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My experience is that most guys (not all, but most) will offer a "session rate" as @MikeBiDude called it. Typically, I'll ask "what are your rates for one, two, and three hours?" It gives them the opportunity to offer a "session rate" without me having to ask about a "discount." 

I’m sure he can pull it off if the accent is thick as well

Well I’m glad you get where I’m coming from because I’m not gaslighting you (and im not gaslighting you by saying I’m not gas … sorry couldn’t resist)
Ill take it further. You can’t blame potential clients for not reading or understanding whatever instructions you have in your ad. Or rather you have to expect it will happen. It’s not like an entrance exam to an elite private school where they shouldn’t be allowed a conversation with one lapse in your preferred methods. And the easier you make it for them they may veer toward a hire. 

To be fair some providers on here convey very professional attitudes - I’m sure there’s a spectrum of behavior just as there is among clients.

Well the best providers will go to considerable lengths to ensure the client had the experience he craves … 

Well the best providers will go to considerable lengths to ensure the client had the experience he craves … 

Well the best providers will go to considerable lengths to ensure the client had the experience he craves … 

Well the best providers will go to considerable lengths to ensure the client had the experience he craves … 

Providers like this need to be “outed” - with the ability for them to defend themselves of course which is why forums like this are good. At some point if what you say is accurate this becomes akin to extortion, preying on client fears for safety, discretion etc - would help to know who he is if you’re comfortable sharing. 
The few times I’ve tried to leave without fully paying a donation for reasons I consider fully justified, it’s turned ugly; the most disengaged / high / drunk / entitled / narcissistic (etc etc) provider still wants his cash at the end of the day.  
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Well the best providers will go to considerable lengths to ensure the client had the experience he craves … 

Yup wouldn’t really fly in New York or San Francisco but it might in some rural areas or states (or countries).
 
 

Don’t put yourself in a position where you can’t handle a cancellation.
If you can’t, find another job.

We can agree to disagree on this, my experience is that female providers are a very different paradigm than males. If nothing else females command far different rates.

I'm not convinced the male sex drive needs a "funnel" to seek out real men. Unfortunately, actual physical contact is one thing AI won't be able to provide for a loooooong time.
(and when it does, there goes not only escorting, but probably dating, marriage, etc.)

But there is a guarantee for a provider to get cash with a deposit, right? If not, why would you ask for a deposit?

It’s not about having a sophisticated and experienced client base here and out there.  It about having a diverse community.  Jarrod seems to think that his business model is the only one that works.  

I think @Jarrod_Uncut sometimes feels he’s “educating” us. Unfortunately my feeling is that this forum represents a fairly sophisticated and experienced client base. Not sure a lot of minds are going to get educated/changed here. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Why don’t you just do what you want to do?  Why bother presenting your business model here? Are you trying to convince us to agree to it?

Two sides to every story.
I would be curious to hear the client's side of your story.
 

In my brief time as a member, I've noticed certain providers here who, although they may not match my personal preferences, I'd still would hire just to have the opportunity to meet them in person based on their interactions within the forum.

This provider’s business model is “If you go into my store, you have to buy something. If you ask about a product, you have to buy it.”

Without seeing / hearing the whole conversation I don’t see what is a lie here.
”I want to book something” isn’t a lie if I don’t end up booking.
”Yes I promise I’ll be there at 2pm on Sunday with a donation of X for Y hours of your time” and then they don’t show up or do but don’t have the donation or expect more than that time - that’s a lie. 
 
Are you saying the only outcome from contact should be setting up an agreement to meet at a certain time and place for specific terms?
If so your expectations from sales outreach are unrealistic. 
 
 

I’ve heard a recurring narrative from providers of how they once had a bumper year, thought it was going to last forever, and blew through everything and their luck changed (eg their benefactor left town or found someone else).