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I know that clients often complain about providers who are late, no show, flake etc.. but I want to share an experience recently from a client that I was really upset about. The client was a great one and we had met twice before, both was fun and pleasant, so I was very excited when he called again to set up a meeting a few days in advance of his trip to the city. We exchanged texts to make it hot and I have prepped it well before the session (edging to make myself super horny). I also declined/postponed several requests the day before we met just to make sure I am in the optimal stage for a good time. On the day of meeting, he sent text early in the morning telling me that he will keep me in the loop on when to meet as he have some meetings during the day. Then throughout the day he kept silence all the way and when I asked for an update, he just texted back several hours later that he is still having dinner with his counterparts. I was wasting the whole night waiting for him and ended up so upset as it was already midnight and no update from him. Then I texted him that if he want to postpone or cancel just let me know. Still no response. The next day he texted me back "sorry, I fell asleep"! I feel like a piece of "sh*t" being treated like this. I know this business is transactional sometime and I hate it when clients have no respect for providers' time. Just a simple message to cancel/postpone would be so much helpful. Clients like this make me feel like quitting. Maybe I am new to this so it hurts me more, I have seen providers putting the note in their ad that "only right now, no advanced appointment" and now I know why. Just ranting after a bad experience! 

It really depends on the distance of travel and the time of the day etc. Clients that expect providers to travel 3 hours on the road in the middle of the night for 1-hour regular rate session is not thoughtful and no reasonable provider would accept such request. Afterall, clients should understand that for every 1-hour outcall session, providers usually have to spend several hours prepping and travelling, those are unpaid and would not even be noticed. That's why many providers have lower rate from the 2nd hour onward but would have a higher rate for the first hour. Most importantly, by paying a fair rate, providers would be happy and feel that they are valued so they would give all-in for a great encounter. You do not want to meet with a tired, upset provider who accept an unfair rate just because they do not have other alternative. 

It really depends on the distance of travel and the time of the day etc. Clients that expect providers to travel 3 hours on the road in the middle of the night for 1-hour regular rate session is not thoughtful and no reasonable provider would accept such request. Afterall, clients should understand that for every 1-hour outcall session, providers usually have to spend several hours prepping and travelling, those are unpaid and would not even be noticed. That's why many providers have lower rate from the 2nd hour onward but would have a higher rate for the first hour. Most importantly, by paying a fair rate, providers would be happy and feel that they are valued so they would give all-in for a great encounter. You do not want to meet with a tired, upset provider who accept an unfair rate just because they do not have other alternative. 

I would never reject a client based on weight alone, more important to me is if client is polite and cleanliness is super important too. Sometimes, it is good to know in advance for safety issue such as using a proper massage table that supports the right weight. Some clients are very thoughtful and up front about this issue, and it makes providers feel very comfortable and give all in for a great encounter!

I would never reject a client based on weight alone, more important to me is if client is polite and cleanliness is super important too. Sometimes, it is good to know in advance for safety issue such as using a proper massage table that supports the right weight. Some clients are very thoughtful and up front about this issue, and it makes providers feel very comfortable and give all in for a great encounter!

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@MaybeMaybeNot you've been unlucky, that's all! Maybe you're more likely to catch this kind of diseases while you have a higher immunity towards other things. Not everybody who engages in oral sex with someone with gonorrhea, syphilis or chlamydia will catch it. 
Life is too short, treat yourself, enjoy sex! 
 

It seems like something with your immune systems that makes you receptive to gonorrhea so easily. Kissing is not a zero risk but considered relatively low risk provided you have been fully vaccinated for HPV, Hepatitis A, B, C and other preventable STDs. The other likely STD you can catch from kissing and oral is Chlamydia, which is incredibly popular STDs these days, fortunately it is quite easy to be treated with just 1 dose of antibiotics, but you should screen for it as quickly as possible. There is risk in any activities in life, even the most benign activities such as cuddling can expose you to some risk (monkey pox etc). If one is to be totally safe, then sex and pleasure is nonexistence and what is the purpose of life then? The best weapon you have against all these nasty things is your updated knowledge on medical sciences and treatment, take the calculated risk and know that you can recover if you are unlucky to get hit with one, just always be alert and get tested regularly, take any preventive measures such as being vaccinated if possible. 

I'm horny 24/7 . So I wouldn't know. 😂

My providers often speak of bad experiences they’ve had with clients. I’m a curious man, so I enjoy hearing their stories, sometimes in detail. I rarely remember much afterwards. I rarely ask them directly, they usually bring it up unbidden. They’re also rarely in a hurry to leave, so it’s usually me who suggests that it’s getting late. I imagine they tell friends and other providers about me since I sometimes get “heys” from their associates, often leading to a fun session.

That is very interesting perspective, thanks! My client is also introvert I guess and want to listen to "adventures", perhaps I can ask him about his to understand his desires and open him up a bit

That is very interesting perspective, thanks! My client is also introvert I guess and want to listen to "adventures", perhaps I can ask him about his to understand his desires and open him up a bit

Some clients are definitely fascinated about sex work and they ask questions about it. Not necessarily to know about specific clients but I find they’re usually curious about things like how one prepares, finds clients, how many clients you see etc. It’s surprising what misconceptions people have so I’m happy to explain things if they’re curious but without mentioning names or revealing client confidential information. 
I also suggest they read the blog on my website which has lots of stories about my experiences (all of them have had details changed or omitted to protect the innocent ….sorry to protect the guilty 😉). 

Not an escort nor a current client. But I’ve known this to happen on dates with guys, sometimes in talk over dinner but more often in post-coital chat. I think some men are simply nosy.
My answer is to smile in response to such questions. I then say “I’m happy to answer questions about myself but that stops at the bedroom door. Intimate experiences are private matters”. 

Just smile and say, "Sorry, I don't kiss and tell."

Might be easier to invert the question...  ask about their favorite encounter...  their favorite porn stars... about videos or scenes they most fantasize about...   about random encounters they wish to repeat... about first time, the best time, the time they keep replaying in their mind, the time they most fantasize about,  about the one that got away, about someone they never had an opportunity to have sex with but fantasize about all the time...  it's almost a Miss Manners moment - just get them to talk about themselves...   
I'm a massive introvert, love nothing more than listening to others talk...  and once, just once, an escort asked much of the above, and it was almost impossible to get me to shut up.... he was a regular for years as he somehow understood what made me tick...