Archangel

I hire for BFEs. We have acted like a couple in public. We don’t go around broadcasting that we’re a couple though. I can see the problematic element here. It feels icky in some ways. At the same time, it doesn’t seem wrong to expect a guy offering a BFE who’s escorting me to an event to act like a boyfriend. Communication is key. He communicated his desire. You can’t accommodate that. You communicated that. At least it happened before the gig got underway. I hate when I’m clear upfront and an escort doesn’t seem to understand or simply doesn’t take me at my word. Or there turns out to be a surprise in what the understanding is. That’s one of the reasons I find communication beforehand paramount. Of course, this is primarily for extended hires. I don’t know how or if this would apply to appointments that are only a few hours or less.

@DrownedBoy, might… It was terrible before the explosive end…

Or he’s apexed and knows it. Looking to cash in on diminishing allure and appeal before it catches on.

I know what I like, thanks. I don’t subscribe to the “highest price is highest quality” fallacy. I’ve had high end and I’ve had low end. My experience is that at a certain point, price point exceeds quality. I also buy store brand butter but Hellmann’s mayonnaise. I know what I like…and won’t pay a premium for a name or hype.

I once had a regular provider who gave me a “break” for our overnights if I booked an extra night at the hotel for him to use for subsequent appointments. He ended up calling me a lot during the day even when we weren’t together to deal with his personal issues. When I ran into some issues, he blew up and felt violated. I pointed out that he called me sometimes five or six times a day to listen to his issues, which is an element of my actual employment, and he never “compensated” me for my time. He told me I was delusional if I believed my time was worth what his was. We had a nasty falling out but I’m not upset about it. It wasn’t pleasant in the end. Once when we were together he even got angry with me for wanting him to fuck me because he was tired. He said I was being selfish. I later learned from another escort that this guy overdosed on some sort of drug related to bodybuilding. Tragic, yes, but not surprising. It’s hard to have personal relationships that are truly healthy that develop from professional ones, sometimes.

The intrigue! I wonder if it started drizzling in paradise…

Depends what you value, literally. “Most” in this case would be a hyberbolic qualifier in my case. I’m generally satisfied with “middle of the road,” and don’t need “expensive” to reach satisfaction.

That’s interesting. Paying not for time, not for sex, but for discretion. Interesting. I can see how that’s a thing for some guys. It might even be to a degree for me, now that I reflect on it.

The very nature of “luxury goods.” Thing is…a high ticket price doesn’t necessarily translate into high quality. In fact, some luxury goods are inferior in quality to similar goods with less “luxury” attached.

Phenomenal, eh? Good for you. He’s not worth it to me. Forgive me for not believing it, to be frank.

“People say…”

I feel a lot of these guys have an unrealistic understanding of what they expect…

Some of that could be due to rigidity in his offerings. Has anyone actually ever seen him fuck or be fucked?

I feel like that could be said of any provider in any service profession. Admittedly, it’s nice when the service provider enjoys their work – but I don’t suppose it’s necessary. That’s the difference between a job and a vocation, in some respects.

In my line of work, I provide care for people. I genuinely care about them. But boundaries mean I can’t become enmeshed. BFE – Boyfriend EXPERIENCE. He’s not your actual boyfriend. He’s providing the experience of a boyfriend, however. It’s worth noting too that it’s not a SE, spouse experience. Things change for a lot of folks when relationships move from boyfriend to spouse. Sometimes even real dating is an acting game. The curtain falls once it moves on to something different – and it ain’t always a pleasant change!

Provider asked that of you?

Well don’t I feel stupid now….

I did…I see no such setting to set.

Good for Bozo!

He will age. For sure. He will stab himself and his portrait of beauty will vanish. Change…probably not. He’ll always remain shallow, naive, and entitled.

This looks dreadful.

Apparently the generic meds last night were a “nightmare.” Ugh. 😩 Some people are just difficult. I try to be a good guest, even when I’m encouraged to make myself “at home.” I don’t see that as an invitation to be a picker.

Who is that hungry for inchage they’re measuring to the 7/8”? 😳

Everything is metric now? While metric arguably makes much more logistical, economical, and international sense, my brain doesn’t compute that well. I can do rough math, but I’d prefer not. The imperial system used to show up for me. Is this a setting I can’t find? Or something else?

I forgot about the meds travail part of the visit til I followed up today. She tried to get meds filled that she needed while on the road but because they are a “controlled substance” they wouldn’t fill ahead of her trip. There was a (genuine) mixup at the pharmacy near me but she had a meltdown over that before leaving. She had reported Tuesday she had issues with the meds, but I didn’t think about it til, as you see, 4:29 p.m. today. I take generic everything. The only name-brand drug I’ve recently taken is Truvada, and when that came out under the generic, I’ve been taking that. Is her statement “they don’t always” work the same accurate? I honestly don’t know…It would seem to me they must for FDA approval. Or work adequately the same to classify the same.