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Words to live by. If he would meet you (in non sexual settings) free of charge but still charge you for sex, he is seeing you as a mate at best. He simply enjoy time spent with you inside bedroom as client and outside of bed as a mate. Thats all there is to it. Reading too much into it wouldnt be good for your mental health and soul. To be harsh, I feel like some clients need reality check. Delusion is a real.

A serious relationship with a provider only work when said provider is the one initiating. Even that, one should wonder whether (i) he has the means the finance said provider life (if said provider were to stop working) or (ii) he has mental capacity to share the provider with others (if said provider were to keep his business alive).

My golden rule: never ask for a discount. Its either I can afford it or not. I would only do upfront pay with my trusted regulars, who in turn would (in separate occasion) in faith allow me to pay day after the fact (due to some technical error). One query from my regulars which always put in an awkward position is 'tell me what $$$ that you would be comfortable to pay' - for a multiple days booking. I cant never decide.....

Echoing other poster that $2,5k for 5/6ho is $$$$$. Better be an epic sex for that rate.

I think i might have overspent at >$2k overnight LOL

Overnight with my regular always mean start from early evening till next morning after breakfast. But ultimately i reckon practice differs each provider. And also what $$ they charge.

IMO, all of providers and we as clients (and yes i am generalising here) lie. Some are of insignificant matters some are not. To the extent said lie is without malice, cause no harms and simply to not disclose certain personal aspect, i see no issues. Whilst the act of sex is inately intimate, one not necessarily comfortable to be all open, close and personal.

I personally avoid giving less than 5stars review. If experience was less than, i wont post review. So yeah there is that.

Whilst chemistry plays some part in elevating the experience and make job easier for the provider, its business transaction at its core. Like any other profession, a pro provider has a 'business persona' that he sells to his client. You might get a glimpse of his true self overtime but his business persona will be at the front. That is not absolute tho. Have regulars that turn into friends, our intimacy level swifts in and outside of bedroom (ie in or outside of business hours). He often see me for lunch/ dinner free of charge - during these occasions, he trully behave like a friend, no bfe hints just mates hanging out talking bout life and whatnot. But whenever he is on the clock, he swifts and play the bfe part well. Its the small things that changes, that intimate acts that one would normally show only to their partner. Other things that many pro providers excel at is off-hour marketing/ customer service eg checking in on you day(s) after play, using pet names, throwing in a freebie here and there in multiple days/ week long hire etc. Tho just like any non-hiring relationship, my believe that one is likely be geniune if they remember (substansial/ personal) things you said even weeks after. There is no reasons why you should care whether he is acting or not. Would he be seeing you (and act they way he did being intimate etc) if monies is off the table - not taking into account those off-hours marketing freebies. This hopefully would help one grounded in partaking in this hobby. That said, whether its an act or not, do not overthink it. Just enjoy the moment. But always always guard your heart - falling for provider is (far) too easy.

Late 30 is not even old.....

Met them both for a 3s ~1y ago. Would book Raffa again - Erik's good for the eye, Raffa's good for my hole LOL

Personally, wont repeat.

I have conciously avoided this line of question. The provider is there to work, period. The professionals will say and do whatever to make you feel special, notwithstanding how you look. They are there to make monies. Asking them to appraise your physical appearance is just looking to get your ego stroke, and they will stroke it (directly or indirectly) but its all business by the end of the day. Might as well not create an illusion that you are their type and creating unreasonable scenario in your mind. Its imperative to differentiate their 'business persona' and 'casual friend persona'.

I have picture on my whatsapp app, so rarely been asked to provide more. Nevertheless, would provide so if asked.

Wonder how or why would the race of the client is somewhat important to the provider.....i just cant fathom it. I can see arguement for weight, physical appearance, age or hygine. Just not for race, religion or political belief.

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At least he ads as 'top'. Seen ads listing out 'straight' and 'vers' on the same page. Sent an enquiry, got ignored to no surprise.

Conscious one would quote different rate out of their home country. I would always ask for their quote in local currency. - easier less hassle. If i were to pay in foreign currency, i would confirm arrangement beforehand to avoid debate on fx rate.

Big fan of long weekend hiring esp for couple days trip out of city or state. Good for the soul, not so much for bank account lol

Its a business by the end of the day. One wouldnt stop sending work email on holidays - well receipient might not respond but email sent anw.

Agree that photo-reverse search is amazing tool. Plus ask for reference from my regular escort (granted i trust he always gv honest opinion, albeit might be with some agenda - competition and whatnot but he has never lead me astray). Cross checking his other socials (OF in particular) is also recc'd - might give you insight on his skills and (actual) sex preference. Trust your gut!

I sincerely hope this is some sort of social experiment qs or purely for research purposes.

Met in months ago. Not as ripped as his RM picts but still in shape nonetheless. Play wise, not my cup of tea, wont repeat.