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On 2/12/2022 at 8:19 AM, BaronArtz said:

@manmed

I recommend this guy. who is already on your list:

Gingermuscleboy - Male Escort - New York City, NY | Rent.Men

Not sure how much longer he will be in the business.  You may want to move him up the list a bit.

This guy is quite attractive, but his ad is so sparse on details of what he does with clients.  He doesn’t even give a position, and his publicly accessible photos don’t show a bottom like myself what I’d be working with. As handsome as he is, and I do love gingers, there’s too much uncertainty about the type of experience he offers for me to feel comfortable going through with a booking.  But I hope other clients have a great time with him!

On 12/2/2021 at 2:45 AM, keroscenefire said:

Strangely, this profile is inaccessible which usually means blocked by the escort. I've never contacted him though did briefly look at his profile when he was in Denver. Maybe he's one of those guys where he immediately blocks if you visit his profile? That seems counterintuitive but who knows?

Same here.  I don't even remember viewing his profile.  What a strange business model.

4 hours ago, jyotiamge said:

So… I’m a virgin. Looking to lose it to an escort. I’ve been looking on RentMem. Any reco’s on guys in NYC who are super chill, sexy and preferably not into super hardcore as it would be my first time?

 

thanks 

As you can see from just the few responses so far, forum members (including yours truly) would be happy to help, but you’ve got to put us in a better position to do so.  You’re far too light on the details for us to make decent recommendations.  
 

Tall, muscular, and masculine are all relative, so tell us what you want in specific terms.   What’s the minimum height you want your guy to have?  Approximate age range? Racial or ethnic background? Hairy, smooth, or in between?  Endowment size, cut or uncut? (I don’t recommend a largely endowed guy if this is your first time bottoming, but that’s just my personal opinion.)
 

I know you said that you want someone who’s “super chill,” but you also don’t want anything “super hardcore.”  I’m sorry, but that’s just way too vague.  Are you looking for a tender, boyfriend-like experience; a “wham bam thank you ma’am” hook up; someone who’s aggressive and takes the lead; a more organic, naturally developing experience, etc.
 

The possibilities are virtually limitless in NYC, which is the largest escort market, by far.  But that’s something to be excited about, not scared of.  The more specific you are, the more helpful our recommendations can be.  Once you say a bit more about what you’re looking for, I’d be delighted to help out, as I’m sure many other forum members would be, as well.  Welcome!

I had a fun time with Danny last week after he arrived in the U.S.  I found him to be a handsome and very sweet guy.

I found one of them (the first guy, Furry_wolf, I think, who’s based in Atlanta, GA) on the Scruff app in the central NJ area this week.  Per the link to his Instagram page, he has a twin brother (apparently identical), who’s based in Ft Lauderdale, FL.  So, the mystery may have been solved. Fascinating that it looks like they’re gay twin brothers who are both sex workers.

JasonVesper and I texted back and forth quite a bit on my last trip out to Los Angeles back in September. He was very nice and professional in our attempts to schedule a meeting, but we just weren’t able to work something out.  He said to look him up on my next trip, and I plan to do just that.  Hope this helps, for whatever it’s worth.

18 hours ago, snogaholic said:

https://rentmen.eu/DamagedBttm

Now in LA, coming soon to NY .... he only has one review and it's a scorcher 

I met him one winter before the pandemic started on one of his trips to NYC.  We had a good time.  I’d like to see him again, but since I’m mostly bottom, it’d probably have to be a 3-way with another top.

2 hours ago, RyanChambers said:

Wow you guys really love where you live up there 😆 🤣 

I love that your ad lists you as versatile now, so a bottom like myself can finally partake of your services, handsome!  Can’t wait until your next trip to NYC!

11 hours ago, dutchal said:

 

Thanks @dutchal That thread was very helpful!

2 hours ago, KeepItReal said:

I've seen Alex_NYC a couple of times before - has to be almost two years now, thanks to Covid. I have recommended him before and received positive feedback from others. Solid massage skills with sensual elements, lots of body contact. Nice guy too and looked like his pics at the time. 

Thank you, @KeepItReal!  I’ll drop him a line.

Does anyone have any experience with the following NYC-based masseurs?
 

https://rentmasseur.com/NYCDominicano

https://rentmasseur.com/CharlieSzary

https://rentmasseur.com/MassageArtsNYC

https://rentmasseur.com/Essentiall

https://rentmasseur.com/AchillesMasseur

https://rentmasseur.com/Alex_NYC

I found the first guy on Twitter, of all places!  Some of these guys have been asked about before, but I’m hoping to find some more recent info
 

Relatedly, I’m looking for an erotic but still competent massage.  I wouldn’t mind some *extras* being included, but I can always hire an actual escort for that.  Ideally, I’d love to find a professional who does both so I can hire him for a combination session, but that could be an entirely separate thread! 😁. Thanks in advance for your help, guys.

Thanks @dutchal and @Wanderoz.  Liam/Disco Dick and Alistair are the two guys  I was referring to when I said that some of the escorts had been asked about before,  I may end up treating myself to one or more of these guys if Santa delivers my presents early this year! 😁

Does anyone have any information and/or experiences that they can share about these newer guys I’ve seen advertising in NYC?

https://rent.men/Mikerogers_tx

https://rent.men/XLVers_Liam

https://rent.men/LapotenciaXXL/#platinum

https://rent.men/ITALIANXLFF

https://rent.men/Classinsession

https://rent.men/Damien_Wood

https://rent.men/JewishMike

https://rent.men/Alistair_LDN

I know that one or two of the above guys has been asked about on the forum, but I’m hoping to learn whether anyone’s had any experience with them.  Thanks in advance!

20 hours ago, DLEroticProv12 said:

my take is only slightly different because of how I normally get my clients - as a provider who does not regularly have an ongoing ad (i will maybe once a year for a few weeks, but prefer not to continuously for privacy / discretion purposes, being a single dad, etc), the more specific info in the text or email the more likely I am to feel like they are for real and it's a good vibe....  most of my clients though (due to my preferences about advertising) are through old-fashioned word-of-mouth (I used to work for a small agency in LA whose focus was discretion, so it tended toward lots of higher profile clients).  So I've normally been recommended to someone which s a good starting off point. 

But yes, ultimately, i think most guys doing this want to know what you want and when and go from there. And the worst thing to do is act like, because they are to be paid, you are somehow entitled to something or a degree of attention before you've even met in person. (No, we don't want to hear things like "really? you can't reply when i'm agreeing to pay you??" 

Lastly - NEVER do what I saw someone on here do in an earlier thread and post something like "I got a freebie" and name who you hooked up with "for free" - that dude was not doing that under the auspices of work and you do not have a right to publicly state you got something for free, when most likely that is nothing that was on his radar whatsoever, and no way he thinks of his personal sex life, because he is a human being also.  

(oh yeah, and the worst option is to call - always text first !!)

Okay, now this is us a guy I’d want to hire! 😍

 I’ve had varying degrees of success with initial texts. I usually say that I’ve seen their rent men ad, and that I’m looking to hire on a particular day/night or over a span of a few days if I’m available and have a super open schedule.  More recently, for newer guys without much of a reputation here or elsewhere, I’ve been telling then my RM profile and asking them to review it to get a better sense of what I’m into. Some guys seem to appreciate that, and others might think I’m a flake because they don’t respond at all.  It’s all a crapshoot, in my opinion, because it seems like some guys respond really well to certain approaches endorsed by providers here, while others are turned off by the same things. Who can tell? 🤷🏽‍♂️

2 hours ago, jtwalker said:

When you're searching RM for a hookup, what do you sort by?  What are your must have's and can't stands?

I sort by most reviews and I am such a nerd that I've developed a scoring system based on appearance, height, position, reviews, smile, description, "intos", photos, face pics and length of time on RM.  I only hire the top 10% total score, because I just don't have that much time.

Anyone else as crazy organized as me?

It depends on what I’m looking for at the time. I’m mostly bottom, so I’m usually looking for tops or top/versatiles. I then sort based on if I’m looking for guys of a particular racial or ethnic background for that romp; or if I want a tall & large-framed guy, or a shorter, more slender guy. Sometimes I’ll sort for more well-endowed guys when I want to get impaled; and at other times, I’ll look for average-sized guys when I just want to have intercourse without a whole lot of prep work or getting the breath knocked out of me with each thrust.  I try to search by certain interests too, but so many providers are careless with their selections, that I find that to be less helpful.
 

One thing I preferred with the old rent boy site was that it allowed you to do really precise searches based on specific physical traits, like hair or eye color.  Rent men doesn’t seem to allow that. The restrictions RM puts on users in the U.S. make it impossible to read reviews without using a proxy to obscure your IP address. That makes it difficult to do searches based on review scores if, like me, you don’t place much faith in RM reviews that aren’t written out.  
 

The good thing about being based in the NYC-metropolitan area is that we have such a large number of local and visiting providers that there’s almost always a great variety of choices.

1 hour ago, adventurous old guy said:

It's my birthday, and I logged in to post on this topic, only to find this thread already started.  I totally resonate with the comments here.  Have been a conscientious public health warrior, staying home, working from home, with boring but good results.  Haven't even had a cold or flu for 2 years now, which is how long its been since I've scheduled an adventure with anyone offering fun. But god, its dull.  Totally bored with porn and other virtual outlets.

BUT at the same time, the rate of new infections is up 25% in the last week alone here in Chicago.  So, I'm going to ride this birthday out -- again -- with no new party partners. 

Empathize with the service providers though, if their market is down.  Though the OnlyFans, etc., market is way up, right?  Probably safer that way for them too, yes?

Happy birthday! I’m very sorry that you have to enjoy it without partaking in this hobby, and perhaps without other forms of intimate human touch. I hope you find a way to enjoy yourself soon within acceptable risk parameters.

23 minutes ago, nycman said:

Please tell me you book the "bunk bed" room.

120 sq feet?….holy fuck that’s tight!

https://www.thepaulnyc.com/chelsea-hotel-nyc-rooms

The Paul is definitely not a fancy place, nor is it the type of hotel I’d choose to spend my vacation at.  But it’s decent, and one of the few hotels left in NYC that doesn’t require a keycard to use the elevators.  That makes it perfect for the debauchery that the original poster is looking for.

Try the Paul hotel on 29th Street.

1 hour ago, manmed said:

I believe 200. Can't remember. Only hired for massage. 

Thanks for the info.

Interestingly, he doesn’t list anal among his interests, and for position, he put “Ask me.”  If he’s not going full Greek, then my interest in him drops to zero. Such a shame.

I was just going to respond that I’d seen him at several shows at the Adonis Lounge in NYC, and he looks pretty much like the photos on the RM ad.  I’m pretty sure I used to follow him on Twitter too, and he had quite the entertaining personality.  Unfortunately, I can’t comment on his lap dancing or other talents, because I’m generally shy at those events, and he never approached me.  TylerGrovesNYC’s post makes me wish that JV_Marx or I had been more bold.  Oh well,…  But the guy’s real and the photos are accurate, so if he’s your type, go for it!

On 8/20/2021 at 9:57 AM, manmed said:

I got a massage from him with some light play and I must say he is HUGE! Not even trying that one. 😂

What are his rates for massage? Did you learn his escorting rate?

Sounds like Fabio is a good time. Those of you who’ve hired him, can you divulge his rate structure? Here or by private message is fine. Much obliged 

On 9/13/2021 at 10:07 PM, Talented said:

I messaged him, he read my message but didn’t reply and didn’t let me see his private gallery. Very disappointed as he’s someone I REALLY want to meet. Not to bottom for but for oral. That dick is perfect! Very few huge hairy BBC’s in NYC surprisingly! Hope he replies one day! Otherwise he’s missing out on my amazing lips 

His ad says “text only,” so that might be why he didn’t respond.

On 9/7/2021 at 7:21 PM, Aeneas89 said:

Hey guys -  i'm flattered you are talking about me and thank you @Coolwave35 for bringing me up. I'm not advertising, but here's a sample below. Feel free to reach out if you're interested in more.  

Happy new years all!

 

 

Just met with this guy this week and had an amazing time.  I know we can’t do reviews on the forum, but I’ll say that he’s total boyfriend material, and I hope he becomes a regular.

 Thanks @Coolwave35 for bringing him to our collective attention.

15 hours ago, Beancounter said:

https://rentmen.eu/JakeMitchell

Cant go wrong with Jake Mitchell. Nicest guy around and a great top.  

I echo this recommendation, with one small, but important, caveat.  Jake is very well endowed, so I wouldn't enthusiastically suggest him for someone who's new to bottoming, or has little experience with it.  I've no doubt that Jake can be gentle and patient, but I wouldn't call that a beginner's dick.  Just saying...😉