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“TOS” never really stopped anyone before. There is PLENTY of salacious material on IG. Circumlocution has been the name of the game no matter the platform.

I have a proliferation of social media…I really don’t want more. And since Musk has lost his mind, I’m not excited about Twitter/X.

I know this has been visited on before… …but how do you guys who’ve done it have success engaging the services of guys on Instagram? I have yet to have any success. I’m sure many of these guys are on there. What am I missing as the clear indicator that a guy is a provider when I’m browsing Instagram?

That actually will make me want to give a knee-jerk “Next!”

But, but, but… It’s clients who waste time!

That’s how it is everywhere. And it’s even worse for women’s fashion too.

I wish I could have an electric bill under $100…

@Thomas_Belgium, all those shades of purple will be hard to distinguish not lined up against each other for comparison!

That’s the idea. Sometimes it’s a matter of finding the right thing in the right fit!

Never heard of Gruff Pup. Thanks!

Absolutely. Did that. Now I’m asking for first-hand recs.

I’ve given up hope on such things.

…what underwear/swimwear do you guys know of for plus-size guys that is “sexy?” I’m talking more than 300lbs… I will report fat-shaming comments, no matter how oblique.

Why must seemingly every thread descend into a catfight? 🙄

Also…speaking of waxing poetically! A prolix overture to a post if ever I did read one! 😂 * *Said with affection…I’m a lexophile at heart!

I’m torn. If the photos look too good, I’m not interested because I don’t want to be hiring a guy who thinks I’m there to pleasure him, as if he’s some pseudo-celebrity. At the same time, I don’t like grainy pictures that look like something run through an IG fifty times… In today’s age of smartphones, you can take good quality pictures without spending a fortune on a photographer or resorting to photo editing in IG or the like. Take some good pictures that show something decent (more than the nether regions, preferably) and post those. Normal photos suggest a meetup with a normal guy, at least subliminally.

https://rent.men/J_SAVAGE https://www.providencejournal.com/story/news/2018/03/01/cranston-man-arrested-in-commercial-sex-operation/1078106007/ He’s at it again…

I’ve found that has been always exclusively the case with escorts who start looking for the money up front. I tell the guy I will have the money in an envelope, with his name written on it, clearly visible. I tell him he can count it. It’s been about 80:20 the guys who have counted it immediately and those who didn’t. Those who didn’t ended up becoming regulars… I understand wanting to make sure you’re not shortchanged, but I’m being pretty open here. You can probably assume that by the point I put out an envelope, with your name written on it, clearly visible, and we’re together, I’m not interested in taking you across. And frankly, if you do count the money and pocket it and the deliver a half-hearted “service” at that point, who shortchanged whom? What’s my recourse at that point? A bad review? A writeup here that’s negative. Ohhhh…detrimental!

Ain’t that the truth! 😂 👍🏻

Even the gay guys are breast men! 😂

Some people are so open minded their brains have fallen out… I’m all for calling people what they want. But this feels somehow like…virtual signaling. My first boyfriend was trans. I didn’t mind and made that clear from the beginning. To me, it is was about him, not his gender identity, that I was attracted to. But he was often bringing it up. It was as if since I didn’t see it as noteworthy (as normal) he was displeased or unsatisfied at least. He and I have since split and he is dating another transman now. This is a difficult situation for me. I want to be a full-throated supporter but it seems to me the goalposts are always moving and now people who don’t seem to have any intention of living anything but an outwardly cisgender life are somehow “nonbinary.” Enjoy the outward privilege of binary identification until among those who would feel guilty if they misgendered a nonbinary person. It just seems off to me… I probably have said too much…

Sadly you’re hyperbole is probably more than 75% true.