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Absolutely it should be discussed. I think there is a discussion between two people about PDA when dating or in a relationship, whether straight or gay. When a provider is being hired for the first time, it should be made clear as to expectations. Don't leave it to guessing.

Hey Drew, yeah, 've been "checked out" by a cashier as well, trust me. Haha

Interesting headline, I wasn't sure if it was a typo or some new form of rentmen "resentment". LOL I think it's a great idea, to gain experience and input on technique in preparation for their exam or certification. Hopefully nobody will take advantage of them.

Wow, quite a shocker for sure. Glad he was held responsible for the murder and glad your association with him was limited. Definitely a creepy feeling and reading this makes you think for sure......

Well as an escort, I certainly concur on the Arab men sentiment, but I don't know any Arab escorts. I would expect there are some good ones. Definitely some hot men out there.

Thanks for the note, I will put it on my schedule and explore options. You might disclose location for us "newbies".

So I appreciate the humor in my previous thread on "our trip the grocery store"! Some interesting comments and things to consider. I kept waiting for someone to talk about the "check out" process and nobody did. SO, do you do the self check out (which so many want you to do, like Kroger's or Walmart (so I hear, I don't do Walmart typically) I find the self check out process a little aggravating, but I don't really mind. As an analyst, I like to evaluate the costs of everything and make sure I'm getting the item at the price advertised. Sometimes it doesn't appear that way and the self check out allows you to be on top of that. I do find the bagging a little cumbersome, but I'd rather do it myself than wait in line. Sometimes you have checkers and people (in front or back of you) who are great conversationalists ), but you also get the occasional challenged individual.

Much appreciate the "brand" discussion. It you had to choose, which sheet brand for percale feels the best, is most durable and the best value for the money (not necessarily the least expensive). Certainly curious here.

Yet another education on this site! I learned a little something about bed sheets and linens. Mine are pretty typical, so reading with interest. Much appreciate the input!

I took it as real cancellations or just vanishing without booking. The second part of your comment is a problem. I guess the provider has to be discerning enough to know if the prospect is a real candidate or a flake. I realize that can be problematic.

I would hope that wouldn’t be an incentive

You did nothing offensive. Unfortunately, there isn't a "preset" etiquette regarding this sort of thing. I have seen clients of mine outside of bookings and most I have waved or spoken to. If a client speaks to me, I'm never uncomfortable. I know a lot of people from different areas of my life and to wave to someone else would mean nothing to someone I just happened to be with. If questioned (as I have been) I say, "he's just a client", and we move on. My suggestion is that if this bothers you, you might ask the provider if seen, how would you prefer I act? That way, everybody knows and it isn't an issue, although I just don't like the "undertone" of it personally.

So there was a discussion in the "Age Shaving" thread about expectations and what clients may want or expect from providers. Some mentioned that "age shaving" helps some to fit into the fantasy of what a client may be looking for in an experience with a provider. Interesting discussion and this thread goes a little beyond the former. The reality is, clients seek very different things from providers. Sure, many might want the young twink, but others may seek a more mature provider, others may appreciate a provider life experience, confidence and education for conversation. Some client may even seek out a provider with specialties in certain areas. So this thread asks two questions. 1) If you are an escort or provider, what do you bring to the table that a cleint may find attractive, satisfying or desirable and 2) If you are a client, what do you seek from your provider and why would you hire him again? I'll talk about my own later in the thread.

Now I'm disappointed, I thought maybe a new "fountain of youth" had been discovered!! lol Seriously, I'd rather just give your age and be the absolute best you can be.

Well said.

I usually don't pay much attention to them, except to say hello. I'll have to check the food out more closely!

Well I can see why the OP has an issue with the process, but here's the reality. In this business, you have to expect some "ghosts" occasionally. People who book and back out last minute. I don't usually have a problem with a regular client doing that. Some new clientele will naturally pull it. If you have an RM account, you likely have nudes. I always have had. I have no problem with a prospective client seeing me nude via photo before we meet. I suppose I'd rather he pay for it via "Only fans", but I don't have an OF account at this point. Limit the nude photos to one or two if needed, always make sure the photos are recent, clear and honest and move along.

I have no problem with charging $300 in Kansas.

I've been briefed on the event, it would be awesome to attend next year!

Likewise, I have no doubt we share many of the same thoughts and ideas on a number of issues. Make it an awesome weekend!

Great comments, V_Marco!

Part of the reason I waited 6 months for my "Jason" garden tub. 2 people fit very nicely here....

Bring on the main events! LOL

Taken a tub? It can be very sensual in a tub, Mr S!

So what do you enjoy the most, bathtub or shower? So I like my showers in my home, but love to relax in my garden tub. I’m not adverse to sex in either place so my favorite depends on my mood and if I’m with a client, what they desire. You?