NYXboy

can confirm he is the real deal. 

Welcome to the site and for posting immediately. Though this is not very helpful without a name or link. 

I wasn't really asking for a moral lecture or advice to go elsewhere, thanks though.

When you look outside your window, do you still see Al Jolson dancing the charleston atop a flagpole?

Before commenting on your post, I decided to go through your links, to get a better idea of how you might present to a potential client. 

Here are my observations:
Your RMen ad has been up since 2013. Tons of positive reviews, but the last one being Nov 2013. I know it’s probably because you promote your personal website, and likely have people reach out through there, but your premium clients aren’t keeping up with the reviews. It’s something I always look at when searching a provider, and question why someone suddenly stopped receiving them.
The most apparent thing in both your website and RM ads is that the money comes first, and is the most important thing for you. As a provider, I feel like you are having all future clients pay for the consequences for bad experiences a few previous clients might have left. Being in this since at least 2023, I’d imagine some bad experiences are par for the course. No business has a 100% success rate and a 0% loss rate. 
Your website is rather cold. Even to have a potential client reach out and see if you’re a good fit is gonna cost him $20. 
Tour profile basically reads as: “pay me for every minute I’m working for you, or move on”. 

My own lived experiences:
I live in Montreal, it’s the second biggest city in Canada. Much smaller compared to American big cities, but I think my experiences hold true here. I’ve only been a provider for a year. I don’t have the ripped body and six pack, but I carry myself well, and have an ability to connect with people, identify their needs, and provide what they are looking for. Because I only sign on for clients who I am confident I am able to help, I get to really enjoy my job, and that results in my clients really enjoying their time with me (not bragging or anything but just speaking to my strength)  
In Montreal, I work a pretty consistent and stable number of hours from one week to the next, and each week it’s roughly 50% new clients and 50% returning (I’m a big nerd when it comes to data so I have stats and dashboard on everything). 
I also visit Ottawa, a much smaller city, about once a month. My first time there, I only had three clients. But I connected with many more who weren’t available the weekend I was there. The following month, I reached out to many of them to let them know I was going back, and had my busiest weekend to date. 
What seems to be happening is that I will have a higher % of returning clients in Ottawa. As it’s a smaller city, the clients I’ve connected with there will want to see me when I’m in town. I also reach out to them and don’t wait for them to message me. 
Back home in Montreal, it continues to be 50/50 new and returning. 
I’m going to Atlanta this weekend, and it will be the biggest city I’ve ever worked in. Part of me is intimidated by the number of beautiful providers there (and what they are packing!). The other part of me knows that the client that connects with me is going to leave with a huge smile on his face, have their needs met, and not feel like I was just doing this for the money. I don’t know how many clients I’ll see. The purpose of my trip isn’t work, but I do have a “nice to have” target I’d like to hit, which would help pay down my flight/hotel costs. 
Outside of my work, I also make sure to create lots of downtime for my hobbies, friends, family, etc. A year in, I saw that it was getting hard to not go after every dollar at first. Then I asked myself what my goals were. Now, I have a target yearly income I’d like to make. Every week/month, I get to see if I’m on track. I base my targets on 48 weeks vs 52 so that I have a month off during the year, which also acts as a buffer when weeks are quieter. Having an actual goal makes things much easier to accept. I don’t get thrown off by a quiet week because things are still moving forward. Or, if I see that I’m having a longer quiet stretch, I look at my options. 
This profession has turned me into a branding, marketing, operations, sales, accounting, and customer satisfaction expert 😂. I don’t always wait for clients to come to me, and I don’t push the credit card terminal in their face when they say hello. We get enough of that with the crazy tipping culture everywhere else. 
Lastly, the definition or busy vs quiet week can also be subjective. Maybe a quiet week for you is a really busy week for me. That’s where my goals and targets come in. It gives me perspective on how I’m doing, rather than constantly worry about when the next dollar is gonna come in. 
 
I hope some of this helps. Would love to hear your thoughts and if you have anything else to share! 
Cheers,

Big city, small city, it won’t make a difference if you carry your baggage with you wherever you go.  I say this without any judgment or sarcasm, if you want things to change, you need to start  with the man in the mirror.

I have a regular boy that I see that charges $300/hr, but does $500 for 2 hours.  
I think most are happy to do something like that.   I imagine because one 2 hour booking is preferable to two  1 hour bookings 
 

this is absolutely a definition of rape. If he didn't pay you, he didn't have your consent.   You have been raped.
 
Have you been fucked without your consent?  SHAME on you for replying with this comment.
 
the people in this thread telling him he should 'worry about this business model'. SHAME. 
 
@Tony_txI know you are in Texas, but I would look up legal avenues, and tell him you are doing so. Police often will NOT prosecute a victim of sexual violence.  This may make him rethink and send you the money. Also, Here is a contact details for RAINN, they have a national hotline number you can call and speak with a professional and get some advice. 
National Sexual Assault Hotline: Confidential 24/7 Support | RAINN
WWW.RAINN.ORG RAINN is the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization. RAINN created and operates the...  
I am so sorry this happened to you. 
 
 

I would offer to do this if I were in Texas. 

at this point - if someone demands upfront payment,  I’d leave immediately.  It hasn’t happened much, but when it does, it usually means mediocrity 
since payment after services rendered is the norm, it should be noted in profile if they want payment in advance - of course, the scammers won’t reveal themselves that way.
always cash - no electronic trail or names 

this is absolutely a definition of rape. If he didn't pay you, he didn't have your consent.   You have been raped.
 
Have you been fucked without your consent?  SHAME on you for replying with this comment.
 
the people in this thread telling him he should 'worry about this business model'. SHAME. 
 
@Tony_txI know you are in Texas, but I would look up legal avenues, and tell him you are doing so. Police often will NOT prosecute a victim of sexual violence.  This may make him rethink and send you the money. Also, Here is a contact details for RAINN, they have a national hotline number you can call and speak with a professional and get some advice. 
National Sexual Assault Hotline: Confidential 24/7 Support | RAINN
WWW.RAINN.ORG RAINN is the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization. RAINN created and operates the...  
I am so sorry this happened to you. 
 
 

this is absolutely a definition of rape. If he didn't pay you, he didn't have your consent.   You have been raped.
 
Have you been fucked without your consent?  SHAME on you for replying with this comment.
 
the people in this thread telling him he should 'worry about this business model'. SHAME. 
 
@Tony_txI know you are in Texas, but I would look up legal avenues, and tell him you are doing so. Police often will NOT prosecute a victim of sexual violence.  This may make him rethink and send you the money. Also, Here is a contact details for RAINN, they have a national hotline number you can call and speak with a professional and get some advice. 
National Sexual Assault Hotline: Confidential 24/7 Support | RAINN
WWW.RAINN.ORG RAINN is the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization. RAINN created and operates the...  
I am so sorry this happened to you. 
 
 

this is absolutely a definition of rape. If he didn't pay you, he didn't have your consent.   You have been raped.
 
Have you been fucked without your consent?  SHAME on you for replying with this comment.
 
the people in this thread telling him he should 'worry about this business model'. SHAME. 
 
@Tony_txI know you are in Texas, but I would look up legal avenues, and tell him you are doing so. Police often will NOT prosecute a victim of sexual violence.  This may make him rethink and send you the money. Also, Here is a contact details for RAINN, they have a national hotline number you can call and speak with a professional and get some advice. 
National Sexual Assault Hotline: Confidential 24/7 Support | RAINN
WWW.RAINN.ORG RAINN is the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization. RAINN created and operates the...  
I am so sorry this happened to you. 
 
 

this is absolutely a definition of rape. If he didn't pay you, he didn't have your consent.   You have been raped.
 
Have you been fucked without your consent?  SHAME on you for replying with this comment.
 
the people in this thread telling him he should 'worry about this business model'. SHAME. 
 
@Tony_txI know you are in Texas, but I would look up legal avenues, and tell him you are doing so. Police often will NOT prosecute a victim of sexual violence.  This may make him rethink and send you the money. Also, Here is a contact details for RAINN, they have a national hotline number you can call and speak with a professional and get some advice. 
National Sexual Assault Hotline: Confidential 24/7 Support | RAINN
WWW.RAINN.ORG RAINN is the nation's largest anti-sexual violence organization. RAINN created and operates the...  
I am so sorry this happened to you. 
 
 

Here’s the red flags which I’ve learned from years of experience. All of them are an automatic ‘no’. Say ‘sorry no’ to these clients and do not be tempted to give them the benefit of the doubt. Decide your rules and stick to them regardless. If you don’t do that the work will destroy you. 
1. I’m not able to afford it, would you do me a discount? Top 🚩 
2. I’m a student / temporarily unemployed are there special rates for me? These might come with a ‘sob story’. Very sad. But still it’s a ‘no’. 
3. Do you do half hour sessions? (Anything less than your minimum advertised session….and if you’re advertising anything less than an hour minimum why are you doing that?)
4. Any reference to ‘I’ll be a regular client’ in the discussion. Big 🚩 You’ll never see him again. 
5. Any reference to them being so hot that you’ll not want to charge. Run a mile from these. Run a mile.
6. Opening with ‘I’m very inexperienced / a virgin etc’. Don’t waste your time (if this comes up after he’s booked it’s less of a 🚩 but he’s likely to cancel on the day.
7. Any contact that opens with ‘hey, what’s up, how are you’ etc will be a waste of time. You decide whether you have the spare time to engage with a window shopper.
8. Any contact that opens with a dick pic (or ass). Delete and block. Don’t waste your time. It’s probably not his dick anyway. 
9. Any sex chat during the booking conversation (unless it’s a genuine question about activities included). It will be obvious if the booking process is being used for sex chat. Big 🚩 Disengage immediately.
10. Last minute or urgent bookings. “Free now? I’m desperate” Always trouble. Just answer ‘no sorry’. Even if he offers premium payment don’t accept the booking. 
The common theme? These clients don’t value you. If you accept them at their terms then you’re agreeing with their valuation. That can’t be the start of a good meeting. 
 
 
 

If you want someone who speaks the language of love in an understandable way, try an English speaker.

By ripped off, do you mean that they take your money without doing business with you, or just give a terribly sub-par experience? Big difference. 
As a first time client, I feel it's nothing short of unconscionable to NOT donate for their time right off the bat, regardless of whether they require that or not in order to show them I AM legit and won't stiff them. Far too many people get victimized, which is awful. I don't feel a need to do that if I'm a return client unless that is what they prefer, as I've established trust, regardless of how much time may have gone by between visits. I don't forget someone worth seeing again!
 

😂

I saw Angus earlier today and am still floating on cloud 9!  I only have one provider to compare him to, but as far as all of my sexual experiences, he is one of the best I’ve EVER had.  He is gorgeous inside and out- stunning blue eyes, incredible cheekbones, smooth skin, and a perfectly lean body with a beautiful cock and butt to match.  He was a warm, friendly, and very accommodating host.  He asked my preferences/interests via messaging in advance and delivered exactly what I wanted without my having to verbalize it.  He was generous with his time and body and I left feeling like a million bucks.  Highly recommended!

From the ad:
Hair color:
Dark blond
You wouldn’t happen to be blonde as well, would you?

So I went to trip to Miami, and I can confirm this boy is real, his pics genuine. his dick is uncut and actually perfect. the foreskin is visible when soft but pulls all the way back when hard. YUM 🤤
 
He is actually German but went to an English speaking school, so I think in Europe he advertised as American. (his accent is very unique and adds to his charm) 
 
he is super discreet which I actually like that. Nice lean dancers body.  VERY reasonable rates too. 
 
10/10 recommend if you are in Miami. 
 Instead of making snipey comments - go and indulge! cute, real pics,responses to messages, and performs in bed, - I really cant recommend him higher, 

My advice is - hire someone with plenty of reviews, someone who does NOT do PNP.
 
Secondly, give as much information about what it is you want. although providers are very experienced in the field, they are not mind readers - the more you tell them about what you want, what you don like - the better your experience will be!  I think this is even more vital in circumstances where you are wanting him to be aggressive with you - for eg. what do you mean by aggressive? do you want to be thrown around, slapped? hair pulled? spat on?  spanked? or just bossed around verbally - tell him what are you limits, as well as your desires. 
 
The more open and honest you are, the more likely you will get what you want.  I would be shocked if you are asking for something they haven't already heard! 
 
ENJOY!!!!!

When ever am on Twitter I compliment on guys pic. I tweet how hot, cute and sexy they are. One day Eddie Patrick the porn star. Send me a dm. Telling me that he like my compliment and ask if wanted to see him. Told me if I wanted to book him I had to PayPal him for the booking. I know that this was a scam. Someone probably hack his Twitter and scamming people for schedule appointment and asking for booking PayPal. I told him who ever this is a fake and using hack Eddie Patrick Twitter. The stranger get mad at me and tell me am insulting him. Kept telling me he the real Eddie Patrick in which I don't believe. How do I report this hacking of someone Twitter?

I recall an escort who was proud that he could please a wheelchair bound man with cerebral palsy. 
If they give an answer like the OP received,  block them and report it here. My opinion. 

Hey Thomas, 
I'm sorry you're having this experience. I don't know where you're located but I do know some providers in NYC who are happy to see disabled clients. Perhaps if you share the city you're in, members can help identify some good providers.