Archangel

“Can you do brain surgery?” I don’t pay just anyone to do something specialized that I could do myself. An escort can be expected to do things sexually that aren’t what are “typical.” In fact, that’s part of their offering – the extraordinary experience! Further, it wouldn’t be difficult to bottom three times…Depends what the arrangement is at the time of booking. If sex three times is a requirement and the escort can’t deliver, he should say so up front. There are going to be guys who can.

Sleeping together is part of the BFE for me. The sex of course is important but it’s really the *experience* that includes all sorts of stuff. I like to think that I enjoy a guy’s time as an escort in the true sense of that word as much as I do a fucker. So yes – sleeping is important to me. That said, I had one provider tell me I snore badly. So I’m sure that wasn’t pleasant for him… 😬

Of course. I’m just not interested in paying for that, or any of the rest of the things you list. I’m really only interested in paying for actual time together that includes physical intimacy. At the risk of getting crucified for saying so, I wish I got paid for every moment I dedicated to making my job successful. Sadly, fair compensation isn’t something a lot of people get for their time of effort related to work. That’s a topic that’s been beaten to death here and really not the point of my original post, though.

I’ve seen decent porn for free. No need to pay. I don’t understand why people would pay.

Why would you pay for porn? 🤔

We do well to keep that in mind.

Ever since I started hiring several years ago, I don’t pay for porn anymore. For that matter, I find porn, even professional, sort of blasé. I’d rather pay for something real…instead of watching a screen or some guy I will never even have a chance meeting.

If you’re anything like me, you’ll drive yourself batty analyzing what may or may not be conscious or unconscious pathological behavior from such providers. It’s energy that can be used on other things because ultimately you’re really never going to know the truth – although your idea seems wholly plausible.

I took a guy on vacation once. Things were always wonderful when we had our many weekend overnights until that trip. On that trip, he was distant. I met up with him the night before we departed, and he was quick to split afterwards. He didn’t want me to pick him up for the airport the next morning; he’d Uber. Once we got to where we were going, he wasn’t as engaged as he normally was. He was more interested in his phone (which I happened to glimpse a few times was open to Grindr.) He was more interested in sunning at the beach than doing anything, really. I don’t know for certain, but one afternoon after I had returned from being out dealing with a few things with the resort offices (long story) I come back to my things all crammed into the drawer and the bed ramshackle made—as if my things had been hidden for a hookup. I don’t know that he hooked up for sure, but I suspect it. We never did fuck on that trip and the whole way back home we didn’t speak. It made me hesitant to hire again for travel but I did and I’m happy I did. I have found a fantastic travel escort buddy. But I can totally identify with the OP…

Yes. Thank you. Hence my parenthetical… You had to ruin whatever humor was potentially there…

I guess Trump won’t need to pardon him! 🤣 (I don’t care about the legal background of pardons. It’s meant to be stupid funny.)

4 months later…

You did. Thank you.

Right. Asses always look better in tighter jeans, but even then there are better options. I’m more interested in options that would help direct attention to a sizable endowment (8-9”). Not really looking to wear sweats to a nice dining outing…or show.

Question: if purchasing pants/trousers that are good for displaying the package, what are your thoughts? Brands? Style? Preferably long pants. Looking to accentuate all the assets…It can be some risqué but also with an eye for the public too.

I was at a kiosk at the local mall the other day. They had a sign that they didn’t take cash. I wasn’t going to pay with cash, but I told them I wasn’t interested anymore because they didn’t accept cash.

I have also taken a provider to a bank where he can deposit the cash. All part of spending time together.

I prefer cash if possible. Not because I haven’t done electronic. I have. I will. But cash seems like the vulgar part of the transaction is over and done and then the rest of the visit can be pleasant. I also don’t hire for hookups. I do weekend overnights as a BFE.

We like to compare escorting to other industries when it supports our point; it’s its own thingy when we want to set different economic rules. Done you know that?! 🤣

Seems unable to answer direct prompts like “What is your overnight rate.” Answered with his hourly rate and said he was vers.

No. In fact, he was the least satisfying.

I have a hard time believing these guys make that kind of sustainable income just through erotic ventures.

Why would you pay for OF of only underwear? I don’t get that…

Happy to oblige. Hopefully it produces a change in behavior 😉

@marylander1940, you just need to stop being a shameless apologist for escorts.