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Sometimes I do,  sometimes not.    As an escort,  I never equate  getting off with having a good time.   I almost always have a great time with a client.    
If I have multiple clients in a day,  it helps not to get off,  honestly.   There are some clients that prefer that their escort gets off with them,  but for others, it is about the service to them and their satisfaction.    I think its great to get off.    I don't think I ever think of it as an obligation.    

I would certainly be open to providing a "tickling session".   Would need to be clear what the client expected and satisfy the need, so to speak.

I've had a number of clients tell me they would like a "BFE" and I always ask them to define what they mean.   I've heard a lot of different descriptions.   I largely view it as being open and flexible,  including things like kissing and cuddling  (but not always).  Also there can be some "implied"  things there,   like  tenderness,  good communication and even  (gasp)  acting like a gentleman.    A good provider will take the time to find out what a client expects before agreeing to provide the service.

Very interesting for sure.   Glad you linked the article.    

I wanted to share this really great article I read in Esquire.  Though it is (of course) about women sex workers and their johns... it's important that this kind of insight, nuance, honesty is continued to be amplified so that people see the truth but also the nuance in SW.
Their can certainly be "issues" with sex workers/exploitation etc... but when you remove the religious morality, there is also so much benefit including connection/outlet/fetish/exploration/freedom.  Many healthy people (such as myself) are doing what I've been told more than once is "god's work" without trauma, drug use, desperation or whatever other narratives there are!
Love to hear what others think:
https://www.esquire.com/lifestyle/a70422997/sex-worker-nevada-brothel/

So after discussion with my doctor about changes with Prep, I decided to set aside the Descovy and do the semi annual injection.  That was after a lot of discussion.     Two shots right in my lower stomach or upper abdomen.  It wasn’t pleasant and a bit of discomfort for a week.  Will decide if I want to do it again in September.  Kind of a mixed view, but we’ll see.  Any thoughts or personal experience?

So after discussion with my doctor about changes with Prep, I decided to set aside the Descovy and do the semi annual injection.  That was after a lot of discussion.     Two shots right in my lower stomach or upper abdomen.  It wasn’t pleasant and a bit of discomfort for a week.  Will decide if I want to do it again in September.  Kind of a mixed view, but we’ll see.  Any thoughts or personal experience?

So after discussion with my doctor about changes with Prep, I decided to set aside the Descovy and do the semi annual injection.  That was after a lot of discussion.     Two shots right in my lower stomach or upper abdomen.  It wasn’t pleasant and a bit of discomfort for a week.  Will decide if I want to do it again in September.  Kind of a mixed view, but we’ll see.  Any thoughts or personal experience?

To be honest, the only thing holding me back from going the semiannual injection route is the cost.

So after discussion with my doctor about changes with Prep, I decided to set aside the Descovy and do the semi annual injection.  That was after a lot of discussion.     Two shots right in my lower stomach or upper abdomen.  It wasn’t pleasant and a bit of discomfort for a week.  Will decide if I want to do it again in September.  Kind of a mixed view, but we’ll see.  Any thoughts or personal experience?

So after discussion with my doctor about changes with Prep, I decided to set aside the Descovy and do the semi annual injection.  That was after a lot of discussion.     Two shots right in my lower stomach or upper abdomen.  It wasn’t pleasant and a bit of discomfort for a week.  Will decide if I want to do it again in September.  Kind of a mixed view, but we’ll see.  Any thoughts or personal experience?

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You remind me of an opposing counsel  trying to argue his client's position in court.   You certainly have your opinion and I have mine.    I provide the service,  One needs to be aware of emotional attachments and be candid and straightforward about  undue personal attachments.     In my business it isn't a problem.    Enough said.

It shows nothing except someone who wants to create an issue  when in this instance there isn’t one.

As a provider,  I'm certainly aware that several of my regular clients  have some degree of emotional attachment.    I'm a professional person by nature  (and via regular career),  so it can be an interesting "tightrope"  to walk to do a job,  be balanced and logical and provide a very personal service.    Think about it,   it really is a contrast and to navagate it appropriately can require talent.   I am not into drama,  I'm there to provide a positive service that means something to the recipient.

Have had several long time restaurants go out in Kansas of late.   Very sad.   The latest a family owned German restaurant in Newton.   It had been serving the community for 43 years.  Apparently the building was sold and the owners of the restaurant retiring.   The new owners don't want to continue the restaurant.    Another favorite mexican restaurant shut due to tax reasons  and another had declining attendance due to pricing  (but when the announcement was made they were closing,  they were swamped).    Times change I suppose.

Have had several long time restaurants go out in Kansas of late.   Very sad.   The latest a family owned German restaurant in Newton.   It had been serving the community for 43 years.  Apparently the building was sold and the owners of the restaurant retiring.   The new owners don't want to continue the restaurant.    Another favorite mexican restaurant shut due to tax reasons  and another had declining attendance due to pricing  (but when the announcement was made they were closing,  they were swamped).    Times change I suppose.

Very tragic.   I also read the story about the son.   Troubling.   Thoughts and prayers to their family.   A real loss.

For years I would always say,  "I've never spent any money toward a lottery ticket"  and then with the jackpot at some unbelievable level,  I bought two.    Haven't ever since.

It was a great time and a lot of good food.    Enjoyed time with friends and family.    I hope it was a good day for all!

Whether it be Thanksgiving or the Christmas holidays,  its always a busy time for about everybody.   With that in mind,  a regular client asked if I would have any time on Thanksgiving day for a booking.    He's a regular when he's in town seeing family or on business.    He said he would add a bonus since "time for all on this day is at a premium".    I hadn't planned bookings on Thanksgiving because of time with family and friends and my desire to rest a bit.   In the end,  we weren't able to make it happen because of his schedule.    Not a problem.
So he is rescheduling for Saturday,  but said he still owes me the bonus because he promised it.    I told him he owes me nothing beyond my basic rate,  but he said he'd feel bad if he doesn't provide it.    We then had a conversation about how both viewed it.     He said it would be a "holiday bonus"  for good service.     I appreciate it.
I assume many providers here have had something similar.     I hope you all had a very nice Thanksgiving and a good weekend ahead.

Whether it be Thanksgiving or the Christmas holidays,  its always a busy time for about everybody.   With that in mind,  a regular client asked if I would have any time on Thanksgiving day for a booking.    He's a regular when he's in town seeing family or on business.    He said he would add a bonus since "time for all on this day is at a premium".    I hadn't planned bookings on Thanksgiving because of time with family and friends and my desire to rest a bit.   In the end,  we weren't able to make it happen because of his schedule.    Not a problem.
So he is rescheduling for Saturday,  but said he still owes me the bonus because he promised it.    I told him he owes me nothing beyond my basic rate,  but he said he'd feel bad if he doesn't provide it.    We then had a conversation about how both viewed it.     He said it would be a "holiday bonus"  for good service.     I appreciate it.
I assume many providers here have had something similar.     I hope you all had a very nice Thanksgiving and a good weekend ahead.

Whether it be Thanksgiving or the Christmas holidays,  its always a busy time for about everybody.   With that in mind,  a regular client asked if I would have any time on Thanksgiving day for a booking.    He's a regular when he's in town seeing family or on business.    He said he would add a bonus since "time for all on this day is at a premium".    I hadn't planned bookings on Thanksgiving because of time with family and friends and my desire to rest a bit.   In the end,  we weren't able to make it happen because of his schedule.    Not a problem.
So he is rescheduling for Saturday,  but said he still owes me the bonus because he promised it.    I told him he owes me nothing beyond my basic rate,  but he said he'd feel bad if he doesn't provide it.    We then had a conversation about how both viewed it.     He said it would be a "holiday bonus"  for good service.     I appreciate it.
I assume many providers here have had something similar.     I hope you all had a very nice Thanksgiving and a good weekend ahead.

Opening 140 new locations that bring profit while closing 140 underperforming locations is not stagnation. It's all about cash flow when you're running a large corporation.