Archangel

I enjoyed my time with him.

If an automated message tells me a different preferred way to communicate, I’m fine with it. I sometimes find the way rates are listed in the automated messages offputting but I can’t exactly tell you why some do and don’t. On the whole, I don’t care for them. If the shoe were on the other foot, and I reached out when I had time to plan a meetup, but didn’t hear anything back until I was otherwise engaged, and had my messages or texts set to an automated reply, I suspect a provider would consider me uninterested even if I am.

Or they’ve gotten poor reviews removed somehow.

@Jamie21, has any client ever said that you? 😳

I’m always serious when I inquire. This statement actually means “don’t contact me unless you will book me regardless.”

Tangential: I hate Grindr.

I am by no means “hot.” But I try to be kind. I explained once to an escort that I was booked with to go on a trip that circumstances had changed. I asked him if he minded not going on the trip and just staying at my place for a week. He said he preferred the trip and if I had to pay him afterwards, he trusted me to follow through although he said that’s bit him in the ass before. I then insisted I would pay him his fee regardless. I managed to sort things out so the trip was still on but I can’t help thinking genuine kindness on both sides Made that interaction more pleasant.

Some guys are changing their usernames every other day. That’s what constitutes a red flag for me.

I find this particularly annoying. It’s not a “red flag” because of how many guys do it, but the list is useless unless it’s very short, and in that case, it rarely offers anything worth paying for.

I had been hiring a guy a while back a few times and he told me he was 35 but advertised 28 because he could pass for it. I guess it matters to some guys. As long as he can perform and we have a good time, what does age matter if I’m satisfied?

I prefer Boston. Philly has a good gay life. More than Boston.

No headshots in the ad I also as a general rule interpret short text messages, especially in response to longer ones, as generally uninterested. Me: Hey! I saw your ad and would like to ask a few questions. Could you please tell me your rate? Your ad says you’re versatile. Do you prefer to top? I prefer BB. Is that good? Him: Hey. Yeah. If I have an interaction like that, I just move on. I’m going to get frustrated long before we ever potentially meet.

Did I pick a bad name? Some friends call me Archie because of the archangel connection.

I don’t know how much I have to contribute but if something strikes me, I will! Thanks!

I googled an escort’s name and this came up in the results.

Is your total monthly income $1k or what you allow for hiring? I reread it several times and I think you mean $1k/mon? If you can spare that, I’d say you’re in the clear!

Hi everyone! 👋🏻 Just thought I’d introduce myself. Michael here.