john1973

I guess I can understand seeing him again, and thinking right away of him having a child nearby.
 
I would say if the idea of his having a child enters your head when you are with him, do your best to concentrate on
 
1) him peeling his clothes off and the parts of his body you like
2) the hot hole he wants you to turn into a freeway tunnel for your Pelvic Prius
3) his grunts and gasps of pleasure
 
Thinking about those things right now sure drive off the thought of anything else in my mind!

Somewhat true. It really depends on the person. I do have one close friend that I have formed a very good, friendly relationship with but we do fuck around. He moved so it only happens when he’s in town for business. I think it brings us even closer together the fact that we can be intimate with each other. We’re just too independent to actually have a relationship so it’s best we’re just friends.

I am not much of a TV watcher, so whatever is playing is typically fine. Even a program I wouldn't watch would serve as an adventure. That said, I was visiting my brother (who is NOT a Fox News watcher) and one of the kids was called by their mom while changing channels. What channel did they land on just as they were summoned? You guessed it - Fox News. I'm talking with my brother who is on the other side of the room and at some point a commentator came on and started talking shit about gays and lesbians. Despite being insulting, the commentator was interesting. After about five minutes my brother realized what was on, switched off the TV, and said "you don't have to watch that shit at my house." When the kids came back in he reminded them that Fox News is not watched in their home.

Sure you can. Keep a syringe with steroids in one hand and a ball of fresh moozarelle and proscuitt in the other.

He was mentioned in several threads, one of my worst experiences ever.
A catty, overweight diva that's much older and heavier than in the pix, and from what I remember, he even tried upcharges on me, I'd SO stay away.

Massage. But this was about five years ago so maybe he has changed or maybe he did me a favour.

Although Campus opens at 3:00 every day, nothing really happens until 6:00. I visited four times last week. If you go earlier, there is one dancer who dances at 5:00, then half an hour of music, then one more dance, and another half hour of music. There are only a couple of customers. But by 6:00 on Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, and Saturday, the show really begins. And from 6:00 - 9:00, you are treated to a number of dancers, mostly twinks. At 9:00, another group arrives, mostly of bigger guys. Fortunately, the quality of the twinks right now is high, so I had a very good time every day between the stage and the back room.
 
Some of the twink dancers:
 
BRANDON - was an exceptional find. He has dark blond hair and an overall tan. He's cute and sexy, kind of an ideal-looking twink. He works out a lot in the gym, and his body is pretty amazing, from the firm pecs to hard six pack of abs, firm young high ass, and long straight legs. He walks and dances on the balls of his feet, as Pascal used to do. He's 25. Although his face is often impassive on stage, he also has a radiant and sometimes mischievous smile. I had a lap dance each day he was there, and they were delightful. When he first takes off his shorts, he has a small penis, like a classical statue. But with the slightest encouragement, he is a marvelous grower. Sometimes on stage, he parades with a firm, slightly curved, upward pointing dick. He is warm, personable, quite willing, generous, fun, and always gorgeous.
 
LUDO / LUDOVIC - is a bit unusual, but that's OK. When we first arrived, he came up to the table almost immediately, announced his name, and asked if we wanted a lap dance. No warm-up, no preliminaries. We declined. Two days later, he came over and did the same to me. He's cute, sexy, very nice body, so I said "Maybe," but I am always careful, and so I added, "but you must take off all your clothes before we begin." He said first dance was in boxers, and then we would see. I courteously but firmly declined. He got up and walked away and approached other customers, but got no response. This went on twice more, until finally he sat down, I repeated, he thought, and then said OK. When we got in back, he was fine, took off everything immediately, and he has a beautiful twink body. As I was playing, I became aware of a slight sound. Then I realized he was humming. I think out of nervousness, and he was unaware. As I got to the more erogenous zones, the volume and pace of the humming picked up. I thought, this will be fun. So I played my "organ recital," using "registers" fore and aft, and Ludo hummed louder and louder. He never said no, never asked me to stop, and I had great fun with him; I hope he had fun, too. I think a little experience will change all that, but right now, he is very good and fun.
 
XAVIER - is currently one of the most popular boys. He is 20, tall, dark haired, smooth skinned, very well endowed, and slender. He's a student. He has a beautiful face and perpetual smile. His dancing is a little awkward - he bends forward most of the time, but he is fully nude for the whole slow dance. In the back he is warm, engaging, generous, fun, and interactive. But get him while you can, because he is usually occupied.
 
MIKA / MICHAEL - is a special find. He is the best conversationalist by far, and very, very sexy. He is of Lebanese background, but born in Canada. He's 23, dark haired, sparkling eyes, well endowed, nice ass, and he is a student. He is fun to chat with at the bar, and then even more fun to take in back for a lap dance. He gives one of the best dances available, always watching to make sure you are having fun and ready to do whatever is necessary so you have a good time. Highly recommended.
 
DALLAS - is a 22 year old cute little blond. His mop of hair is kind of unruly, but he is sweet, gentle, eager, and very good in back. He has light blond down on his ass and legs and crack, and he is fun to pet. He will sit with you at your table and chat nicely, and then go in back and give you other pleasures.
 
ALEX - is a young, slender, smooth skinned, dark haired dancer, who often wore a baseball cap. He frequently sat with one of the regular customers at the bar. He danced fully nude, and he is very well endowed. His dances were energetic and he moved around a lot, and he showed off everything clearly. I saw him go in back several times.
 
CARMELO - was a 24 year old smooth skinned, slender young man. He danced sensuously and fully nude in his slow dance. He is well endowed and happy to show you. In lap dance, he was good and cooperative and interactive.
 
Then there were several bigger guys, not hugely muscular or big body builders, but fuller, somewhat muscular bodies. All would have been right at home in Stock (and maybe that's where they came from). They smiled, they danced well, they had very nice torsos. I saw a couple of their first dances, but I must have been in back every time one did a slow dance, because I didn't see any. So I don't know if they danced fully nude or just did the "Stock Flash." Here are five of them:
 
PAULY - was a personable, pleasant, smooth skinned young man.
 
TYSON - was one of the biggest, nice, smooth, seemed pleasant.
 
MAX - did a very good first dance and got almost nude. He tries, moves around.
 
COLE - for me was the most interesting. He is tall, very nice body with muscles, the best of the Stock type. He is wearing a man-bun. When he smiled, he looked very young, perhaps 20. I would have liked to see him in a slow dance, but I never did. But he looked very promising.
 
KANE - was another fairly muscular, tall, somewhat more mature dancer. I don't know whether he stripped completely either.

Okay so lap dances are no longer allowed at Lucky Horseshoe which is unfortunate as the dancers make their money from it. But you can still chat with them and have the dancer sit on your lap. He just can’t grind I guess. They do gave dancers every night of the week. It gets so busy on the weekend though so the dancers typically hangout with their regular clients. If you want all their attention I say go during a week night. Tuesdays is typically audition night so you get to see fresh blood. But that starts at 7pm then the regular dancers take over at 8.
 
Atmosphere has dancers as well but only on Thursday, Friday, and Saturday. Typically hunkier guys than Lucky Horseshoe but the bar itself never get too busy. That might be good for you if you’re trying to get the dancers attention. The weekend is their busiest for sure but they need to do something to attract more crowd.
 
The Phoenix bar in the burbs also has dancers from Thursday to Sunday I believe. It’s just out of my way but it’s close if you’re staying by O’Hare airport. For longtime IL residents they may know the Phoenix as the former Hunters bar.

Are you the new moderator of this site now? Congratulations!

How do you feel about the new(er) listings on Masseurfinder that were former dancers (go-go) at Lucky Horseshoe? Any of them legit? Some are also on Rentmen.
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/33408/
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/35405/
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/31127/
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/31283/
 
There are probably more but those are the ones I remember from when I can manage to visit the establishment. Any 411 on them?

I hum the national anthem during sex LOL
 
In all honesty though I use an average size dildo as part of my “prep” process before I meet him. Just enough to get my hole sort of ready to take on the big one.

That is surprising for someone that worked as a go-go dancers. You’d think he’d be used to that by now. And he should know that the more he shows, the more interaction he provides means more $$$ for him

DJ does this interesting Indian massage with lots of stretching and he literally walks on you at certain points during the massage. It can get a little extreme and even painful.
Not a shred of sensuality, though, if that's what you are looking for.

Oh and.... He is pretty amazing.

I saw him twice when I was in Chicago recently, and I enjoyed myself. But he's not an "easy" escort experience. He screwed up when he came to my hotel the first time (texted the wrong person, got confused reply, went home angry), so I wound up going to his place the next day. He *is* very handsome and skilled; he does have a lovely endowment (does one really care if it's 7 or 8 inches when it's staring you in the face? ), and I hope to see him again when I visit Chicago. He's got a lot going on in his life right now, which is probably why his travel plans change frequently.

NO, you're not alone!
 
I love straight porno, yet unfortunately somehow the manage NOT to show the guy's face at all. Very disappointing!
 
Tyler Nixon
 

 
 
Lucas Frost (bearded)
 

 

 
Logan Pierce
 
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I was in Montreal for 5 days this week and thought I'd report on my experiences in the strip clubs. I have had a good time at all 4 bars over the years, so I always check them all out.
 
Taboo: I only went to Taboo once and did not stay long; there were only 2 dancers (very nice-looking twinks Marco and Fred), and fewer than 5 customers; it was a rainy Tuesday night, so that may have been the problem. Someone in another thread was asking about the lack of curtains in the private dance cubicles. I did not check it out this trip, but I will say that lack of privacy has never seemed to inhibit the Taboo dancers.
 
Stock: I had a very good private dance on Sunday night with Pepe (as in LePew, he said), a tall muscular Quebecois dancer. He seemed very straight, but he was very friendly in the back room. I also poked my head in to Stock that same rainy Tuesday night, and it was as dead as I have ever seen it. A big group of dancers was gathered around the near end of the bar, and one shouted out "Hey, come back!" as I made my escape.
 
Campus: I stopped in to Campus twice (Monday and Tuesday - I tried all 4 clubs that night), and it was pretty low energy both times. On Monday there were long breaks between dancers on stage; I stayed for one drink and none of the dancers ever approached me. On Tuesday, the stage shows were more steady, but it was still slow. There was some sort of bad feeling among the dancers, with one guy seeming on the outs with the others; it looked like a fight might break out a few times, but nothing ever happened. Multiple handsome dancers came up and talked to me, and I had a great private with Daniel, a young black/mixed race guy who said he'd only been working there a couple of weeks - muscular, hung, very enthusiastic.
 
Adonis: I have always liked this club more than some posters, and Adonis (now open 7 nights a week - Lux was only open 5 nights) was the clear winner this trip. I went three times, and it was consistently busier and livelier than Stock, Campus, or Taboo. It is true that some of the dancers here (and this has been true when it was JP's and Lux, too) are unhealthy looking and unattractive. There is one dancer who is very overweight and appears to be in his mid-40s, at least; I thought he was a customer at first. But it's also true that I have had some really good private dances here. John (handsome young Asian guy with a very sexy body, great dancer) did a good private dance with me. I also had a good experience with Jimmy, tall brunette with a big cock who used to dance at Taboo; he is very accommodating if you're willing to pay his price. Jonathan, handsome young straight guy with a good body, is friendly in a sort of charmingly gawky way. I am pleased to have Adonis back up and running again. But it is - to my mind - largely unchanged from its previous incarnation; if you did not like Lux, you probably won't like Adonis, either.
 
Ichabod

Looks yummy!

Actually there are supposedly professional cuddlers. Not sure I’d pay for it but I did join a meet up group in Chicago once for cuddling. I do enjoy cuddling but never attended a session from the group. After seeing some of the people attending I’m not sure I’d want to.

I want to thank ALL of you for your words of support - that's what helps in order to get out ahead of this.
 
You all have simply reinforced the concept of family - it is a heart felt and wonderful feeling.

What distracts you from ejaculating during a session?
 
The last couple of sessions I had took a bit longer for me to cum because of distractions. It’s one thing to rub my hole but hard fingering is distracting to me. So is biting my nips. I can’t find pleasure when I’m in pain. I can cum just by being jacked off. Maybe I don’t play enough to get used to the other stuff. It’s just weird.

BUMP!!!!

Anyone seen this man?
 
https://rentmen.eu/Brybrybry

So I saw Caleb this afternoon and it was a good experience. His massage skills were good. I think because he’s only 5’7” that it’s not as easy for him to reach compared to someone who is 6’0” or taller. I did ask for deep pressure and he was able to deliver that on my body parts closer to him but medium on the other parts. Not that it’s a bad thing. And he was easy to talk to, very friendly guy.

Good luck, Drew!