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it blows my mind that people think that if they have someone coming over- paid or not - that you should have to consider whether you have to tell them they are walking into a space where someone else may be there or not: OF COURSE YOU SHOULD TELL THEM. 
 Jesus Christ!
if you walked into a providers house and there was someone else sitting there, unknown and unexpected to be there, you too would freak out or be unnerved,  regardless of how sex positive they profess to be AFTER THE FACT.  
have some basic decorum and manners. PLEASE. 
 

I'm puzzled why you're uncertain about this. Yes, you should have informed the provider that your roommate would be home.

If you have a roommate, either:
1.) Disclose that you have one and they will be present, or
2.) Make arrangements for the roommate NOT to be there when you’re meeting with a client. 
 
Clients expect privacy for many reasons and also keep in mind that although you and the client may not know each other (and both of you are taking some risk with meeting), the roommate is even more of a stranger AND a surprise to the client. 
 

If I went to someone’s home, expecting to be alone with the person and see that other people are in the house without being told, I too would leave. It would not feel safe. It’s weird that you wouldn’t tell the therapist that you had a roommate or think that you should’ve. Would you have appreciated walking in to the masseur’s studio and encountering a roommate or spouse he failed to mention? 

Yes you should have told him your roommate was there. Reverse the situation. Would you be comfortable if you were going to his place and unexpectedly found his roommate there?

Damn. Too bad. But thanks for the eye candy.

He doesn't escort anymore. His ad has been expired for 5 years:
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Quoted me 16k for a weekend.   
24 Hours is 8k. 
12 Hours 4 k 

I saw Camilo in San Francisco recently.  Handsome man.  Delightful massage.  PM if you would like to know more.

Wow, wow, wow!   Saw him yesterday.   He chose to stay in a seedy hotel because it was close to the venue where the concert was held that brought him to my city initially.   But is the single negative or semi-negative comment I'd ever make about him.   The pics are 100% accurate.   His "stats" are 100% accurate.   He is VERY WELL HUNG.  Very tall and lean.   I told him what I wanted in advance, which included things not in his "likes" and he he said "OK" in our texts.   He then delivered all without reminder.    I am not someone who normally seeks out a power top but he definitely fit that bill.   I'm still sore a day later!    Could not recommend him more.   He promised to come back to see me in a few weeks.   Is from Sydney.    Very nice guy on top of being a hot sex machine.

https://rentmasseur.com/WillSwaggerSF
 
Boys, I was so happy to see Will advertising again after a break.  I went to see him and can report that  he is as sexy and sweet as ever and the massage was an A+  He is at a new location just north of the Castro and easy to get to.  Immaculate and inviting, as was Will.  He technique was amazing and unique.  I left feeling super relaxed and awesome.  Feel free to message w/ any questions.  And he definitely looks even better than his pix on Masseur.  I saw that he has his RentMen ad back up as well and although the pix are a little older there, he looks the SAME.  Smoking hot.  

I don't know why I didn't remember previously but I saw Aaron in 2019.  It wasn't a great session.  He got me off as fast as he could and didn't provide what was promised.  He kissed but very reluctantly.
I left a bad review and he got mad and said I was threatening his livelihood.   He apologized right away.
Right after that his Rentmen ad disappeared for a while.  He just had a Rentmasseur ad.  I figured my review made him revisit escort work.
Hopefully others have a better experience or he has gotten better.  He is still pretty young and our encounter was five years ago.

Oh- now I understand why no one has experience with him. He wants 350 for massage with HE. 500 for extras. 
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Well clearly not paying the deposit was the right thing to do. Sorry about your bad experience!  

That’s bullshit. 100% bullshit. What rule derived from the nature of the business you refer to? What do you think came first, the prostitute or the client?
 
You seem to believe that clients CREATED escorting. That clients CREATED RentMen. No, the only thing that has been created by clients is stuff like review boards like this. Maybe in this realm, people can assume rules they can or won’t do. Other than that, y’all aren’t running the business either, nor making rules for how providers wish to run things. 

I’m fine with clients paying after they have received, however a deposit is not negotiable. Granted in the case of this guy, the deposit did seem to be asked a bit late. I don’t even give out my hotel name or address without a deposit. They get cross streets, where there’s likely 5 other hotels nearby. 
 
That said, unless someone posts the exchange of what occurred…who’s to say it actually happened verbatim? Something could be missing here. I find most stories here hard to believe without text message screenshots from start to finish. 
 

Well clearly not paying the deposit was the right thing to do. Sorry about your bad experience!  

Well clearly not paying the deposit was the right thing to do. Sorry about your bad experience!  

Well clearly not paying the deposit was the right thing to do. Sorry about your bad experience!  

Well clearly not paying the deposit was the right thing to do. Sorry about your bad experience!  

Well clearly not paying the deposit was the right thing to do. Sorry about your bad experience!  

Well clearly not paying the deposit was the right thing to do. Sorry about your bad experience!  

Well clearly not paying the deposit was the right thing to do. Sorry about your bad experience!  

Well clearly not paying the deposit was the right thing to do. Sorry about your bad experience!  

Well clearly not paying the deposit was the right thing to do. Sorry about your bad experience!  

Well clearly not paying the deposit was the right thing to do. Sorry about your bad experience!