starman05

I had a legit massage once, and it felt like the guy was making love to me in the sense that I felt protected and safe.
 
And then one time, I had a massage and the 'sensual' elements were cold, detached, and mechanical.
 
Give me the former any day of the week. 
 

I had a legit massage once, and it felt like the guy was making love to me in the sense that I felt protected and safe.
 
And then one time, I had a massage and the 'sensual' elements were cold, detached, and mechanical.
 
Give me the former any day of the week. 
 

Sensual usually means "the least amount of things I need to do to get this client off the table while having them paying the most".

I had a legit massage once, and it felt like the guy was making love to me in the sense that I felt protected and safe.
 
And then one time, I had a massage and the 'sensual' elements were cold, detached, and mechanical.
 
Give me the former any day of the week. 
 

I had a legit massage once, and it felt like the guy was making love to me in the sense that I felt protected and safe.
 
And then one time, I had a massage and the 'sensual' elements were cold, detached, and mechanical.
 
Give me the former any day of the week. 
 

I had a legit massage once, and it felt like the guy was making love to me in the sense that I felt protected and safe.
 
And then one time, I had a massage and the 'sensual' elements were cold, detached, and mechanical.
 
Give me the former any day of the week. 
 

So often, and understandably, the “boyfriend experience” gets tangled up with real emotion. That’s probably the flaw in the term itself. A term of art that has no business in this business. 
I prefer to think of it as a No-Illusions Experience: connection, chemistry, affection,  but with clarity. 
Cuddles, conversation, presence: yes.
Confusion about what it is: no.

Excuse me.  I try to be sarcastic and it comes across as rude... sardonic.  I'm just drunk.  I didn't mean any offense.  Your BFE's are your own experiences. 

Whatever your ideal boyfriend experience winds up being, the most important part for clients to remember is that, for the provider, it's a booked session. 

sadly, this was my experience as well. 
Beautiful guy on the outside; a smidge shorter than his listed ht., I believe. 
I never repeated. 
 

Wow, I forgot that I had posted on this back in 2024. 
 
Once again he's in Los Angeles and not far for me great photos. I was about to reach out and see if we could arrange something for today and now after rereading this thread in my own comments, I'm not going to this site has once again saved me money and heartache. 
I've been faced down butt naked on a table in the past, and when you hear that voice say details of the upsell, you feel not good and not safe

He's not far from me and I have been stressed beyond belief. Sounds like I'd be MORE stressed if I went to see him. 
 

I saw a guy who gives massages but also escorts.
He mentioned the escorting thing one time when I was leaving; I thought he was letting me know...in case I was interested.
I went in for a hug and then I sort of whispered into his ear what I would like to do if we did a different kind of session. 
I thought that was a good way to do. but I haven't seen him for a different kind of sesh yet. 
 

I saw a guy who gives massages but also escorts.
He mentioned the escorting thing one time when I was leaving; I thought he was letting me know...in case I was interested.
I went in for a hug and then I sort of whispered into his ear what I would like to do if we did a different kind of session. 
I thought that was a good way to do. but I haven't seen him for a different kind of sesh yet. 
 

When you ask him if he's willing to offer more sensual elements, be sure he can clearly understand you.  For example:  if his dick is already in your mouth, then take it out when you speak.  Otherwise, you may mumble and he may not hear that you're asking for a more erotic experience

that's a pretty big twink

If Anttoane gave an A+ therapeutic massage I might pay $300/hour, but that's not his market or his reputation. I'm well past my "will he or won't he" years. He won't. Why pay for blueballs? 

@starman05i can only speak to my table experience and it was sturdy, heated, with some sort of heated cabinet underneath for the warm towel at the end,  it didn't move and supported his full weight... and he is a muscle fit guy probably twice as much muscle as I had and we did a lot on that table and it was rock solid... like Gibraltar!

I am tempted today! But I hate massages on the bed… 

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Great post. I saw him a while ago and need to reschedule.
He has listed under additional services "cuddle therapy" 
Isn't that something we could ALL use right now? I know I sure could. 

@Tactile Daddy is definitely worth your time and money.

Great post. I saw him a while ago and need to reschedule.
He has listed under additional services "cuddle therapy" 
Isn't that something we could ALL use right now? I know I sure could. 

Name change from Brazilian Experience. 
 
I’ve seen him a few times and he was fantastic each time. Space was warm and cozy and the massage was unreal. 

First time that I have seen someone post "high school" diploma as a credential on masseurfinder. It is kind of endearing. You can discuss the symbolism in "Catcher in the Rye" with him while getting your massage.