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Bank transfer for trusted regulars (especially if in substantial amounts), cash anyone else. In some 3s occasions, my regular would front me (ie pay cash to the 3rd provider) and i pay him back (together with his portion) via bank transfer.

Agree only for short session with provider who i hd no prior rapport with. Certain topics are not suitable. But with my regulars (especially in long hours hire), conversation topics vary from mundane/personal life/politic/religion/trauma. Tho perhaps its just me, thats how i connect with ppl. Cant do long hours hire with provider who cant sustain good interesting conversation. Its always a delight to listen to other's perspective on life or anything, and i enjoy it more when its turn into a 'naked chill debate' preluding next round fun session.

Funny how this post went from 'how to' straight to 'try me!'. Fact is many many providers visit Dubai to make $$$$. Spoke to some travelling providers i met on this topic, they all agree Dubai is the place to make big bucks - high hourly rate, rich clients (though not the easiest bunch to satisfy). Echoing sentiment certain westerners seem to look at rich muslim/ asian countries from dated glasses.

My not-so-trusting self would instantly go 'he deff is meeting other client during those hours'. Especially there was no play during your overnight hire thus he is not physically exhausted. Had one travelling provider did this one time - but i was the 'other client' and not the one hiring him for a weekend. He ditch his client to meet me whilst his client was taking an early night.

I hire for overnights, whole day and multiple days quite often. Only occasion the provider would leave me unattended is when he go to gym in day hire - even then he would send me pic or live google location, without me asking. For overnight, none has ever left me alone on the clock - we would either order room service, ubereat or go out together looking for food. Call me paranoid, but i would question a provider who left me alone on the clock twice each for 1,5hr in an overnight hire - unless i have rejected their offer to go out together. That said, agree with others that one to few hours hire remain best option if you were looking for an action packed session. Long hours hire should be for a well plan vacation - day spent on sightseeing, meals, outdoor funs and end with play. I would never hire overnight that run past 3am so sleep wont be accounted into the business hours. Most provider ends up opting to stay for the night and leave after breakfast next day free of charge - granted no play whatsoever during those non-business hours, which is to be expected.

I would just say its a risky move to fly in a provider for a first meet. Might be $$$ wasted. I only fly in my regulars - same with multiple days hire or trip.

Echoing this. Lesson learnt hard way.

Words to live by. If he would meet you (in non sexual settings) free of charge but still charge you for sex, he is seeing you as a mate at best. He simply enjoy time spent with you inside bedroom as client and outside of bed as a mate. Thats all there is to it. Reading too much into it wouldnt be good for your mental health and soul. To be harsh, I feel like some clients need reality check. Delusion is a real.

A serious relationship with a provider only work when said provider is the one initiating. Even that, one should wonder whether (i) he has the means the finance said provider life (if said provider were to stop working) or (ii) he has mental capacity to share the provider with others (if said provider were to keep his business alive).

My golden rule: never ask for a discount. Its either I can afford it or not. I would only do upfront pay with my trusted regulars, who in turn would (in separate occasion) in faith allow me to pay day after the fact (due to some technical error). One query from my regulars which always put in an awkward position is 'tell me what $$$ that you would be comfortable to pay' - for a multiple days booking. I cant never decide.....

Echoing other poster that $2,5k for 5/6ho is $$$$$. Better be an epic sex for that rate.

I think i might have overspent at >$2k overnight LOL

Overnight with my regular always mean start from early evening till next morning after breakfast. But ultimately i reckon practice differs each provider. And also what $$ they charge.

IMO, all of providers and we as clients (and yes i am generalising here) lie. Some are of insignificant matters some are not. To the extent said lie is without malice, cause no harms and simply to not disclose certain personal aspect, i see no issues. Whilst the act of sex is inately intimate, one not necessarily comfortable to be all open, close and personal.

I personally avoid giving less than 5stars review. If experience was less than, i wont post review. So yeah there is that.

Whilst chemistry plays some part in elevating the experience and make job easier for the provider, its business transaction at its core. Like any other profession, a pro provider has a 'business persona' that he sells to his client. You might get a glimpse of his true self overtime but his business persona will be at the front. That is not absolute tho. Have regulars that turn into friends, our intimacy level swifts in and outside of bedroom (ie in or outside of business hours). He often see me for lunch/ dinner free of charge - during these occasions, he trully behave like a friend, no bfe hints just mates hanging out talking bout life and whatnot. But whenever he is on the clock, he swifts and play the bfe part well. Its the small things that changes, that intimate acts that one would normally show only to their partner. Other things that many pro providers excel at is off-hour marketing/ customer service eg checking in on you day(s) after play, using pet names, throwing in a freebie here and there in multiple days/ week long hire etc. Tho just like any non-hiring relationship, my believe that one is likely be geniune if they remember (substansial/ personal) things you said even weeks after. There is no reasons why you should care whether he is acting or not. Would he be seeing you (and act they way he did being intimate etc) if monies is off the table - not taking into account those off-hours marketing freebies. This hopefully would help one grounded in partaking in this hobby. That said, whether its an act or not, do not overthink it. Just enjoy the moment. But always always guard your heart - falling for provider is (far) too easy.

Late 30 is not even old.....

Met them both for a 3s ~1y ago. Would book Raffa again - Erik's good for the eye, Raffa's good for my hole LOL

Personally, wont repeat.

I have conciously avoided this line of question. The provider is there to work, period. The professionals will say and do whatever to make you feel special, notwithstanding how you look. They are there to make monies. Asking them to appraise your physical appearance is just looking to get your ego stroke, and they will stroke it (directly or indirectly) but its all business by the end of the day. Might as well not create an illusion that you are their type and creating unreasonable scenario in your mind. Its imperative to differentiate their 'business persona' and 'casual friend persona'.

I have picture on my whatsapp app, so rarely been asked to provide more. Nevertheless, would provide so if asked.

Wonder how or why would the race of the client is somewhat important to the provider.....i just cant fathom it. I can see arguement for weight, physical appearance, age or hygine. Just not for race, religion or political belief.

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