Keenan

If it's a mutual like then the provider might see it differently but at times the like is more "one-sided". By that I mean the client feels something while the provider doesn't. It's part of the job of the provider to make each client feel special. If it's something that you'd expect that the provider doesn't charge their regular rate then before arranging something make sure you talk with the provider and make that known. The provider could be fine with it or want to keep it strictly business, meaning they still charge the rate for their time. It shouldn't be off-putting rather it gives you the answer you are looking for, move onto the next provider.

As a provider I'm being paid for my time whether it's going to get dinner with the client or spend time in the bedroom. As a result I would charge my regular rate either way. If it's a regular customer and depending on how frequently there might be times when I give a discount here and there but in general I charge for my time and whatever happens during that time.

Depends on where you live but most local police have other things to worry about more important than what you are doing behind closed doors with someone.

For me typically anything past midnight is a "no-go" unless it was pre-arranged. Most who call at the last minute are either high or drunk and I want to make sure I protect myself from any situations that could arise.

I am finding that there are more clients out there not treating providers with respect. Primarily for me these are the ones that will call last minute looking for a last minute appointment. Also for me it's the way some of the way that a client will talk to a provider. Yes I am a sexworker but I am also a human so treat me with the same respect you'd want yourself.

Say where you found him. Mention when you are looking for and if you are looking for him to come to you or you go to him. Mention how much time you are looking for and mention what you enjoy. This should limit numerous texts back and forth and gets right to the point. Be aware that he might not be available at the time you are requesting. If so have some alternative times. Also be aware that if you are trying to do a same day booking that it might not happen based on his availability. You might want to ask his rates also.

I feel there are a number "straight" men that hire with the curiosity of what is it like to be sexual with a man. Some enjoy the experience and might consider themselves bisexual afterwards. I've had a number of men come to me saying they wanted to try anal but their wife wouldn't let them. My job is to help them with the experience to help them with their fantasy.

As far as identity if you aren't using face pictures it will help with identity issues. At the same time clients can and will ask for a face picture before meeting. While you can let them know not to share it once you share the picture with them you have no control over where that picture shows up. As far as career opportunities just be smart, don't attach your real name to any photos, etc... There are many other risks beyond those that come with escorting such as keeping yourself protected from potential STD and meeting with clients who could potentially be crazy and try to harm you. Make sure you screen and get an idea so you know who you are meeting with.

Keep in mind it's not as easy as it sounds. You need to be able to work with all types of clients even if you aren't attracted to them. Also consider your personal safety, not only sexually (STDs) but also clients that might decide to be violent. As others have said you also need to be able to provide a fantasy for the client.

Thank you for saying this. Too many times I have a client say they feel they are entitled to "this or that" just because they paid. Paying doesn't give you full control of my body, it gives you the time to spend with me and whatever we agree upon during that time.

It depends on the provider. Some providers have other jobs, some providers don't want their families to know so they go by a pseudonym. Keep in mind that providers are performers/entertainers providing a fantasy for their clients. Knowing their real name and knowing more about them could kill the fantasy.

Make it clear with the provider prior to the session that it's something you'd like. With that said setting the appointment at least a day before might be best to make sure he hasn't seen anyone else that day.

There used to be a meetup during MAL weekend (MLK Weekend) in DC. It's sort of fallen apart. It would be great to do that again. Keenan

It's still a thing, not a prevalent as was in the past but depending on the city you can still find it. Less with male escorts though. My guess is the Internet like everything else killed it in many ways. Keenan

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