is it safe to hire right now?

[starman05]

a family member is about to die and I'm about to become a freaking wreck.

 

I'm one of those 'just hold me' people.

 

but it's not safe to hire now; is it?

 

I'll have to endure the grief alone.

[starman05]

thanks Smurof

 

I'm about to lose a parent to COVID-19

 

Whoever said you can't buy affection sure was right; I literally can't buy it right now

[+ Reisr30]

thanks Smurof

 

I'm about to lose a parent to COVID-19

 

Whoever said you can't buy affection sure was right; I literally can't buy it right now

So sorry to hear that. Can’t even imagine how you are feeling but another hug from me as well.

[sutherland]

Just remember that your parents gave enough love to last your entire lifetime, even after they are gone.

[+ Pensant]

Distant, but hearty, hug for you @starman05

[former lurker]

a family member is about to die and I'm about to become a freaking wreck.

 

I'm one of those 'just hold me' people.

 

but it's not safe to hire now; is it?

 

I'll have to endure the grief alone.

 

My heart goes out to you. Try to stay close to other relatives and loved ones, especially those who share love for your family member. I've lost my only brother and both parents over the past 6 years. The sense of loss is profound. I've grown closer to other family through the process of grieving. It's no substitute, but it helps.

[studchaser]

thanks Smurof

 

I'm about to lose a parent to COVID-19

 

Whoever said you can't buy affection sure was right; I literally can't buy it right now

 

Sending hugs your way. Memories are timeless and never expire. Keep their traditions alive. Stay strong. You have a whole army of ppl rooting for you.

[rvwnsd]

I am so sorry. Sending long distance hugs.

[thickornotatall]

Very sorry for you....Losing a parent is a shock no matter how much you prepare yourself....I can only know my reaction and how I feel....Take time to grieve...to cry...take time for yourself after it's all over...Rest...relax....and think of good memories....

[Roberto]

Very sorry for you....Losing a parent is a shock no matter how much you prepare yourself....I can only know my reaction and how I feel....Take time to grieve...to cry...take time for yourself after it's all over...Rest...relax....and think of good memories....

Great advice

[Jarrod_Uncut]

 

but it's not safe to hire now; is it?

 

I'll have to endure the grief alone.

 

 

 

 

 

a family member is about to die and I'm about to become a freaking wreck.

 

Edited April 10, 2020 by Jarrod_Uncut

[+ aeikaryoko]

I am so sorry to hear@starman05. Another virtual hug from me to you. It’s not worth the risk. PM me if you need someone to message.

[down_to_business]

If you need to hire, do so via video (i.e. skype etc.) and not in person. Escorts who are still offering service in person are perfect candidates to be potential unknowing asymptomatic spreaders and even if they don't have it, the potential clients they are meeting ( who are choosing to ignore social distancing) are a pool of individuals with a higher chance of being infected themselves due to their behavior.

 

Very sorry for your isolation and grief.

[+ Reisr30]

If you need to hire, do so via video (i.e. skype etc.) and not in person. Escorts who are still offering service in person are perfect candidates to be potential unknowing asymptomatic spreaders and even if they don't have it, the potential clients they are meeting ( who are choosing to ignore social distancing) are a pool of individuals with a higher chance of being infected themselves due to their behavior.

 

Very sorry for your isolation and grief.

Curious how one hires virtually (video) without revealing one’s personal info.

[+ AntonGraza]

@starman05, I am so sorry, as a hugger/holder, I am sending you a warm, flannel soft virtual hug. As hard as it is, please be safe. If someone you know has a dog, offer to take it for a walk and borrow it for a dog hugs .

[kben]

So very sorry to hear, @starman05. Sending you hugs and positive energy.

[Tresleches]

My suggestions is to not isolate even in isolation. Find a therapy group that is meeting via zoom. Or if you can afford it a therapist via zoom or phone. Talking and socialization is the next best thing to touching. I'm sure your close friends would be available as well. So sorry.

[+ bashful]

Wishing you strength and peace @starman05

[cmennow]

So sorry to hear that @@starman05. I have a dude that hire who is in the hospital as we speak. We had been on hiatus due to the pandemic but looks like he still contracted it. It's very scary and a very lonely process when you have it. Hang in there and take all these virtual hugs being given!

[starman05]

thank you cmennow; you might've just saved my life.

 

seriously.

[nickNYC]

Just remember that your parents gave enough love to last your entire lifetime, even after they are gone.

yes is safe only use mask

[FunGuyUS]

https://www.queerty.com/coronavirus-sex-gay-guys-need-know-hooking-20200418

[orville]

a family member is about to die and I'm about to become a freaking wreck.

 

I'm one of those 'just hold me' people.

 

but it's not safe to hire now; is it?

 

I'll have to endure the grief alone.

Sorry for your loss. Go for webcaming. Too much risk to become another statistic. Better 6 feet away than 6 feet under.

[FunGuyUS]

https://www.queerty.com/coronavirus-sex-gay-guys-need-know-hooking-20200418

And my sincere condolences sorry I just posted the link and not comment on your situation

 

Take it from someone that recovered, you need to do what you can to stay safe.

[marylander1940]

a family member is about to die and I'm about to become a freaking wreck.

 

I'm one of those 'just hold me' people.

 

but it's not safe to hire now; is it?

 

I'll have to endure the grief alone.

 

No it's not safe... even if you don't kiss each other nor touch you'll be breathing the same air and less than 6 feet apart.

 

Just save your money and hire after the pandemic is over. That's what I'm doing, and I'm also prepaying some of my regulars who are in need of help.