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So I've always thought that a referral from an existing client to a new one on ones services is almost the best case scenario, regardless of the kind of business! When I first started in this business, I only worked from referrals. It was kind of a "safety net" for me I think. For both the clients out there and escorts, how much importance to you place in a referral. Does a referral from a friend mean more than one you simply read or hear about?

I hope all went well!

So was at my general doctor's office yesterday. He's a great physician and we've always clicked. I missed my physical in 2022, so I got chided for that, but mostly asked a lot of questions and got the update. All very positive with the basics. Due to family history, I like to be tested with my blood sugar (for diabetes). I go through everything, including an HIV test (which I do monthly, but just not through my regular doctor). I received a tetanus shot and recommendations on a variety of things upcoming. Was applauded with the continued commitment to fitness and what a difference it makes. The largest thing was the confidence the physical gives in knowing your health based on facts and testing. It really adds positivity to your day and work!

I was too young and wasn't out at the time, but glad to read about you. What a great resource to others. I hope you will participate and share your experiences. Thank you for coming back on!

I heard she was on that program

A very good point. Because of my own background, I immediately think about potential legal liability. What a mess!

Interesting commentary for sure. I appreciate all the responses.

Courtyard area

Definitely into landscaping and gardening. Grew up with an appreciation from my parents with anything garden oriented. Have done much of the landscape work at my new home and totally love it!

So I was curious how fellow providers here handle drug use by clients? I don't use drugs, as a fitness advocate, I'm absolutely opposed to all drug use and really don't like to be around it. I announce it in advance during the booking process. I've had a few experiences with clients who are high and generally handle it gracefully and depart. Have had a couple of perspective clients who "PNP" tell me they don't hire escorts who don't. Good for them. Thoughts and ideas on your approach with it?

A great reminder, thank you. Health is our own responsibility and I'd never take the initiative with a client unless I was fully protected. We all know what we should do to be respectful of ourselves and others. Unfortunately, there are those that neglect both.

I think you have it correct. He has cities where he has regulars, but will not travel to new cities unless he has several bookings. If it goes well, he'll scout out the area for a return. Sounds like good planning to me

So now the benefits of being bathed in it? Lol

Definitely odd for sure. I’d beware and watch

Many good thoughts!

LOL, not sure I ever have seen the word "prudent" used in conjunction with sex chat, but there is a first. I think the conversation was more about jacking off than reality. I've never been on Grindr before, but whether Adam or any other app, ghosting or "changing course" is pretty common. I'd take it for what it is. An example of someone horned up and in a fantasy most likely.

Good morning and a happy Saturday! Looking warm and steamy here in Kansas. What are your plans for this day? Gym time here, mowing on the agenda. Bookings later, but plan to enjoy the day and clean up the new Camaro. Hello from one of my 3 beagles, “Scout-Scout”.

How much my mother enjoyed "The Waltons" and "Dallas" two nights in a row How a remote worked as a little kid (and my uncle explaining it was a new feature). I don't really remember a TV without a remote, however. A specific election (but since politics was banned here, I'll just say the comments from my parents in dismay). My first Ralph Lauren polo shirt as a kid (now a closet full)

I'd be apprehensive to provide a credit card number at this stage, but this could really a viable form of payment for future transactions. I'd be open, provided security was clear. I remember when "paypal" first came about and I had to get over the "safety principal". We all have security concerns in today's world. I think the original posters concerns are valid.

So how many escorts out there have been asked by a potential client if they (the escort) would provide location for the booking? Now it can make sense if the escort is in a hotel and centrally located in a city. What I have found a bit odd are local clients who make that request. I usually just tell them that it is their responsibility to provide the location. I'd prefer not to have clients (regulars could be an exception) in my home and they should take the initiative. Thoughts? Maybe it is just my own way of thinking and needs adjustment here.

I have. I've been into landscaping since I was a kid and was hired to mow a client's front yard and weed his front landscaping once.. We proceeded to his bedroom after I cleaned up. I even got a tip for extra duty. He had family coming in and his mowing company couldn't do his yard in time.

Being a new member, I can certainly can appreciate the efforts past moderators, posters and participants put in here. My only experience is "Realjock.com", which started in 2006. Great site here and kudos to past members who gave time and work!

I do remember lAs the World Turns”. I watched during college and graduate studies. What a nice way to take my mind off school requirements!