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Always appreciate going into Costco!

Yeah, so its kind of a disconnected thread considering the emphasis of the site, but what the hell.... So I'm ready to do my weekly grocery shopping here in Kansas and I ask you to go along. So are you a shopper who buys all their groceries at once for a 2 or 3 weeks or do you go every couple of days for just a few things that you want immediately? Do you plan in advance as far as what you are buying or are you an impulsive buyer? So we walk in and you immediately realize I know the store and basically follow the same pattern each time I go in. I know what I'm getting in advance (plus or minus a item or two). What about you? Are you most concerned about price of each item (and compare with the generic brnads? Quality of each item and price isn't an issue. or are you a 3) You don't care and just want to get in and out quickly? Are you a mix and why does it work for you as a shopper. I'm very aware of how much I'm spending and I always look at what's offered, but I won't sacrifice quality just to save a few cents or a buck or two. I usually know my bill within a few dollars before I go through the check register. Finally, do you like grocery shopping and do you do the self checkout? So we're done, you passed! I had a great time shopping with you, now you owe me lunch, since I drove....haha.

I think that's awesome. I have a college friend who teaches Yoga as a side. I've always been interested, but have never made the time. Kudos to you for it.

Glad I happened on this topic and read it. With it being September of 2023, now is a great time to think about helping those that might be alone with the holidays by being kind and making them a part of yours. Clearly no therapy, other than kindness. I hope the OP, made it through the holidays and is a better position this year. I was impressed that another member stepped up and gave some significant advice to consider. I always include an older gay friend (whose husband died some years ago). He is always alone at the holidays despite having a lot of friends and we include him in either Thanksgiving or Christmas gatherings. I know the cold (and dark) winter months can be tough as well.

I know you shared your thoughts previously with me. Much appreciated! Looking forward to checking it out in person!

I have 3 clients that enjoy WS, one is absolutely giddy about the prospect of my participation.

Have been to the Grand Canyon twice in my life, the last being in 2019 with a great week there full of hiking and exploration...... my favorite kind of vacation, especially to a National Park. The first was when I was 5 and while I remember it, my parents weren't about to let me do any exploring, which I was into even then! Never have been to the north Rim of the Canyon. I saw the connection to the northeast of the south rim, but not enough time. I've heard a variety of things about it. Anyone here been there and how does it fare for trails and hiking?

Mine is more for general fitness. Sounds like you got it going for sure. The 30 minutes of dance conditioning and the splits stretching sounds great.

I have been a member of "Realjock" (RJ as we long time members call it) It has had a politics forum since the beginning and has gone nothing but downhill. It used to be reasonable conversation (but heated), then gradually changed through the last 6 years into each side tossing out their views and not commenting on the other in a reasonable manner. Today, there are only a few participants, still throwing out their "sock it to em" approach and generally not much said to the other side, except for name calling and demeaning comments. I think the removal here was wise. No minds changed, no reasonable conversation and a lot of negative feelings. Probably best to move on.

Physical fitness has always been very important to me, even as a kid when I was more a geek, but I took up horseback riding and showing. Working as an escort can be demanding and taxing on ones physical (and mental) capacity. For escorts, what do you do to stay in shape? How much time in the gym? Cardio workouts and resistance work? As a fitness advocate, I do a morning workout set 5 days (at least) a week and in the gym 4 days. It really is a fitness lifestyle, however with diet and incorporating some quiet time to relax and appreciate the day's work and achievements.

Thanks for taking the time and for such good advice. My only point we'd disagree is on the Ralph Lauren polos. LOVE RL polos and have been wearing them since I was a kid. Today I wear the mesh, slim fit cut all the time. I look great and feel comfortable. I have made an effort "diversify my position" and include some great form fitting T shirts and a larger variety. Banana Republic chinos were a great addition. I get mine off of their "Banana Republic factory" site, guessed the right size and actually really like them (miracles never cease). LOL. Thanks again. Your input is always appreciated!

Perhaps your "wellness exam" could be conducted in the office of a Registered Dietician

A pleasant surprise for sure. Glad they took the responsibility and made things right. In this case, perhaps they were of a different mindset or didn't know... or maybe it was a rough day, none of which is an out for the earlier behavior, but glad to know they gave you the consideration.

Feel free to chuckle. I've found it an interesting conversation as I've never discussed it previously with anyone.. If you think I created it as an "attempt" at anything, your sadly mistaken. I've been asked, I have views and like anything else here, worthy of conversation.

I'm sure it can be a challenge finding the right kind of guy no matter whether one is in NY or in Kansas. I think the answer is the same no matter what kind of provider is sought. Look through Rent.Men in the NYC area and take the time to talk to them and assess what is important. I definitely would look for one who is experienced, professional, and you click on a personal level.

Sorry for such a tough experience. I do like how you put it in "investment terms". I guess it is up to the clients as to whether a "risky investment" is the order or a lower cost, stable approach. I do agree, we all are stupid occasionally!

I would hope not. I liked part of what you expressed as you talked about the "experience". A good escort should always be concerned about the client and the kind of experience he is having. It can be a challenge when you don't know the client, but adequate texting in advance should yield a clue. My only suggestion (as I 'm sure you already know) is to evaluate whether the provider has an understanding of what you really want and are on the same wavelength.

I actually did do something like this, during the past week. It was the client I talked about on the thread I started on "nervous clients". We chatted, I kissed him and got him undressed and had what I call an "introductory session". It was a little less than what I charge for an hour, but I know he considered it an awesome experience and loved the blowjob. I'm trying to create a long term client here and for me, the positive nature of the experience was the single most important thing. He won't be nervous next time.

Well said, I've had a friend of mine remind me of that again and again. Thanks for the reminder.

Both of my parent's have had their own unique commentary at times. My mother bringing up "Judas" during moments of discomfort or irritation. Dad much the same. I grew up in a household where some curse words were acceptable, "damn" and "hell" were used by them, but "fuck" would never be uttered. Even if I use it today, I'd be reminded I'm not too old to have my mouth washed out with soap.

I've actually never been to a "bathouse" before. One in Toronto was pointed out to me during one of my visits, but have never been in one. Interesting thread. Good information for those who enjoy them.

Interesting experience. Glad it made you think and you talked about it here. I have seen several men transitioning to women, the last being at Petsmart. I always make never to stare and never act like anything is out of the ordinary in any way. I always tell myself that I need to improve my understanding and never to react in any way, except in an open and friendly way.

Very sad to hear the news that Jimmy Buffett has passed at 76. 9/1/23 Several good friends are "Parrotheads" and I tend to hear the music quite frequently. Always enjoy it. Always will think of him and the "Endless summer" poster I have up in my bar area in his honor. RIP Jimmy!

Sounds like a fantastic time, I'm sure he will appreciate it. A happy weekend.

That's crazy and totally unprofessional. I talk about the need for professionalism at every level. You were a very able, very capable client who could have walked away an advocate for these two ungrateful men. Instead, a bad experience to report. I don't ask for photos from perspective clients, its always nice, but not required and I certainly don't need to know your age. You are hiring the escort, it isn't an approval process by them!