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thanks, Aeikaryoko, that does sound hot and intimate. My favorite massages aren't ones in which we dive into some heavy fun or play but where there's more of a nurturing connection; where he's in control and you feel taken care of. Is Vance based in PS or does he come to LA, do you know? TIA

serious question: what is breath work? Does he ask you to do certain breathing or does he just lean in a little bit and breathe on your neck or into your ear to make it hot? Thanks.

not only a vibe killer but what if only brought enough for the previously agreed upon rate? I guess today there's Venmo but...that leaves an electronic trail; my big fear is that some ideal type is working on me and I'm totally relaxed and then, the upsell hits and I say yes and he goes okay, u r under arrest.

but isn't it different now in that you know what to expect? not trying to champion either seeing him again or not....and I am hesitant to ever confirm anything in text that's too specific but sometimes I might say, 'what we did last time was great; does that all (meaning expectations and fee) work for you?' But even if I were to agree to an upsell midway through I might not repeat. That leaves a bad taste - so to speak. I've had too many fortuante instances where chemistry takes over. I GET what this exchange is with providers. But...if I can fool myself into thinking just for the moment that this is something organic....well, why not.

upsells after you're already, ahem, paying attention drive me bananas. It's a tough call; I prefer a solid massuer who knows what he's doing and charges a rate he can live with and if there's any chemistry between us, yay! If you hit it off and this time you know what you're getting into and you don't have anyone else then, sure; I have had some pretty empty experiences over the years. Then, COVID hit and there was no intimacy on any level in my life for years. Even now it's risky to go out there. But..if a little happiness comes along, however brief, I think we owe it to ourselves to go for it.

how can it be YMMV when he's doing it in a busy chiropractic office? I've been there; it's bustling with activity; he'd have to put a ball gag in my mouth to keep me from crying out if our 'mileage started to vary' Wait.🤔

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I would gently suggest that he's more 'straight to bed' than 'straight' I work in show business and am regularly meeting aspiring actors and it almost becomes a game where I can guess how quickly it will take the actor to work into casual conversation 'well, my wife...' 'well, my girlfriend...' I swear one time I joked 'how long is she going to be in Canada?' "Did I tell you that?' I could be wrong but I don't come off threatening or leering; I think some guys are just so conditioned to include subtly or not so subtly that they're straight that they don't even know how it comes off; of course, many are indeed straight; others? not so much.

I have times in my life when I really just want to go in and collapse on a guy's table and have him nurture me. I can always take care of business before I arrive or after I get home. Knowing he's straight takes all the 'will he or won't he' (MOST of the time) from the equation/experience.

I think I've been to the chiropractic office where he works and he might have worked on me ONCE when my regular guy was out. I was in for several treatments after getting rear ended (don't...it's too easy; it was a car.) I think after wrapping his arms around me for the adjustment he might have said something like 'don't try to break free' and I said, 'I can't.' His arms were that huge. Or maybe that was just in my head. I remember him having lots of charisma and he did a good adjustment. I'd be up for trying him for a massage. Frankly, I have had instances where I go for a sensual massage and the guy slaps on a condom and asks if I want to get penetrated or when I'm on my back, he'll jump on me and try to ride me. Those are rare instances for sure but there's something about going in for something simply therapeutic, especially if he's really good at it. Does anyone know if he does massage out of the chiropractic office? or somewhere nearby? TIA

This is a great post, SamMiller. I couldn't agree more on your points. There's something off (For me, personally) about when I text for info on parking, head rest or not and rates and I get a rate sheet with $ options for MT/HE. Makes me feel like I'm just a number. ("You are, Blanche! You are!") I prefer to just see how things unfold -- or not. I've mostly been extremely lucky hiring off websites and print ads back in the day. (One guy brandished a gun and I did my best not to react.) I think it's a good idea to do a search based on what you suggest. That said I did find a real gem recently on MF. If you have any LA recommendations you can PM me on that would be appreciated. Thanks!

once again this forum has saved me $ and heartache.

my guess is guys who advertise one way but claim legit and no erotic are YMMV type guys. They probably do erotic but want to give themselves an out in case someone they just can't with.

when he flew on the plane from Hawaii to NY did he have a note taped to his shirt in case he got lost? Seriously, he's a young one.

A great experience is priceless but an unfulfilling one at dirt cheap rates is a waste of time and money. I like his line about opening doors together. But, yeah, a little pricey even if I were in SF. (But I see he's coming back(?) to LA later this month)

Oh that’s too bad i mean good for him but sad for us and the rest of the world

I see what you did there

my only suggestion to anyone trying Jason O is to ask him not to go TOO deep. I was way too sore after our massage. He definitely knows what he's doing but it was just too deep. the other guy in this thread makes me never want to eat a carb again

too bad; looks like a big teddy bear can spooning be added to a massage?

ah found him on RM; wow; what a cutie.

Thank you. Does he have a link? 🙏🏻

that's always a fantasy. Some guy ravages me and later, I say WTF, man! and he gets his phone out and shows me a text detailing a scenario and I say, 'yeah, that's not my number.' A fantasy, of course.

ah, that's too bad about Turkish muscle; that's so my type. I love a big strong massive chest with pecs that jut out over the stomach and big arms. swoon

I'm a sucker for a great chest. I wish he had better reviews or that my gut said yeah try him. I'm afraid I've been guilty of being short and to the point when I inquire about hiring. Table with head rest, price, and parking at my most important q's. I never ask about extras. I'm not opposed but feels weird asking up front before we've ever met. I do think it's best to use full sentences and be polite. If I get curt responses then that probably tells me what I need to know.