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Well we had a headline this week none of us have ever seen before, but I can't say more since it's political....haha

Of course I laughed out loud, but remember, we can't make political remarks....lol

Well... if I responded it would be considered a political remark, so I won't answer. haha

I consider myself a victim when it comes to an ALDI...lol We have one about 6 miles from my home. I've never been in there as my perception says it is a place more expensive than a typical grocery store. Perception may not be reality. I should take the time and get my butt in there and check it out. Even if more expensive, there are things that can override the perceptions and make it worth it for me to go in there.

Thanks very much. Great answer and jives with my thinking as well.

But his ad or information got your attention didn't it? For me, size is only one part of the whole package. If he was 8 inches, I wouldn't care if he was good otherwise and was accurate with his photos and description.

So I've been lucky enough to have 2 photographers who have done a number of fitness photo shoots in some great locations. They are not professional photographers and those who specialize in nudes or artistic photos are few and far between in the middle of the country. Just curious how many providers use professional photographers and if so, if you are comfortable in recommending contact information. If they are located in the middle of the country, that helps. I do have one noted who is in LA and is originally from Kansas and does a fantastic job. Thoughts?

Some great advice and I would agree. After the first or 2nd time with a provider, you will loosen up and be much more comfortable. Prudent behavior and a thoughtful approach is always wise, but you get the hang of it and have a great time.

My beagle, “Gabe” goes tomato hunting in my garden

I realize the post was in January, but celebrate again… lol

Best wishes for an awesome birthday!

I've noticed that if you post incorrectly the moderators will put the thread in the correct "department". Happy to give input!

Seek a discount on "Growlr".... LOL Seriously, I'd probably hit him up on the Growlr site and see if he says anything about being a provider. If so, you know how to handle it, if not, you might get a hookup for less.

Never have had that experience, but I think this post is a reminder that "professionalism" includes a defensive stance with your own personal information. It is very easy to become comfortable with someone who seems sincere and friendly, but who can turn on a dime. Thanks for the reminder and I hope you have no issues from those who seemed too nosy.

So I was just curious about views by both client on provider on a client providing transportation (flying) a provider across the country for service or for a weekend getaway? I'm sure it happens all the time. I have been flown to Toronto for a weekend, but that followed considerable discussion. It was a great experience for me and all worked well. I have had others in the "talking stage" about services and transportation, but I tend to approach it very carefully. Thoughts? Experiences?

Would enjoy checking this out sometime when I'm in Dallas. Never actually been to a male strip club previously so would be interesting for sure.

Always love visiting Key West, always wanted to make it an annual event, then COVID and the hurricane down there, thus it has been several years since I've been. Have really missed it. This thread has been helpful, but I'm not surprised in the increase in prices. I have a friend who goes every year and he gives me a report. He was there in June. Still hope to return soon.

I hope you have a soft drink option as well. I don't drink much at all and certainly not while swimming.

Very sad indeed. We in Kansas haven't had smoke this year. That happens when the Rockies have a lot of fires. I hope it can come to an end with the start of fall.

Well I can understand the concern. Good health is important and imperative for someone who works as a provider. Who knows what it is, but for his own welfare, he should have had it checked out, diagnosed by a physician and take whatever care to solve it for everybody's welfare. If it were me, I'd probably pass (like what was said above). It gives me a creepy feeling. I hope all goes well with whatever decision is made.

Great answer, I would concur.

I generally know my schedule for an evening and while I'm not thrilled at seeing a client late during an evening, I'm able to plan. I have been contacted a number of times, especially on a Friday or Saturday night for service. I have responded and have shown up. Much depends on the location and specifics of the booking request. I value my sleep time and the need to be dependable, so a fair balance. I can say, it isn't something I look forward to!

No..... But then I'm an escort. I have a different take as a provider. If you are concerned about disease or would worry about catching something, never do it. Nothing is worth the experience if you are going to be uncomfortable afterward.

Working as an escort requires professionalism on so many levels. One is to fill the "service need" of the client and provide service in a way that is satisfying for them. Basic comfort level and attitude vary for a number of reasons. New client, regular, history, so many things. One thing I try to avoid is any sort of personal "attachment" or the development of emotional feelings. I had a regular client that used to talk to me about "my falling in love with him" at some point. Never did understand where that came from. He is a nice guy, but he wasn't someone I'd date. We finally had to have a conversation about that statement. Sure I kid around with some of my clients, but in the end, I'm there to perform a service for them. Thoughts? For providers, have you ever had a problem with emotional attachment? For clients, has it ever been an issue?