starman05
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starman05 reacted to + APPLE1 in General thoughts on interactions with providers
Often, MONEY speaks louder than anything else, and by the same token, so does lack of money.
Stop paying, or at least tipping, in advance. My assumption is that if you fail to tip when he doesn't respect your boundaries, he will quickly commit your boundaries to memory.
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starman05 got a reaction from Casual in General thoughts on interactions with providers
I know there's always Venmo but if a guy starts adding services how does he know his client has the cash on him to add to his tip?
Sometimes I've had massage therapists try to do more, thinking oh, they want more money. But maybe just maybe I'm not as undesirable as I think I am?
(Nahhhh!)
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starman05 got a reaction from Huxley in boyfriend experience in LA
as sorry, I meant LA as in L.A. -- Los Angeles -- home of the LaBrea Tar Pits; thanks.
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starman05 got a reaction from chadLA in boyfriend experience in LA
I’m looking for a Daddy type. Someone kind. Big pecs are nice.
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starman05 reacted to kaboom35 in boyfriend experience in LA
You’re gonna find tons of Los Angeles recommendations on these forums if you search back. I suggest going through rentmen and the ones that strike your fancy you can come back here and ask about them specifically.
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starman05 reacted to viewing ownly in twoathleticbros in SD
I'd be more than happy to be the guinea pig! Pig not in quotes. 😅
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starman05 got a reaction from + Pensant in boyfriend experience in LA
as sorry, I meant LA as in L.A. -- Los Angeles -- home of the LaBrea Tar Pits; thanks.
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starman05 got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in boyfriend experience in LA
as sorry, I meant LA as in L.A. -- Los Angeles -- home of the LaBrea Tar Pits; thanks.
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starman05 got a reaction from thomas in Erotic Massage Expectations
I don't think you can. I've gone to guys and they've been totally legit and on the second visit, the gloves are off -- so to speak.
At some point, chemistry has to take over -- on both sides.
there are times when I just want a great massage and to zone out. It's nice when the guy will read some non verbal cues.
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starman05 got a reaction from dbar123 in Erotic Massage Expectations
I don't think you can. I've gone to guys and they've been totally legit and on the second visit, the gloves are off -- so to speak.
At some point, chemistry has to take over -- on both sides.
there are times when I just want a great massage and to zone out. It's nice when the guy will read some non verbal cues.
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starman05 got a reaction from + KensingtonHomo in Erotic Massage Expectations
I don't think you can. I've gone to guys and they've been totally legit and on the second visit, the gloves are off -- so to speak.
At some point, chemistry has to take over -- on both sides.
there are times when I just want a great massage and to zone out. It's nice when the guy will read some non verbal cues.
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starman05 reacted to + Vegas_Millennial in Boyfriend Experience
He'll join you for Christmas dinner with the family, but in return you'll have to deal with his family as well. And when the paid session is over, he'll also want custody of the dog. 🐶
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starman05 reacted to + LodoB in 411 on Healinghandsbcn coming to NYC from Barcelona
Based on his frequent itinerary changes and impractical weekly cross-crossing of the globe rather than touring in one country then another, I think he’s not really meeting people in all of these cities. I think his ad is only meant to drive traffic to his only fans site. There seem to be several guys with ads like this now.
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starman05 got a reaction from Capitano in CRISTIANOK from Miami, but travels
YMMV doesn’t bother me. If nothing happens extra wise then, my mileage has varied.
I never want to be in a position where I’m expecting something that never transpires
first & foremost, I want to get a great massage
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starman05 reacted to rvwnsd in DiegoAlves in LA
Moderator's Warning: Remain on topic (Diego Alves) and stop criticizing each other and sniping back and forth.
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starman05 got a reaction from + 7829V in 411 on TeddyHunter in San Diego
geez; the football hunk you wish your college paired you with as a roommate.
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starman05 reacted to Lohengrin1979 in DiegoAlves in LA
Im sure he’ll rush to provide you with more info after that boorish response. You contribute nothing to this board by being so combative. Your other posts harbor this same tone as well. Not a good look.
And no, I won’t just scroll past or mute you. It’s your job to be a better person, not mine to overlook your general rudeness. Have a nice day.
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starman05 reacted to Tactile Daddy in Miguelxxx in LA
Except the private pics don't add up to the main photo 📸
Unless they were taken a number of years apart and he got a nose job.
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starman05 reacted to + purplekow in Muscle_dadd
I though the same thing, that at that height and weight, he would have a much more massive chest and legs. Nice body but for me, should be beefier with those stats.
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starman05 got a reaction from Capitano in Hunkmasseurrr in Tampa
Thank god for this site. I need to mail in a cash donation
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starman05 got a reaction from Peter Eater in Boyfriend Jake in LA
I'm leaning more towards that direction myself these days. This guy wasn't on my list but there are others I'm just saying no to.
Better to take the money and work out with a private trainer. It's company and my body's in better shape at the end. I get so effing lonely at times but being with someone and having a shitty experience makes it worse. I don't mean to single this guy out; he's probably just fine.
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starman05 got a reaction from DFdub in Boyfriend Jake in LA
I get a little suspicious when there's not even a hint of being a real, trained therapist -- no table in pix.
It falls under the too good to be true...
I've got a milestone b'day coming up; would love to treat myself to a BF experience but it's sooooo awful when you get your hopes up and they're dashed and crushed.