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In addition to playing the victim, now you’re trying to gaslight us into saying what we read wasn’t what we read. I don’t often agree with @pubic_assistance, but he’s right. Be an adult and own responsibility.

It’s kind of rich of you to play the victim after we all read the conversation where you threatened him with police and deportation etc.

Kidney stones.

To paraphrase the advice all over this forum when arranging an appointment, be it massage, quickie, overnight, or travel, you need to be clear about expectations. Otherwise, you’ll be disappointed. If I wanted a full service massage, I would ask. And if the masseur was cagey about it, I’d likely move on. There are other providers with less hangups that could overshadow time together.

I forgot we’re above cliches and stereotypes here! Always novel content. 😏

Two things… Age doesn’t dictate looking good. And beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

I’ve found that’s only halfway helpful info. Guys can be available and never reply and unavailable and have a wide open schedule. It really depends if the guy uses that function knowingly.

I disagree. You do ask here what is a reasonable expectation. It’s unreasonable for most escorts to expect $3600 for an overnight. Unless you’re a bigtime porn star, you likely aren’t going to have a lot of business if you’re simply taking your hourly rate and multiplying it out. Saying “Ask the escort, not here” encourages the imperfect information that makes for an unfair market. It’s perfectly acceptable and reasonable to ask for a range in rates. Negotiation is a whole other topic. As is haggling. That said, I would say for most escorts in the Boston market, things used to be around $1200-$2000/night. Things have gone up and if you can find an overnight that’s fulfilling for less than $1500/night, you scored. The area will affect what a rate is too. NYC is likely higher than Boston. You can get a great overnight for a low rate and you can get a shitty overnight for a high rate. That’s also important to keep in mind. Hiring for an overnight, for me, is about different expectations than for the 60-90 min bang-and-go.

I put the exact amount in an envelope. I try to find out his favorite color and use that color envelope. And write his name in my best attempt at “fancy” script. The financial part is vulgar enough already; I try to make it less so. I do not think putting the money in an envelope is a problem though. I’ve had a provider count money in front of me. Twice. Both were overall poor experiences. Both also are no longer providing.

The OP doesn’t matter. You can respect his request. Or you can be a resistant asshole and ignore his request. This has nothing to do with you brown-nosing with escorts. It has to do with respecting someone who asks you to leave them alone. Maybe you’re too impulsively unable to hold yourself back and behave like an self-controlled adult.

The nature of excellence is that it’s limited. Few services are excellent. The mean is average. You can’t demand premium treatment if what you’re offering isn’t premium comparatively speaking. N. B. “A great time” ≠ “an excellent time” Excellence implies exceptionality.

Why did you loop me into this?

So totally agree!

Or you can just be an adult and not respond to his polite request.

A lot of escorts overvalue their time because of when they aren’t working as escorts. What they fail to take into account is that many people have multiple jobs if one job isn’t cutting it for them. The real ninnies though are we who pay for the services of guys who charge to make up for their down time when they aren’t working. Don’t have a real gig for a week-and-a-half? Charge the one gig to make up for it…and don’t do anything to make income the rest of the time. Who’s *really* the schmuck? The guy who works once every 7-to-10 days or the guy who pays to compensate for that downtime, with no tangible benefit? (I’m not counting “1 hour” sessions here…I’m talking overnights that require more than animalistic sex – i.e. something begun plug and play, what might be called “work” more than “fun work”)

Wish in one hand. Shit in the other. Tell me which fills up faster! If work were 100% enjoyable 100% of the time, it wouldn’t be “work.” Suck it up, buttercup. I love my job, but sometimes it’s work. No one promised you it would always fulfill your dreams!

The Wegovy website

I read that as a completely different FFA 😂 Whose members might in fact have experience getting their arms all the way up inside a creature of they’ve ever helped birth a calf! 😆

As long as it’s consensual all around however it’s unfolded, I don’t really care. We all have our thing.

Wegovy and Ozempic are both the same drug, semaglutide. I’m no pharmacologist, but the difference might be in their usage, not the chemical makeup. Does anyone know?

@samhexum, a colleague uses a coupon from Wegovy to get hers for free. Does Ozempic provide something like that?

Precisely why no one has sympathy for anyone in the upper echelons of health insurance.

Some providers brag about their intense libido and ability to cum multiple times a day. It’s really not unheard of.

Adding my two cents… I have been dealing with obesity my entire life, since I was at least 7. Right now I’m at my heaviest. I am well into “morbidly obese” according to my BMI, and while I’ve had moments of success like losing 110 pounds some years ago, I’ve always ended up gaining it back and then some. I’m now close to 400 pounds, and my doctor recently recommended Wegovy to help with weight management. I’ve tried SO much else: dieticians, nutritionists, programs, plans, you name it. Nothing has worked long-term, so I thought “why not?” This could be a real chance to get some control back. Today, I called my insurance to sort out what would be covered and what wouldn’t. The clinic needs me fill out a questionnaire to help determine the next steps, so I assumed this was going to be straightforward. It wasn’t. The “patient care coordinator” I spoke with was barely helpful. He kept talking about whether Wegovy was “on the formulary” and what’s considered medically necessary. Then he said something that floored me: “Wegovy isn’t isn’t considered medically necessary unless it’s for morbid obesity.” I told him, “I am morbidly obese. I’m almost 400 pounds.” That finally got his attention, and he responded with a weak “Oh…okay,” but the whole conversation left me frustrated and defeated. How is this still such a fight? They’re always on you about your weight every doctor’s visit, every form you fill out, but when it comes time to actually provide help, they act like it’s not serious until you’re teetering on the edge of a medical disaster. It’s like insurance companies have created this impossible game: you’re too fat to ignore but not fat enough to help. I wanted to share this partly to vent but also to hear from anyone else who’s been through this with Wegovy or Ozempic. Have you tried it? Did it help? What was the cost like for you, and how did your insurance handle it? I’m honestly curious about what to expect if I manage to get past this ridiculous process. And one more thing, can we all agree that insurance is a scam? They drag their feet, deny people the care they need, and then wonder why nobody has any sympathy for those CEOs raking in millions. (To say nothing about the assassinated insurance CEO a few weeks ago.) The system makes it so hard to even start. If anyone has advice or just wants to share their own frustrations, I’m all ears.

@marylander1940, I don’t even understand what you’re asking… This is also an example of a time you rush to the escort’s “defense,” as I told you about before.