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He is totally just a tease. I saw him years ago at a house in North Hollywood. I was unambiguous about what I was looking for and his communication led me to believe it would at least end... happily. He did the massage in some kind of lycra shorts. There was minimal touching and I couldn't tell if he was avoiding being touched so I didn't push. But at the end, which we agreed on clearly ahead of time, instead of what we agreed to, he told me I could finish myself off and he walked away.

This may be neurotic, but it felt like a bizarre level of rejection. I, of course, did not finish myself off because I wanted to leave (and didn't know whether i wanted to maybe cry). And to add to the weirdness, his then-husband AND THE HUSBAND'S FAMILY who were visiting appeared downstairs. I got the sense there was some kind of agreement about the massage work's "sensual" elements and the husband kind of glared at me. The parents looked confused. To say leaving the house was awkward would be a wild understatement.
To top it all off, the massage was weak and genuinely very mediocre. 

I believe he fancies himself some kind of songwriter or something? I have that vague recollection.

The whole experience is one of the worst I've had. It's stupid I allow it to bother me, but it still does to this day. Never ever again.

He is totally just a tease. I saw him years ago at a house in North Hollywood. I was unambiguous about what I was looking for and his communication led me to believe it would at least end... happily. He did the massage in some kind of lycra shorts. There was minimal touching and I couldn't tell if he was avoiding being touched so I didn't push. But at the end, which we agreed on clearly ahead of time, instead of what we agreed to, he told me I could finish myself off and he walked away.

This may be neurotic, but it felt like a bizarre level of rejection. I, of course, did not finish myself off because I wanted to leave (and didn't know whether i wanted to maybe cry). And to add to the weirdness, his then-husband AND THE HUSBAND'S FAMILY who were visiting appeared downstairs. I got the sense there was some kind of agreement about the massage work's "sensual" elements and the husband kind of glared at me. The parents looked confused. To say leaving the house was awkward would be a wild understatement.
To top it all off, the massage was weak and genuinely very mediocre. 

I believe he fancies himself some kind of songwriter or something? I have that vague recollection.

The whole experience is one of the worst I've had. It's stupid I allow it to bother me, but it still does to this day. Never ever again.

He is totally just a tease. I saw him years ago at a house in North Hollywood. I was unambiguous about what I was looking for and his communication led me to believe it would at least end... happily. He did the massage in some kind of lycra shorts. There was minimal touching and I couldn't tell if he was avoiding being touched so I didn't push. But at the end, which we agreed on clearly ahead of time, instead of what we agreed to, he told me I could finish myself off and he walked away.

This may be neurotic, but it felt like a bizarre level of rejection. I, of course, did not finish myself off because I wanted to leave (and didn't know whether i wanted to maybe cry). And to add to the weirdness, his then-husband AND THE HUSBAND'S FAMILY who were visiting appeared downstairs. I got the sense there was some kind of agreement about the massage work's "sensual" elements and the husband kind of glared at me. The parents looked confused. To say leaving the house was awkward would be a wild understatement.
To top it all off, the massage was weak and genuinely very mediocre. 

I believe he fancies himself some kind of songwriter or something? I have that vague recollection.

The whole experience is one of the worst I've had. It's stupid I allow it to bother me, but it still does to this day. Never ever again.

He is totally just a tease. I saw him years ago at a house in North Hollywood. I was unambiguous about what I was looking for and his communication led me to believe it would at least end... happily. He did the massage in some kind of lycra shorts. There was minimal touching and I couldn't tell if he was avoiding being touched so I didn't push. But at the end, which we agreed on clearly ahead of time, instead of what we agreed to, he told me I could finish myself off and he walked away.

This may be neurotic, but it felt like a bizarre level of rejection. I, of course, did not finish myself off because I wanted to leave (and didn't know whether i wanted to maybe cry). And to add to the weirdness, his then-husband AND THE HUSBAND'S FAMILY who were visiting appeared downstairs. I got the sense there was some kind of agreement about the massage work's "sensual" elements and the husband kind of glared at me. The parents looked confused. To say leaving the house was awkward would be a wild understatement.
To top it all off, the massage was weak and genuinely very mediocre. 

I believe he fancies himself some kind of songwriter or something? I have that vague recollection.

The whole experience is one of the worst I've had. It's stupid I allow it to bother me, but it still does to this day. Never ever again.

I am so tempted to text him and describe myself and what I expect in an erotic massage all in the third person. 🤣 So diva-like. 🙄

Offering an alternate perspective here as as I have seen Cody twice. I definitely agree he is very skinny, but I am into that.  While English is certainly not his first language, I did not have any trouble communicating with him. He has understood all of my questions and answered them, even though he isn’t always speaking in complete sentences.
As for the experience, I usually do the 30 min body scrub plus 60 min massage, which I find really enjoyable. I do agree that it was not the best massage ever, but I would still give the massage itself maybe a 6/10. He starts with very mediocre pressure, but once he gets oil on the skin the pressure amps up quite a bit. I think if he cut down the pre-oil portion (some masseurs are great at it, but he isn’t) that would improve the experience. Whole experience is about a 8/10 for me personally… I will note that my second visit was better than my first, I probably wouldn’t have rated it as highly after my first time.
As for the experience checking in and making an appointment, I think it has improved a lot since pre-2020. You used to not even be able to request someone because they insisted on rotating staff at random, but now when you call they will tell you who is working and let you request. I will absolutely be coming back here and trying some of the other masseurs. There is probably a bit of trial and error required to find the good ones.

Let it go.  
Seriously. 

Hey guys! Hope everyone is doing well.   This is Gabriel,  A few of my clients sent me this link and I've decided to respond as some comments have been pretty hateful about me.   First of all, I won't get into an argument or discussion with any of you as I won't win it, You're many and I'm one. Secondly, it will make me down only and I will respond once.   My Rentmen reviews are real and trustworthy as the client only can leave one review and must verify his account. Also must be a Premium client (Paid client to RM) which means the client should provide Bank card details and pay For RM which means every review is verified by RM webmasters and Communication by RM chat must be between the client and the escort and reviews are actually from people I've met.  (Comments on this website aren't verified and anyone can write whatever they want).   Also, I'm not. fat, flabby, or uncomfortable to be around.  I know I can't be everyone's cup of tea (not the end of the world) and also we can't connect with everyone intimacy however I always try my best to provide the best energy and service I can.  Someone said I was fat, I had never been fat but I gained a few pounds in 2021 when I was going through a breakup and my only sister (30 years old) was killed and I was very depressed, I stopped taking care of myself, Body, mind, and everything. I was not even able to go home to be with my family as I didn't have a Green card yet and I wasn't allowed to leave the US. I'm not saying this to make you pity me but I was going through a lot and I even stopped doing this job in 2021 for 2 years as I couldn't do it anymore. I wasn't in a good mental state... I understand you don't care about it as you guys care about looks only and looking at us like a piece of meat but sometimes life isn't easy.  So after 2 years of Break, I decided to come back when I was ready for it and I lost those extra pounds too long ago. I've got lots of regular clients and many clients told me I look better in Person and most of my clients are happy with me.    If you're the type of guy that thinks you pay me and you own me I'm not your guy, but if you're respectful and nice you will get along with me.  If you're enjoying a nice guy, with Good energy, friendly, Clean living, The guy who can be a sweet, cuddling person, or The guy who enjoys being verbally dominant and Alpha male Then I'm your guy.     Also, I always appreciate feedback or complaints in Person or by texting me directly instead of posting here bad comments. I wonder why only negative stuff is on this website and why happy clients don't write reviews on this platform. I also don't believe they're real. or why someone would write hatefully about someone that you never met.   Guys, come and see me, don't hesitate to meet me and if you are not into me you can leave inimitable without any drama. ( I know you won't leave tho)   I've decided to take a picture today and post it here too, so you can see what I look like today. (06/16/2023) 😉😅❤️   Take care and hugs & love. xoxoxo Gabriel

I met him once. It was an okay rubdown, nude, very erotic. Fun. Not as fun as I was wanting maybe, but for the price, it's better than I expected. Handsome, unique guy, amazing ripped body. Very sexy.

I met him once. It was an okay rubdown, nude, very erotic. Fun. Not as fun as I was wanting maybe, but for the price, it's better than I expected. Handsome, unique guy, amazing ripped body. Very sexy.

I got a couple very hot dances with him at the all-nude Adonis party a couple months ago. Super sexy guy, very sweet. But yeah, got the same egregiously-priced a la carte menu when I followed up. Just silly. Which is too bad because he is one sweet, sexy guy.

He just got back to me as to what his “extras” are, and he’s definitely a-la-carte pricing:
$200: massage
$500: to top
$600: to bottom
Just saved myself all the B.S. with that one…

Just a compliment to the guys posting here. We make ourselves vulnerable in these situations as client or provider. I’m surprised to find myself touched by what I see as the deeply spiritual perspectives, particularly of the providers here like the post(s) quoted above. It seems like much of this is about the very human unrequited longing as the sexual desire it’s connected to. In culture(s) constantly messaging that any standard of physical beauty outside of an incredibly narrow definition is not  desirable. This was not the forum where I maybe expected to hear this kind of enlightened point of view, but I guess that’s because I never really thought about it in these clear and specific terms. Sorry to ramble. But I guess I just wanted to say kudos and thanks.

Just a compliment to the guys posting here. We make ourselves vulnerable in these situations as client or provider. I’m surprised to find myself touched by what I see as the deeply spiritual perspectives, particularly of the providers here like the post(s) quoted above. It seems like much of this is about the very human unrequited longing as the sexual desire it’s connected to. In culture(s) constantly messaging that any standard of physical beauty outside of an incredibly narrow definition is not  desirable. This was not the forum where I maybe expected to hear this kind of enlightened point of view, but I guess that’s because I never really thought about it in these clear and specific terms. Sorry to ramble. But I guess I just wanted to say kudos and thanks.

Just a compliment to the guys posting here. We make ourselves vulnerable in these situations as client or provider. I’m surprised to find myself touched by what I see as the deeply spiritual perspectives, particularly of the providers here like the post(s) quoted above. It seems like much of this is about the very human unrequited longing as the sexual desire it’s connected to. In culture(s) constantly messaging that any standard of physical beauty outside of an incredibly narrow definition is not  desirable. This was not the forum where I maybe expected to hear this kind of enlightened point of view, but I guess that’s because I never really thought about it in these clear and specific terms. Sorry to ramble. But I guess I just wanted to say kudos and thanks.

Just a compliment to the guys posting here. We make ourselves vulnerable in these situations as client or provider. I’m surprised to find myself touched by what I see as the deeply spiritual perspectives, particularly of the providers here like the post(s) quoted above. It seems like much of this is about the very human unrequited longing as the sexual desire it’s connected to. In culture(s) constantly messaging that any standard of physical beauty outside of an incredibly narrow definition is not  desirable. This was not the forum where I maybe expected to hear this kind of enlightened point of view, but I guess that’s because I never really thought about it in these clear and specific terms. Sorry to ramble. But I guess I just wanted to say kudos and thanks.

Just a compliment to the guys posting here. We make ourselves vulnerable in these situations as client or provider. I’m surprised to find myself touched by what I see as the deeply spiritual perspectives, particularly of the providers here like the post(s) quoted above. It seems like much of this is about the very human unrequited longing as the sexual desire it’s connected to. In culture(s) constantly messaging that any standard of physical beauty outside of an incredibly narrow definition is not  desirable. This was not the forum where I maybe expected to hear this kind of enlightened point of view, but I guess that’s because I never really thought about it in these clear and specific terms. Sorry to ramble. But I guess I just wanted to say kudos and thanks.

Just a compliment to the guys posting here. We make ourselves vulnerable in these situations as client or provider. I’m surprised to find myself touched by what I see as the deeply spiritual perspectives, particularly of the providers here like the post(s) quoted above. It seems like much of this is about the very human unrequited longing as the sexual desire it’s connected to. In culture(s) constantly messaging that any standard of physical beauty outside of an incredibly narrow definition is not  desirable. This was not the forum where I maybe expected to hear this kind of enlightened point of view, but I guess that’s because I never really thought about it in these clear and specific terms. Sorry to ramble. But I guess I just wanted to say kudos and thanks.

Just a compliment to the guys posting here. We make ourselves vulnerable in these situations as client or provider. I’m surprised to find myself touched by what I see as the deeply spiritual perspectives, particularly of the providers here like the post(s) quoted above. It seems like much of this is about the very human unrequited longing as the sexual desire it’s connected to. In culture(s) constantly messaging that any standard of physical beauty outside of an incredibly narrow definition is not  desirable. This was not the forum where I maybe expected to hear this kind of enlightened point of view, but I guess that’s because I never really thought about it in these clear and specific terms. Sorry to ramble. But I guess I just wanted to say kudos and thanks.

Just a compliment to the guys posting here. We make ourselves vulnerable in these situations as client or provider. I’m surprised to find myself touched by what I see as the deeply spiritual perspectives, particularly of the providers here like the post(s) quoted above. It seems like much of this is about the very human unrequited longing as the sexual desire it’s connected to. In culture(s) constantly messaging that any standard of physical beauty outside of an incredibly narrow definition is not  desirable. This was not the forum where I maybe expected to hear this kind of enlightened point of view, but I guess that’s because I never really thought about it in these clear and specific terms. Sorry to ramble. But I guess I just wanted to say kudos and thanks.

Just a compliment to the guys posting here. We make ourselves vulnerable in these situations as client or provider. I’m surprised to find myself touched by what I see as the deeply spiritual perspectives, particularly of the providers here like the post(s) quoted above. It seems like much of this is about the very human unrequited longing as the sexual desire it’s connected to. In culture(s) constantly messaging that any standard of physical beauty outside of an incredibly narrow definition is not  desirable. This was not the forum where I maybe expected to hear this kind of enlightened point of view, but I guess that’s because I never really thought about it in these clear and specific terms. Sorry to ramble. But I guess I just wanted to say kudos and thanks.

Just a compliment to the guys posting here. We make ourselves vulnerable in these situations as client or provider. I’m surprised to find myself touched by what I see as the deeply spiritual perspectives, particularly of the providers here like the post(s) quoted above. It seems like much of this is about the very human unrequited longing as the sexual desire it’s connected to. In culture(s) constantly messaging that any standard of physical beauty outside of an incredibly narrow definition is not  desirable. This was not the forum where I maybe expected to hear this kind of enlightened point of view, but I guess that’s because I never really thought about it in these clear and specific terms. Sorry to ramble. But I guess I just wanted to say kudos and thanks.

Don’t forget that plenty of guys out there are into bigger guys too, including some escorts.
One of my best friends is also an escort.  We go drinking together on our off time.  He loves bears and will usually be checking out one of the guys with the biggest belly in the room and telling me how hot he is.  (Sometimes I agree, sometimes not, as I’m more face-oriented.) He’d probably be more likely to hook up with a bigger guy for free than anyone else.  Just because that’s his preference.
So my point is, guys who are bigger, don’t assume that all escorts are just being nice and putting up with you non-judgementally.  Plenty of us actually think you’re hot and that your body is a great body.  Being in this line of work tends to really open up our minds and teach us that all kinds of people can be very sexy.  Not everyone but a lot of us.

That’s a tough one…I have to really pick and choose what smiling pics I put up. I don’t think it says anything in particular about the person, just moreso the look they want to give.
For some people, smiling can come off looking cheesy in pictures. I mean, even some celebrities smile/don’t smile often in most all their pictures. Or it’s just the overall serious sexy look, versus the playful sexy look. For example:

I’d say more a pet peeve than a red flag but if I ask 3/4 questions and some are left unanswered (eg rate) even after follow up, I can’t tell is that because of negotiation, a sensitivity about putting something in writing because of the nature of the transaction etc. 
My biggest red flags are providers asking for deposits and photos or other identifying information (full legal name, “real” phone number not burner etc).
Added to that I also have no patience for obvious rudeness or demonstrating a short fuse. Not the kind which may be a misunderstanding because a text exchange where i may misunderstand tone, but aggressive language, calling me an idiot or saying something like “can’t you read? It’s on my ad” (and it isn’t always or is buried and unclear”). Or arrogance and haughtiness “don’t waste my time” in the ad type stuff before we even speak. Putting that in writing isn’t going to change any potential time waster’s behavior but stating it that way sends a different message. I know I’m not a time waster and am sincere, even if mistakes convey another message to someone who doesn’t know me, and there are ways to politely say the same things.
Am not going to be naked in front of you if all this is considered acceptable behavior. 
As @Jamie21 says some of these topics have been discussed a lot so I won’t go into detail other than to say I know some are ok with some of these, I am not.