cmennow

The new format of chat off to the right side is terrible compared to before. Things over time should improve, not be made worse. I also liked seeing while interacting how their viewer counter would flux, depending on what they are doing, and that feature is now gone.
 
Also, men sneaking women onto the "men" side. That's called "couple". The rapid pace that tokens get depleted when going private is also frustrating. Based on all of these factors, as well as ones mentioned by others, it's why I save my money to see hunks in person - way more bang for my buck.

I tend to see the same guys over and over so it's inevitable that at some point they think they are going to be able to perform and can't for whatever reason. It doesn't happen often but it's bound to happen. I don't sweat it though because I know their "potential" LOL:p If it's a new guy that is their one and only chance to impress me.

I'm usually rolling my eyes:rolleyes:. I'm a trooper so I work with the guy hoping that something will kick in and he will be all that he is supposed to be but after a while, I tell him to get dressed and get out LMAO?

It doesn't take that to get into the White House. Apparently.

It doesn't take that to get into Mar a Lago

They are just too vague. Saying that "he was amazing" while not disclaiming that he did was getting sucked, that equate to the worst earthquake ever for me.
 
If reviews were based on a questionnaire then yes. That d be amazing
 
Yes/No (some could be 0 to 10 ranking)
 
Did he kiss?
Did he bottom?
Bareback?
Did he rim?
Price?
 
.... and so on.

It's definitely crossing the line to ask for details blow by blow (no pun intended), but I think it's ok to ask: is he a clock watcher?, was he present and engaged?, can he keep it up? Those are basic questions just to give you a starting place with the escort. Your experience with them will be your private experience which may or may not work for you even after knowing those basics. But to reply and say, "I had a good time" or "I would stay away from this guy" does not help at all and I have received many of those responses. I always try to give someone enough to make a wise decision in hiring.

It's definitely crossing the line to ask for details blow by blow (no pun intended), but I think it's ok to ask: is he a clock watcher?, was he present and engaged?, can he keep it up? Those are basic questions just to give you a starting place with the escort. Your experience with them will be your private experience which may or may not work for you even after knowing those basics. But to reply and say, "I had a good time" or "I would stay away from this guy" does not help at all and I have received many of those responses. I always try to give someone enough to make a wise decision in hiring.

Some guys adjust their rates depending how expensive the area is. I don’t know if that’s the case with this escort but it’s a possible reason for the variant rates.

It's not much fun giving head to a guy who can't get hard.

I tend to see the same guys over and over so it's inevitable that at some point they think they are going to be able to perform and can't for whatever reason. It doesn't happen often but it's bound to happen. I don't sweat it though because I know their "potential" LOL:p If it's a new guy that is their one and only chance to impress me.

While in school (NYU) I had a boyfriend (short term) from Cuba. He was drop dead gorgeous..handsome beyond belief...Green eyes..beautiful skin...He followed me everywhere. When we finally got together and ended up close to the bedroom he pulled out a big fat curved piece of meat..Unfortunately for me and him it reeked and was sporting white chunks of ???...The smell and the thought of makes me gag. After a thorough cleaning he ended up piercing my waterbed with a bracelet he wouldn't remove. End of story. End of him.

This seems to have gotten more complicated than I had anticipated. Everybody has their niche and their preferences. I will always be looking for those guys who readily state that they love getting sucked off. For some, it’s their favorite way to share a load. Those, my friends, are my kinda guys.

And in all honesty, that’s exactly what turns me off. I want that niche of provider that almost prefers oral service over anything and really gets off on turning his dick over to a cocksucker to be edged and drained. It really is a disappointment to get with a provider who has to kack himself off the Cum. To me it says that we weren’t a good match in the first place.

From a gay guy who has lived more than 5 decades: It's really simple, and complicated. Gays don't want to date, mostly fuck. Also, gays are complicated and the older we get, things get worse. Just the other night I had put so much hope in this date, turned out to be a tragedy cause I discovered in the process that I had nothing in common with who I thought it was going to be Mr. Right (or at least Mr Right for a while), so I ended up calling one of my regular guys to save the night. I apologize in advance if I appear to cynical with this I'm going to say: I think most gay guys get into relationships just to divide bills, have a better standard of living, and then open the relationship so they can get in the end what they were really looking for, to fuck with as many guys as possible. Human beings as most mammals are not monogamous by nature. Monogamy is a social convention. Marriage is a contract of sex work paid in installments.

I think the only thing that was wrong was that you weren't able to get a video of the incident to post here for all of our enjoyment...?

Not a dumb question at all. I go to www.hideme.be and enter the guy’s RM link. Comments from RM clients are visible.

HEY, if you do take the plunge, you can safely say, “You hit Rock Bottom!”

I haven't hired him, but I saw him and his partner in a hotel lobby while visiting another escort once sometime last year and neither one lives up to their pictures enough to make me want to pursue

No.
 
I find it hard to judge anyone’s actions during a pandemic.
It’s uncharted territory for all of us and I try to be as forgiving
of “unacceptable“ behavior as I can be. Yes, it reveals many
peoples true nature, but it also fogs the fuck out of the lens.

thank you cmennow; you might've just saved my life.
 
seriously.

I have met some of my longer lasting arrangements on CL back in the day. Too bad it is not like it used to be.

Ahhhh Craigslist. Literally haven't thought of that site in years! I too used to look at the men for women section. I didn't take the plunge often, but did once. There was one particular guy that struck my fancy - tall, muscular, and just hot. Probably 6'2", 230ish, college jock type. I took a chance and hit him up with just casual chat, which led to him telling me he would be open to something with another guy and he had thought about it before. We only met once, but it is a great memory!

I have met some of my longer lasting arrangements on CL back in the day. Too bad it is not like it used to be.

It's the logical and more responsible thing to do if one wants to avoid catching the virus!
 

 
I, too, am required to stay homeward bound per the governor's guidelines for all Californians. Thus far it has not been too bad, but when it is all over-- I know that I will be required to see some "MEN!"