Bad John’s List

[hypothetically]

Does that or similar websites still exist?

[FTM Zachary Prince]

Yup. But it’s generally seen as bad form to discuss this topic openly with clients.

[hypothetically]

This is the “ask an ESCORT” section of the board tho..

[FTM Zachary Prince]

This is the “ask an ESCORT” section of the board tho..

 

And? Your point is?

[MikeBiDude]

This is the “ask an ESCORT” section of the board tho..

I think your original query was asked and answered. In the affirmative.

[hypothetically]

I think your original query was asked and answered. In the affirmative.

 

I’ve been provided what I needed, but thank you for your assistance, friend.

[hypothetically]

And? Your point is?

 

My point is..

Clients are welcome, by all means, to chime in.. but my inquiry was not directed to clients, per the name of this section of the forum. I wasn’t asking the client nor was this intended to be an open discussion amongst them. I asked a question. I received what I asked for privately.

 

I’d like you to “elaborate” on bad form on a platform that I am not personally using to garner clientele however. If you don’t mind.

[rvwnsd]

Is "Bad John's List" like "Angie's List" for bad boys?

[bnm73]

Is "Bad John's List" like "Angie's List" for bad boys?

I think he's referring to a list of "bad clients." i.e., is there a resource escorts can use to find out if a client is worth doing business with.

 

(People who hire prostitutes are -- or used to be called -- "Johns..." It lists bad "Johns...")

[mike carey]

I think he's referring to a list of "bad clients." i.e., is there a resource escorts can use to find out if a client is worth doing business with.

I think he knew that but was making a word play on the apostrophe making it read as 'The list belonging to Bad John'. My apologies if you were playing the straight man to his gag.

[bnm73]

I think he knew that but was making a word play on the apostrophe making it read as 'The list belonging to Bad John'. My apologies if you were playing the straight man to his gag.

Me? Play straight? Perish the thought....

[FTM Zachary Prince]

My point is..

Clients are welcome, by all means, to chime in.. but my inquiry was not directed to clients, per the name of this section of the forum. I wasn’t asking the client nor was this intended to be an open discussion amongst them. I asked a question. I received what I asked for privately.

 

I’d like you to “elaborate” on bad form on a platform that I am not personally using to garner clientele however. If you don’t mind.

 

Clients read this forum. Hence my note that discussing this topic openly in front of clients is typically considered bad form. This is better discussed privately in places that only escorts have access to read. If you received the information you needed privately, that’s great! Discussing the topic openly in front of clients is usually considered bad form, and Since you didn’t even know that these types of sites existed, it seemed relevant to inform you of. Just because this is the Ask An Escort forum does not mean that all topics are appropriate here. Regardless I’m pleased that you received the information you needed... privately. It’s better if no further details are provided on this very CLIENT-facing platform tho.

 

In the future, if you need information from other escorts that should not be discussed in front of clients, it’s best to add a note to your OP asking for responses via DM only.

Edited August 24, 2018 by FTM Zachary Prince

[mike carey]

Clients read this forum. Hence discussing this topic openly in front of clients is bad form.

I thought your first response had answered the OP's question perfectly. 'Although this is a forum for clients to ask escorts questions, what you asked is the sort of matter we don't discuss with clients.' I don't know if he was being innocently or deliberately disingenuous.

[MikeBiDude]

deliberately disingenuous

My guess...

[YoungAD]

Yup. But it’s generally seen as bad form to discuss this topic openly with clients.

 

And? Your point is?

 

Clients read this forum. Hence discussing this topic openly in front of clients is bad form. This is better discussed privately in places that only escorts have access to read. If you received the information you needed privately, that’s great. Discussing the topic openly in front of clients is considered bad form. Since you didn’t even know that these types of sites existed, seemed relevant to inform you of. Just because this is the Ask An Escort forum does not mean that all topics are appropriate here. Regardless I’m pleased that you received the information you needed... privately. It’s better if no further details are provided on this very CLIENT-facing platform.

 

In the future, if you need information from other escorts that should not be discussed in front of clients, it’s best to add a note to your OP asking for responses via DM only.

 

Your opinion regarding the appropriateness of this topic is exactly that, your opinion. Having one does not make it fact.

 

And you could have just as easily followed your own advice and addressed your concerns to the OP via private message instead of schooling them openly.

[BaronArtz]

Clients read this forum. Hence discussing this topic openly in front of clients is bad form. This is better discussed privately in places that only escorts have access to read. If you received the information you needed privately, that’s great. Discussing the topic openly in front of clients is considered bad form. Since you didn’t even know that these types of sites existed, seemed relevant to inform you of. Just because this is the Ask An Escort forum does not mean that all topics are appropriate here. Regardless I’m pleased that you received the information you needed... privately. It’s better if no further details are provided on this very CLIENT-facing platform.

 

In the future, if you need information from other escorts that should not be discussed in front of clients, it’s best to add a note to your OP asking for responses via DM only.

 

Are you the new moderator of this site now? Congratulations!

[FTM Zachary Prince]

Nowhere did I state that this thread needed to be deleted or express any authority over this forum. I stated openly exactly the amount of information I was comfortable stating openly! The fact that it is generally seen as bad form to discuss this topic openly with clients was a piece of information I was communicating.

 

Giving advice to another escort on how to communicate amongst ourselves about sensitive topics that are not meant to be client-facing is not an attempt at moderating this forum. Sorry if you can’t underatand the difference. Also not my problem tho.

[FTM Zachary Prince]

I thought your first response had answered the OP's question perfectly. 'Although this is a forum for clients to ask escorts questions, what you asked is the sort of matter we don't discuss with clients.' I don't know if he was being innocently or deliberately disingenuous.

 

Yeah in retrospect I can’t tell if he’s being innocently unknowing or deliberately disingenuous either. The combination of no profile pic, no identifying details as an escort on his profile, and my interpretation of tone made it seem disingenuous to me too. But maybe my responses were too harsh in tone. Regardless, the heart/truth of the matter is the same. Sorry to the OP if my tone was harsh, but I stand by the heart of what I’ve said.

Edited August 25, 2018 by FTM Zachary Prince

[rvwnsd]

I think he knew that but was making a word play on the apostrophe making it read as 'The list belonging to Bad John'. My apologies if you were playing the straight man to his gag.

@mike carey

[Guest]

Notwithstanding the errant use of the apostrophe, isn’t the issue that this discussion got off to a bad start:

A) @hypothetically asked a closed end question expecting an open ended answer, and

B) @FTM Zachary Prince gave a closed end answer with a little elaboration that didn’t answer the asker’s implied question

 

...then then tension ensued

 

But, no need to be tense. I think @hypothetically got what he sought and @FTM Zachary Prince made a very good point honoring his commitment to discretion on the matter.

 

Now, please shake hands and make up:)

Edited August 25, 2018 by Guest

[Guest]

Given the rapidly declining state of this community, if you aren’t creating tensions then you aren’t doing it right.

 

as evidenced by the Politics board...