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😆 You’re wrong.

Some providers take down old photos and then reupload them to get a more recent upload date.

I had a fabulous three days with Angus this past week. I have to say, I miss his company. It was wonderful and my dog and cats loved him! And he abided my cooking – which I absolutely love. It was nice to have a companion for a few days, and Angus was a great companion. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ (Since RM makes you pay to give a rating)

Looks like the $1000 was a bust… Unless of course it was an OF access ramp…

I’ve run into potential new hires who don’t want to discuss details before a deposit is made because “time is money.” In those cases, I just move on. It’s going to be a bad fit simply because of the attitude toward the experience. Business? Yes. Pleasure? Hmmm…

Along those same lines… I don’t see a tip as a sine non qua. Sometimes I tip. Sometimes I don’t. The agreed amount and time are what is expected. Any more I give is a tip. Any more he gives is bonus. It’s pretty simple. For what it’s worth, I hire for multiple-day BFEs and pay for outings and so forth. And I often get him things for us to enjoy together that he can add to his cache of goodies to use with other clients. So I don’t feel the need to feel guilty about him doing more and me not tipping.

I hate this line.

Did I tell you guys my joke about Jim Jones? Probably not. The punchline is pretty long.

How?

I hire for BFEs. We have acted like a couple in public. We don’t go around broadcasting that we’re a couple though. I can see the problematic element here. It feels icky in some ways. At the same time, it doesn’t seem wrong to expect a guy offering a BFE who’s escorting me to an event to act like a boyfriend. Communication is key. He communicated his desire. You can’t accommodate that. You communicated that. At least it happened before the gig got underway. I hate when I’m clear upfront and an escort doesn’t seem to understand or simply doesn’t take me at my word. Or there turns out to be a surprise in what the understanding is. That’s one of the reasons I find communication beforehand paramount. Of course, this is primarily for extended hires. I don’t know how or if this would apply to appointments that are only a few hours or less.

@DrownedBoy, might… It was terrible before the explosive end…

Or he’s apexed and knows it. Looking to cash in on diminishing allure and appeal before it catches on.

I know what I like, thanks. I don’t subscribe to the “highest price is highest quality” fallacy. I’ve had high end and I’ve had low end. My experience is that at a certain point, price point exceeds quality. I also buy store brand butter but Hellmann’s mayonnaise. I know what I like…and won’t pay a premium for a name or hype.

I once had a regular provider who gave me a “break” for our overnights if I booked an extra night at the hotel for him to use for subsequent appointments. He ended up calling me a lot during the day even when we weren’t together to deal with his personal issues. When I ran into some issues, he blew up and felt violated. I pointed out that he called me sometimes five or six times a day to listen to his issues, which is an element of my actual employment, and he never “compensated” me for my time. He told me I was delusional if I believed my time was worth what his was. We had a nasty falling out but I’m not upset about it. It wasn’t pleasant in the end. Once when we were together he even got angry with me for wanting him to fuck me because he was tired. He said I was being selfish. I later learned from another escort that this guy overdosed on some sort of drug related to bodybuilding. Tragic, yes, but not surprising. It’s hard to have personal relationships that are truly healthy that develop from professional ones, sometimes.

The intrigue! I wonder if it started drizzling in paradise…

Depends what you value, literally. “Most” in this case would be a hyberbolic qualifier in my case. I’m generally satisfied with “middle of the road,” and don’t need “expensive” to reach satisfaction.

That’s interesting. Paying not for time, not for sex, but for discretion. Interesting. I can see how that’s a thing for some guys. It might even be to a degree for me, now that I reflect on it.

The very nature of “luxury goods.” Thing is…a high ticket price doesn’t necessarily translate into high quality. In fact, some luxury goods are inferior in quality to similar goods with less “luxury” attached.

Phenomenal, eh? Good for you. He’s not worth it to me. Forgive me for not believing it, to be frank.

“People say…”

I feel a lot of these guys have an unrealistic understanding of what they expect…

Some of that could be due to rigidity in his offerings. Has anyone actually ever seen him fuck or be fucked?

I feel like that could be said of any provider in any service profession. Admittedly, it’s nice when the service provider enjoys their work – but I don’t suppose it’s necessary. That’s the difference between a job and a vocation, in some respects.

In my line of work, I provide care for people. I genuinely care about them. But boundaries mean I can’t become enmeshed. BFE – Boyfriend EXPERIENCE. He’s not your actual boyfriend. He’s providing the experience of a boyfriend, however. It’s worth noting too that it’s not a SE, spouse experience. Things change for a lot of folks when relationships move from boyfriend to spouse. Sometimes even real dating is an acting game. The curtain falls once it moves on to something different – and it ain’t always a pleasant change!

Provider asked that of you?