Strafe13
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- Mjonis, + Axiom2001 and + MysticMenace
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Hey there! I am so sorry to hear we had a negative experience together. I can’t recall the session myself, but if it is vividly terrible enough to make me #35, I’d like to offer you a FREE ONE HOUR session (yes, zero dollars).
Please check my page for contact info, I’d be more than happy to make things right between us! Escorts are humans and have slip-ups/make mistakes. If you’re willing I’d be happy to meet when I’m back home this Monday.
thanks for supporting our community,
-steve (aka Tyler Dickson, TALLWHITEANDHUNG)
*swoon* Looks like my instincts in buddylisting Tyler's ad were on the nose. I can't wait to hire this guy once my COVID-19 vaccination is complete!
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His ad came up as "not found" when I clicked on the link.
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Who was the luck one that you hired?
It wasn't my query. But that recommendation of Tyler Roberts sounds wonderful.
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Every single person I have ever hired in NYC has been on short notice. I have found that “Available Now” usually means just that. I guess I have been lucky. However, I haven’t hired anyone in NYC in almost a year for various reasons.
My experience has been mixed. I've found quite often, and some guys have admitted, that a lot of escorts keep their profile's "available now" feature on all the time so that they'll stand out in general browsing. I've had guys simply not respond, and others say that it was too late or they were out with friends or having dinner. It obviously wasn't worth it to impress upon them the inherent contradiction in displaying themselves as "available now" in such situations.
It could be the specific type of guys I reach out to, or maybe I'm inquiring at times of peak interest when providers would be less likely to be available. I've never thought that deeply about a potential pattern. In most locales I wouldn't think much of it, but I've just found it surprising in NYC, which literally has over 500 active profiles at any given moment, how often I've encountered difficulty trying to hire on the spur of the moment. Having alternate options is always a sound strategy, but it can often be fruitless, even in the city that never sleeps.
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OK, so you didn't have initial contact with any of the three alternates until Plan A wasn't happening. How long after checking into the hotel did you decide on Plan B?
I had a no-show occur with me last year while on a work trip in Boston. I contacted the guy I wanted to meet a week before traveling so I could arrange my schedule and book the two hours. Everything went smoothly and he even texted me the morning of the appointment to say he was looking forward to meeting me. That night, while at dinner with colleagues, he texted around 7PM that he couldn't make it. Our appointment was 9PM. By the time dinner was over and I returned to my hotel it was after 8PM. I then spent two hours scrolling through other profiles, initiating contact, most going unanswered and those who did basically laughed at my attempt to get an appointment within a couple hours even though their “available now” indicator was activated.
I’m glad you turned that lemon into lemonade, but I think you also had a huge amount of luck that your three alternates were available. You were also looking for a replacement for an overnight and had the flexibility to schedule multiple one hour sessions several hours before the desired meetings, especially your second and third. Mine was a one-shot, two hour session for that night.
I agree that @MscleLovr had some good fortune with his alternates, which isn't always common and will vary with the season and market. I usually hire in NYC, which has the largest selection of male escorts in the country. Yet, I've found it to be pretty difficult to book providers on short notice, even when they have the "available now" feature on their rentmen profile switched on. Being stood up often means that you'll be unable to book a replacement, even in the Big Apple. I imagine that it's also quite frustrating for escorts when clients pull a "no show" or cancel at the last minute. Those are the perils of this business, right?
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oh dear god can we put this to bed now ... you got stood up ... he's a flake ... write the review so you feel you've done your part ... then again, if you've told your waiter and gosh knows who else about being ghosted, maybe that's part of the thrill for you
The OP "put this to bed" nearly 2 hours before your post when he gave us his last update and said that he's over the incident and will be taking a break from the forum for a while (see post #72). So why take this parting shot at him?
For those of us who hire escorts to fulfill deeper needs for extended companionship and emotional intimacy, it can be really significant to have arranged an entire evening in hopes of finding a regular provider. Unfortunately, it didn't work out for this OP, so isn't this the right place to vent and/or commiserate? After all, one of this forum's main purposes is for clients to seek, and also provide, support and advice from/to one another regarding this hobby.
It's a new year, we're still struggling with a once in a century global pandemic that's so far infected over 20 million and claimed close to 400,000 lives in the U.S. alone, our democracy is hanging on by a thread, and things are only going to get worse in the short term, despite the promise of the 3 recently approved vaccines. The need for emotional support and companionship will likely only increase for most of us as we weather this brutal winter stretch of the pandemic. Could we please be a bit kinder to each other in 2021?
- big-n-tall, + RJD, + mature_guy and 4 others
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Any new info on this guy?
I met him last year and had a really fun time with him. I really needed to get nailed, and he delivered.
- + Vegas_Millennial, John Doe II, jakey and 2 others
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Boulevardman is the top and jonahslakes is the bottom. Both really nice guys and good at what they do.
Thank you. I thought that was Boulevard Man, but I couldn't be sure. He wasn't as friendly as I wanted when I reached out over rent men a year or more ago, but I should probably reconsider given your positive experience. Take care.
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I have been head over heels in love with Alexander Skarsgård for the better part of two decades. He's ruined other men for me, to be honest.
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I’ve done this close to two dozen times. For a while it was all that I was really into. Recently, guys have agreed to lower their fee if I host and film for their only fans. Here’s a clip of two boys from a much longer series that I filmed that they uploaded to porn hub and garnered millions of views and made about $350 each on residuals.
I have permission to share this with you.
My phone is a treasure trove of super hot men (amateur and professional performers) getting it on with other super hot men, living out fun sexual fantasies and a whole lot more.
It never ceases to amaze me what men will enjoy doing for money if it’s clearly communicated up front and you don’t change the rules
Hot clip! Who are these providers? I think I'd like to see one or both of them in person, especially the top.
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It has nothing to do with being shallow. If I’m paying 500$ for some random dude who looks like he skipped a few meals & I’m expecting somebody who is 27, he better not be pushing 40. It’s called truth in advertising! For the record, I prefer guys in their 30s than 20’s so skip the ageist comments.
Because people who are pushing 40 can't be very slender or otherwise look like they've skipped a few meals? If the guy is smoking hot (by whatever criteria floats your boat), and you can't tell his age unless he tells you, then it shouldn't matter whether he's 27 or 40. I'm willing to bet that this escort looks better in his late 30s than most of us do now, or did when we were in our 20s. It's a fleeting encounter, not an arranged wedding.
We're all shallow in various ways when it comes to this hobby, so I'm not not saying that my sh*t doesn't stink. I'm just recognizing the obvious -- that most, if not all of the selection criteria we hold these providers to is shallow as f*ck. We're so judgmental, and at times unforgiving on this board, but this is mostly a wish-fulfillment hobby so, whatever, right? Within this context, it makes total sense IMHO for escorts to also play the game, so to speak, and market themselves as able to fulfill whatever fantasy clients want. If they can pass for an age that's a decade or more younger than they really are, then more power to them. Each of us will do, say, and feel whatever we want with respect to enjoying this hobby. I just won't knock the escorts' hustle.
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Another grad student. I wonder what he is majoring in....
He actually 38 not 27 saw his Instagram
That actually doesn't bother me at all, but that's a pretty significant shaving off of years. I guess if clients are shallow enough that it matters to their hiring practices, we can't knock providers for fudging on their ages so often.
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Oh. My. Goodness. ??
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9” makes up for being a left handed ginger.
Mature, hung, hirsute, and a ginger? I think I'm in love. ? Give me a call me, boo. I'm only half joking. The other half is planning our honeymoon... ?
- Monarchy79 and Kent1972
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Was it Tyler Dickson?
~Boomer~
Yes, it was! Thanks.
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I'm almost positive that this is a name-change for an escort whose rent men ad used to be set in Boston and then was set in NYC for much of this year. I'd buddy listed his ad when I saw it based in NYC sometime around this spring, but then the pandemic and shutdown happened, so I never contacted him. His former rent men profile name is escaping me at the moment, though.
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That's way too general of a question, particularly since you're looking anywhere in the nation. Without some additional criteria, most forum members likely won't have enough info to offer some recommendations.
You might have more luck if you perform an advanced search on rentmen for tops 6ft and taller in a few locales you're likely to visit. Then post a 411-inquiry here, including the links of a handful of those escorts who've caught your eye. Folks are more likely to offer their thoughts in that scenario. Good luck!
By the way, I did a search for DC using your criteria (exclusive of the broad shoulders, obviously), and came up with 2 pages of results. That includes visiting escorts, but at least it's a start. I posted the link below
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That's way too general of a question, particularly since you're looking anywhere in the nation. Without some additional criteria, most forum members likely won't have enough info to offer some recommendations.
You might have more luck if you perform an advanced search on rentmen for tops 6ft and taller in a few locales you're likely to visit. Then post a 411-inquiry here, including the links of a handful of those escorts who've caught your eye. Folks are more likely to offer their thoughts in that scenario. Good luck!
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if I make an appointment for 3pm, I expect the guy to be ready at 3, not 321!
I get what you're saying, and obviously, it's not a completely unreasonable point of view. IMHO, such inflexibility on scheduling might be a tad unrealistic for this hobby, but if you can find providers who accommodate this, then more power to you. Since being timely will almost never hurt one as a professional, those escorts who can consistently stick to a schedule will always have a built in advantage in that they can please clients like you who insist on it, as well as clients like @StLouisOct who don't mind.
One thing to consider, though. From Tanner's ad, it appears that he's a submissive, total bottom. As a 95% bottom myself, might I implore you to be a little more flexible? I don't know your sexual position or proclivities, but if you're not a bottom, or don't do so regularly, I can tell you from my own personal (and unfortunate) experience, that sometimes, despite one's best planning efforts, it's not uncommon to have your body refuse to cooperate with your desire to be fresh and clean down there.
If Tanner's rear wasn't ready at 3:00 pm on the dot, and he needed the extra 20 minutes to be sure, he may have been doing you a favor. Lord knows I've been in that situation plenty of times, both for ordinary hookups and when hiring. Just some food for thought. -
This guy doesn't list oral among his interests, so I don't think he fits what the OP is looking for. He's pretty freaking hot though! I'm not into worship, per se, but if it included oral (I know it varies with the provider) I might take a chance with hiring him.
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Tender kissing, or lack thereof, is one of my flaws. It is very very very hard for me to kiss lightly. I make a conscious effort to kiss lightly, and before I know it, my tongue hunts for his tonsils again. It's something I've worked on, unsuccessfully.
Fond memories, Rod. Fond memories, indeed.
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Saw him about a year ago. Incredibly friendly. Very eager to please. Great kisser. A kissing machine, actually. Kissing me from the minute I entered his apartment. Hungry for me. Tons of energy. Don’t remember his dick being as big as it looks in these pics but I do remember being satisfied. I also don’t think he’s as tall as 5’ 8” but who cares? Oh: Very dependable/punctual too. Hope that helps any fencesitters make a decision. ha ha
This was pretty much my experience with him as well. He was a bunch of fun.
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@Choclate Cub literally posted just above yours, and described his experience with EliFlow. He might be cautious of violating forum rules on posting reviews here, but if you want more details, you should send him a private message.
Anyone experience him? His body looks great!
Bottoms in DC
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In my experience, with this mindset, you're going to be frustrated a lot in this hobby. It's kind of like the construction industry, where delays are so commonplace that courts will rarely, if ever, accept the failure to complete a project on time as a breach of contract. It's just a part of this business which may not be compatible with certain personality types, like @former lurker's father. In another message board for international hiring, it's a running joke amongst American & European posters that Brazilian escorts are regularly "late" for appts. Cultural notions of scheduling and timeliness vary widely.
All of the above being said, to echo @Justin7402, if the bottom you're going to top requests extra time to prepare, you REALLY should give him that without hesitation.
I mean, unless you're into scat, which is also perfectly fine, of course. ?