Keenan

I am finding that there are more clients out there not treating providers with respect. Primarily for me these are the ones that will call last minute looking for a last minute appointment. Also for me it's the way some of the way that a client will talk to a provider. Yes I am a sexworker but I am also a human so treat me with the same respect you'd want yourself.

Say where you found him. Mention when you are looking for and if you are looking for him to come to you or you go to him. Mention how much time you are looking for and mention what you enjoy. This should limit numerous texts back and forth and gets right to the point. Be aware that he might not be available at the time you are requesting. If so have some alternative times. Also be aware that if you are trying to do a same day booking that it might not happen based on his availability. You might want to ask his rates also.

I feel there are a number "straight" men that hire with the curiosity of what is it like to be sexual with a man. Some enjoy the experience and might consider themselves bisexual afterwards. I've had a number of men come to me saying they wanted to try anal but their wife wouldn't let them. My job is to help them with the experience to help them with their fantasy.

As far as identity if you aren't using face pictures it will help with identity issues. At the same time clients can and will ask for a face picture before meeting. While you can let them know not to share it once you share the picture with them you have no control over where that picture shows up. As far as career opportunities just be smart, don't attach your real name to any photos, etc... There are many other risks beyond those that come with escorting such as keeping yourself protected from potential STD and meeting with clients who could potentially be crazy and try to harm you. Make sure you screen and get an idea so you know who you are meeting with.

Keep in mind it's not as easy as it sounds. You need to be able to work with all types of clients even if you aren't attracted to them. Also consider your personal safety, not only sexually (STDs) but also clients that might decide to be violent. As others have said you also need to be able to provide a fantasy for the client.

Thank you for saying this. Too many times I have a client say they feel they are entitled to "this or that" just because they paid. Paying doesn't give you full control of my body, it gives you the time to spend with me and whatever we agree upon during that time.

It depends on the provider. Some providers have other jobs, some providers don't want their families to know so they go by a pseudonym. Keep in mind that providers are performers/entertainers providing a fantasy for their clients. Knowing their real name and knowing more about them could kill the fantasy.

Make it clear with the provider prior to the session that it's something you'd like. With that said setting the appointment at least a day before might be best to make sure he hasn't seen anyone else that day.

There used to be a meetup during MAL weekend (MLK Weekend) in DC. It's sort of fallen apart. It would be great to do that again. Keenan

It's still a thing, not a prevalent as was in the past but depending on the city you can still find it. Less with male escorts though. My guess is the Internet like everything else killed it in many ways. Keenan

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Many of the things you mentioned held true in my younger years as an escort. Being naive I didn't properly screen and didn't take proper precautions. I dealt with everything from aggressive clients who had weapons or were on drugs to being raped to being held against my will. Also not using PrEP in my younger years and taking clients bare I did deal with some STDs, luckily nothing that couldn't be resolved. This work is definitely physically, emotionally and mentally draining. Luckily after my family found out I was doing adult work, also stripping and adult videos, they have been supportive, even somewhat protective.

I'm available in that area. Vers.

I'd actually say quite the contrary. If you are visiting a providers profile and they see it then it could show interest. Rather than "lurk" let them know you have interest in them and you'd like to know when they are coming to your area.

If I'm at my day job or around other people I know I typically won't answer the phone. Personally I prefer that the client text or email me to setup the appointment and then afterwards we can talk prior to the appointment if necessary.