my own, I would have to visit my parents so frequently that I would still not have a true sense of freedom. I guess I have no advice, but since your brother and sister-in-law don’t need you in the same way that my parents need me, you have nothing to lose by moving out, even if just as a trial for a few weeks.

Wow, this guy knows EXACTLY what he’s doing 😍