KinkyNEguy

GoFundMe just feels like public begging. 
If someone close to me has a real and genuine need for money, I’m happy to give. 
But this bizzare iteration of “charity giving” is not for me.

The funny thing is, I don’t know if you’re talking about the cold-blooded murder Mangione…or his executioners.

You've all seen 'em -- providers who offer a video, swinging their hips back and forth and thus making their semi-erect cock swing back and forth like a sophomore in the locker room. 
Sincere question:  is this a turn-on?  Encourage you to look more, or maybe engage?
(Not at all to me -- seems silly and not what I'm looking for in a provider, but I'm just one data point.)

I’m Asian and don’t find the comment racist, but I also don’t think being considered a bottom as an insult either.
He does look a little cosmetic and effeminate, although I think he’s a really good looking guy.

We should never give escorts this site.  Let's remove that guy who gave it to Blaise.  LOL
 
 

Well....you might as well join in, because the rest of us are doing both.
The obviousness of the HEAVILY edited photos is both hysterically funny while your denial of this fact, is sad and pathetic. 
If you are in such high demand, then I would assume that you are a pleasant looking man WITHOUT all the VERY obvious photo editing. Your insecurities about your looks will drive away many clients. Perhaps you should start over and hire a skilled photo editor ?
These are R I D I C U L O U S.

Hi there my babies
Its blaise.
I see you’ve been gossiping again like naughty boys.
Ah la la… what will I do with you? 😌
 
Let’s clear this once and for all.
There’s no “two sides” to this story.
We’re not talking about two people describing a meeting differently.
In this case there is just one side, one truth.
And I’ll explain it with as much transparency as possible.
This isn’t about defense, it’s about reality.
If some prefer to create their own version of reality and believe in fiction, they’re free to do so.
 
Travel
I cater to men across Europe and the U.S. and I work by advance reservation only.
Most reserve 1 to 3 weeks ahead, sometimes more for those who like to plan very early.
I don’t function like a normal escort on this website.
I don’t take spontaneous bookings
I don’t sell hours.
I don’t do multiple meetings a day.
I don't offer detached, cold, quick and empty sex.
I don’t “tour.”
When I’m in a city for a date, I don’t announce it, because I’m there for that man only.
My real location and traveling are never public except when I explicitly say I am now in the city and taking reservations.
What I do is meet the man that reserved a date with me at a said location and time whether that is in Europe or USA.
Because I’m not bound to one city, I market my profile in major cities where I regularly receive requests. That’s exactly how clients find me, and those who do are always delighted.
Regarding the two profiles: both are mine.
Same pictures, same profile photo, same text, same links.
Nothing hidden, nothing shady, simply two profiles to manage visibility in multiple regions.
On the rare occasions I plan on staying longer somewhere and open more spots, I clearly mention it.
For example, this week I was in New York  so I updated my profile to say:
“Now in New York — taking reservations for October 21–27.”
 
the so-called “deceit”
Something cannot be deceitful without the intent to deceive, by the very definition of deceit.
It’s like Harry Potter taking Polyjuice Potion (the one that changes your face) but wearing a sign that says “It’s still me, Harry.”
Is Harry being deceitful? Of course not.
I explicitly write:
“Ignore my listed travel dates — they don’t reflect my actual schedule.”
It really can’t be said more clearly.
This isn’t a schedule, and it’s not a tour.
 
Filtering and screening
I have a strict filtering process, without it, I wouldn’t be able to focus on anything productive.
It instantly separates the serious from the noise.
As you can imagine, when you put your number online, and on such a website, you attract a lot of bad attention.
I get dozens of messages each day from people all around the world that I don't know.
People who just want to fantasize, waste time, or are straight up dangerous.
This is very toxic and time consuming.
Every new conversation starts without trust.
Each message looks the same, “hey” or “what’s your rate”, and behind that could be anyone, from a married man to a complete lunatic.
My goal is to identify who is genuine and sane.
I give my time, warmth, and attention only to those who deserve it.
So I send a automatic message to all the people that contact me giving them the instruction on how to formulate a good approach and what information I need.
That alone tells me everything I need to know — tone, mindset, intelligence, respect.
Those who are truly serious always follow it naturally.
Those who can’t follow basic directions are filtered out and blocked.
For instance, @builderboy — I sent you the same clear message I send everyone, including a note saying “Messages missing these details won’t receive a reply.”
You didn't acknowledge it, respect it or follow it. 
That told me everything I needed to know.
 
My reviews
I understand why my reviews might sound too good to be true, they do.
Because I was here with them and I feel what they feel I understand it.
The men I meet aren’t typical “escort clients.”
Most have little experience with men, and even less with escorts; the few they’ve seen left them disappointed or feeling empty.
When I listen to their stories, I’m honestly speechless.
My way of working, the high price, advance booking, and limited availability, naturally filters out the impulsive and pulsion driven men who just want to fuck.
My clients are very selective, and often hesitated for days or weeks before reaching out. They want me and only me. They take it very seriously and that’s why they are ready to reserve a date and pay so much money.
So you need to understand that the desire they feel for me is very strong and often emotional. I do have clients that are only focused on sex. But the vast majority of my regulars are sensitive, with substance and intelligent. They long for intimacy, tenderness, warmth, passion, kiss, hugging, caressing.
Empty, cold or detached sex doesn’t fulfill them. They want real love making.
And that’s very hard to find with escorts, and overall in the gay world, as it is full of kink, shame, self-hate, repressed desire…
So when they finally meet me, its often a big discovery and explosive emotionaly.
That’s why the reviews they wrote are often very intense and deeply personal.


Others comment
As for the “AI pictures” claim 
I don’t know if I should laugh of feel pity.
I have videos of me dressed, in underwear, in the shower, at the gym.
Those are not fake my loves 😂.

And regarding “procedures”, just no.🤢
 
Final thought
I hope this brought clarity.
For the pure souls out there, I have nothing but love for you😍
For the ugly souls filled with spite, bitterness and resentment, I have nothing but indifference.
 
XX,
Blaise

I love authentic guys, and I want to thank all of you who have directed me to them. Guys like Sboyyy, Sebastian_Leon, AngusStevens, and Travis Chambers. This guy is a clown (it is my opinion and thus it is a fact) and I would never consider him for much more than $20. 

His photos look like they’re AI-generated.

this crook is not holding himself "to a high standard" (his words) when he continues to post a fraudulent travel schedule......his May post (upthread) defends the practice as promoting "visibility" and I understand his marketing effort, but it remains entirely deceptive and deceitful.......

While I understand that providers want to present themselves in the best light and may use filters and some editing, this guy has clearly gone to extremes. He doesn't even look real.
 

excuse ME? he needed a release? I mean talk about turning the tables. Mutual release is one thing but if they call me when they need a release I am going to require an Uber and deposit and review.....

I agree. The purpose of a review isn't to complement someone for a good job; it's to give future clients insight on what to expect from a client perspective.

It was definitely "different" and very much of the moment at that time in NYC - i met some nice guys there (where they were not in prison) and am super glad i spent time there insofar as it contributes to the whole of my experiences living in our world

Do you guys remember Stella’s? Lol

I don’t want to be unkind @purplekow And I’m not being judgemental but this was a last minute hook-up with what turned out to be a near-neighbour.
You stated you were “not particularly attracted to him”. Perhaps he felt the same about you.
I think this was what used to be called a case of ‘ships passing in the night’. Don’t overthink this.
There’s no etiquette attached here. When things don’t work out as you hoped, simply smile and say “Maybe another time…” and leave promptly.

Not really surprising to see reactionary defenses for sex abuse, happens all the time, but pretending that fascism is just an empty word is one reason fascism has taken hold lately. Power is intoxicating.

Everyone's favorite toss-around term for things they don't agree with..."fascism".
I wonder what broad stroke definition Sullivan was using in this article 🤔.
There has always been a dynamic between powerful people and young attractive men and women who use their beauty to get ahead in the world. I've worked at Calvin Klein and witnessed this dance on daily basis. There was a lot of tail wagging and ass sniffing (so to speak) and I had the impression everyone knew the game. Even with myself..I was hired to a position I really had no business having at such a young age..but for the fact the head of the department's eyes popped out of his head when he first met me. Oggled me, fawned over me and made plenty of innuendo about "helping me get ahead". In the end I never did sleep with him, but I certainly understood that I might have to, in exchange for the opportunity.  In my opinion, had I actually done so...I would NOT be of the opinion today that I had been so coerced into sex with this man that I would subsequently be seeking restitution for sexual misconduct. I would merely be chalking it up to one of many life's twists and turns that a young person must engage in his way up the ladder. I think most of these cases are nonsense and wholly opportunistic. Everyone knew that Bruce Weber used his fame to get laid, back in the day. I dont recall anyone at that time claiming he was "raping" his models. The industry was so sexually charged when I worked in and around the fashion world (90s) that everyone was fucking someone on a daily basis. It would be more shocking to discover that Bruce hadn't sampled the goods.

There are providers that charge upwards of $50 to $100 to come to your hotel on top of their requested donation, and STILL want you to give more for their gas / time. What in the Hell is the point of asking for that much more, then? That should cover it, and then some.
I really wanted to see a guy (my second choice) when I was out of town, and he insisted I come to him, supplying me with directions on what different public transportation I should take - in the dark - in a city I'm unfamiliar with. I told him I know his outcall rate is steep (his was $100), but I want him to come to where I am. I stopped getting communication with him and discovered upon returning home that he blocked contact from me on the masseur site I initially contacted him on. MrManscaperRP
The man I initially wanted to see (my first choice) I have an eerie feeling has bodybuilder-ed himself to death. He regularly logged on to rent masseur, but suddenly stopped shortly before my trip, telling me he can't wait to see me again about 1 week prior. His body fat was insanely low the last time he and I were with one another. No response from him with a couple of tries. He had no upcharge for outcall, even willing to drive to Denver from Colorado Springs at no extra charge to clients when he lived there. MassageByMatt.
Third guy was a charm. $40 outcall rate and had a fabulous experience. Musclejake.

The point is economics.  Have you considered that your expectations about free or cheap travel time may not be reasonable?  And the cost involved in travel is higher than you think.  Do the math.  Or just keep complaining about it. Whatever makes you happy.

Yeah maybe controversial but MOST of the time I get either a positive reaction or none at all and honestly it helps weed them out. Obviously I don’t want to waste their time but they probably should be thinking for the long term. 
 
I’ve revisited a lot of guys who I have done the same with, and they’ve reactively positively and I’ve booked them. I dunno- just kinda a signal I use for the future. I also don’t think there’s a lot of harm in a series of 4 texts being exchanged. 

I hit him up when I was in Palm Springs. Was nice originally and then when I told him I was going to go with someone else (I guess I could have no gotten back to him at all but I wanted to be nice) and he said “oh so you wanted someone cheaper”  - which kinda turns the whole thing sour. 
 
the guy I went with was not, in fact, cheaper lol. Just was a lot more charming. I’m not sure I’d engage with that guy again. 

No, and the same goes to men of all other colors.

I am on record as a white bottom who exclusively hires black tops and while Im not stupid enough to think that they don’t ever bottom, I don’t want to see it happen or know about it. First off im the client and their attention should be on me. Second , for me I hire because I want to create/recreate/produce a fantasy and turn it into a reality, so I prefer to maintain at least the illusion of being with a man/men who would never want to be submissive and would never allow another man to top him. A totally dominant alpha man who is only interested in being served and taking what he wants from his bitches. His ultimate dominance frees me up to completely submit.

Try thinking of Top and Bottom as verbs, not as nouns. A man topping you tonight can bottom tomorrow. I find it incredibly hot when the expectation of type is disrupted by the natural inclinations of the human's desires. A lithe girly drag queen topping super-hung beefy bottom? Huzzah!!