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More like he prefers you as a client (compared to his others). Think nothing of romantic feeling, you are simply a better client option. Why go for difficult client when a manageable one is willing to pay. My regular would often reschedule his other clients to fit me in, but I wouldnt ever think he sees my anything more than a preferred client - akin of a priority customer at your bank. Doesnt mean your bank rep geniunely like you

How does a client measures provider's genuinity when sweet talking is literally within said provider's scope of work? Is it his real thought or just a way to butter my feeling? Human interaction is tricky enough between amateurs, now extra complication added when dealing with professional. IMO just enjoy his compliments (nothing wrong with stroking one's ego now and then) but take everything with grain of salts - they all be hustling 💰

Echoing this sentiment. Baseline (for client) is getting what they paid for. Its provider's discretion to give extras (then or after) be it a discount, booking priority, special treatments etc.

Any recent exo? Thks

Any recent exp? Thks

My 2 cents, IMO, experienced providers are likely better at non-sex services - they seen a lot of ppl over the years and have much to talk about. Better at navigating conversation and playing the 'service business' game. New providers often get too much into their head and try too hard. They are eager to perform but not as smooth as veterans. But that I mostly do multiple hours hire might play into my experiences above.

Some of y'all are cruel.....one thing to call out provider's bad practices but to shame his looks is just unbelievable. Lets be honest, take a look in the mirror yeah....if not for your $$$, none of them hot sexy providers will even think to spend the evening with you.

IMO one should only contemplate to hire a hot str8 guy if he himself is an above average looking guy.

Some of y'all are preachy af.....had weird flashback to my tender age at catholic school. Having sex with multiples is a risk in itself, just saying.

You seem very much keen on him....i am now intrigued with the 'finale'. Post meet update please 😄

I am intrigued....

Suggestion, offer big $$$ higher chance to success.

I have been paying my (main) regular the same rate for years.....notwithstanding his rate (as per his RM profile) has gone up by $100. On the other side of coin, my other (less frequent) regular has just up his rate (twice this year) by a total of $100. Not for me to say which one is a better business model, but I know which one I will happily frequent more.

I knw of a provider who would wear cock ring whenever with me so to stay hard, but doesnt need one if he were to fck other provider (for obv reasons). Its just the way of life, enjoy the session. Self acceptance is liberating

To be frank: ● if you were to top: seems like easy work for the bottom. In any event they are engaged for the hour and not per ejaculation ●if you were to bottom: 99.99999% (but really its 100%) tops wont care if you cant get hard. They are there to perform, not you. You can be the laziest bottom in the world, (a pro escort) would not complaint. Of course a client should be considerate towards the hired provider - but there is absolutely no sexual performance expectation would be placed on the client. If you want to make them happy, $$$ is the way to go. Anyhow always communicate if you have any health issues to watch out, for your own safety.

Just to put it out there....most often than not, client would be the only average looking guy in the room. Set up a ground rules eg when providers can play with each other or expectation where their focus should be. Beware you could be in a situation where you got sidelined and not be the focus of the session. IMO, chance of successful group play decreases with providers who are a total stranger - dynamic issue (ego) or they simply lose focus on their client (and it becomes more about them playing with other hot guys). Been in duo session where (me bottom) the Top spend more time playing with the Vers. My exp (as a bottom): all tops = focus on me throughout the session. Mix of tops + vers = focus will shift constantly throughout the session. That said, best to first understand what you really want to achieve from the session. Providers are human and they all have ego, and as do you.

Echoing others...always always pre-agreed scope (as you would do in any other professional business). Never assume. One guy ad tags 'bf experience' but refuse to kiss or cuddle.

Nah they will bend over for right sized guys.

Up?

Putting aside the economics, I reckon companionship focused service might be harder lane (compared to sex focused one) - one both client and provider. Great at sex does not equal to great conversationalist. I have met many providers who are amazing in bed but only couple that I geniunely would enjoy spending hours just to converse.

Only times where I had free-of-charge hang-outs with provider are all initiated by him. I initiated once (after several free hang-outs) and got rejected cold. I book him for the next day, he buy me ice creams and we move on. Unspoken but lesson learnt.

I would just take it as compliment...as in me easy to manage and satisfy 😄

This is ultimately a 'human business' - you gotta trust your gut. Do not let your junior do (much of) the thinking. Learn to play the game well - the relationship is founded on transaction, every interaction is based on mutual gains, there could be something else overtime (eg respect or even geniune platonic care/friendship) but it rarely go beyond what they would cultivate in their personal life. I trust my regular to care for my needs when he is on the clock, appreciate his views on life matters but would take his sweet talks with a grain of salt as its his job to make his client feel special. You pay him to do that.

Echoing other poster, T&C ought to be agreed upfront, always - just like in any other businesses. Any miscom due to absence of such is a negligence on both parties. Client should always ask for confirmation. That said, any provider tries to upcharge is guaranteed no further business from me. I prefer $$$ agreed upfront, all inclusive. If provider did 'extra' then I would happily tip.

Just couple moments with provider that I find hilarious - at least for me: Indirectly calling me (his client) 'ugly' when he was commenting a provider's RM profile by saying 'he [an objectively below average looking guy] looks like a client' Responding with 'ofc not, you are paying me' to my question of 'do you mind if I do this?' when I was on top of him To be clear, I was not offended - more of amused honestly. The shocking look on his face as he realises what had came out of his mouth, how his voice went quite real slow as he finishes his sentence and how quickly he breaks eye contact are just a pure comedy. I had so much fun just 'grilling' him for the rest of the session.