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Can’t be bothered.

I normally hire for multiple days. So we end up going out together. I can’t stand when he has to spend more an hour getting primped to go. I also can’t stand when he’s more or less ready the need to change a piece of clothing…Let’s go!

I had an extremely poor experience with him. Extremely.

Well stated. I’d like to see something other than one juggernaut platform.

Reading comprehension is your friiiiiieeeeeend. The top was what we call baaaaackground. The entire red paragraph here could’ve been the whole post in its own right. You don’t require the other part to offer a recommendation. You’re focusing on details that are nice-to-know-but-not-need-to-know. And opinionating and criticizing on that and not addressing the real prompt…

@Luv2play 1) The timeframe wasn’t the salient issue here. I was giving background. The topic is SUGGESTIONS… 2) Said boy has booked this far in advance with me before on numerous occasions. Since I fly him in, he’s asked that I book at least three months ahead for his daytime work schedule. 3) I wrote in another thread about booking ahead because of my own work schedule.

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This morsel was on my menu but having read what he wrote here, not interested anymore. I just ate anyhow and I’m not feeling especially peckish!

I’m going to be curious if he contacts me back…

@marylander1940 was the first to say “cabin.” My mind rushed to a Criminal Minds episode “cabin.” 😂 It’s just an air b&b cabin. Maybe Marylander can tell us why he used scare quotes 🤷🏼‍♂️

Happy to report that I was able to secure a booking because of this thread. I decided to trust my gut and go with someone other than Mr. Drama. Thanks!

I don't know if it's a red flag per se, but it's definitely an annoyance. As some of you may know from another thread I posted, I'm looking for a guy for some time in a cabin in a few months (thankfully I found someone and it's lined up, by the way! – aside). So I was searching through RM and checking out some of my options from browsing before. This guy came up. As you can see from my opening text, which may or may not have been how some of you think it should be done, but whatever, I was surprised that he was in my list given he's a bottom. So I messaged. Automated messages sort of rub me wrong, but okay. But then he doesn't answer my questions anyhow… That's not a red flag per se, but it's like – okay, honey. I'm moving on. You can't be bothered to take this seriously.

I know a lot of folks who behave like they’re inbred, but don’t have the blessing of chiseled, angular features! 😂

@Danny-Darko, I usually don’t reach out to guys who don’t post a face picture. Have you communicated with him at all? From the profile writeup it’s nice to see he doesn’t seem like a troglodyte.

I’ve done it often. In fact, my worst experience of extended time with a guy was someone I’d seen for much shorter durations over several years. After that trip, I decided never again although shorter visits had been good. Sometimes new blood is more fun too. The novelty etc. I’m not worried about the time. I wasn’t asking for suggestions on how long to make my stay with the guy.

A friend sent me this and my warped mind initially couldn’t believe he would until I got my head out of the gutter and understood the much cleaner joke of the comic…I’m sure some of you will see what I saw first 😂

I’m surprised there are no recs!

Does Mr. Doherty escort? Any intel? 😂

I always feel obligated with guys I’ve seen before if I engage them again. You’re right, of course. I have no obligation. He probably doesn’t feel any.

We’ve done multiple days before. This is a different boyfriend. Cabin is in the Poconos. Budget is somewhat fluid, but needs to be reasonable. It’s not a “cabin.” It’s a bona fide cabin.

Sorry if this is the wrong forum…Feel free to relocate it! I have a regular who’s spooked me. We were discussing plans for January at the cabin. All normal. I was going to book his flight yesterday but then he said he wanted to wait because he had a fight with his boyfriend and wants to make sure it’s okay before booking. Well, I don’t want to pay the flight and Mr. Boyfriend decides down Mr. Escort isn’t going…I’m torn if I should trust him if he says his BF is good with it that it’s good or if I should trust my anxiety – something that never really works out… So…Operation Second Option… Can anyone recommend anyone reasonably priced for a BFE for three nights who can be “dominant” but not get carried away? Like assertive? Also not much older than like 35…Someone who can hold a conversation but isn’t super needy as far as attention. Extra points if he’s twinky or a muscle guy…

@DrownedBoy, I don’t understand what purpose that kind of dicking around with clients has. And because he didn’t show and let me know soon enough, of course I was responsible for paying the Uber fee. Negligible compared to his rate, but still…asshole.