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bummer; he looks just like my type; great pecs; sorry you had a bad experience.

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If you only want one, I’d skip contacting the partner it could be awkward. Try a third and move on

I had an overnighter with a guy once; it was more of an emotional companionship thing for me. I think i got to his place round 7 and we went out for breakfast the next day and parted by about 9? The one thing I regret is not asking him to whisper into my ear, just as it looked like I was going to nod off, that he loved me. Silly, I know. Or not. Even still, it was everything.

I met with him soon after he'd just moved to LA. Great massage but he hadn't gotten a table with a head rest (I've heard he since has gotten one). Super strong; nice guy. Not sure I'd repeat.

Thank you. this is a masseur who has multiple positive reviews he checks all my boxes and I’m going to see him soon just in case, I’ll let a pal know where I’m going. thank you

This site and its reviews have been invaluable in helping me not make mistakes. I also listen to my head and use intuition. I have not read a single bad review of this masseur I have my eye on i need to believe there are some good things out there

Total Dad type. 👍

there is such power in calmly explaining why you came to the conclusion you did and you were merely inquiring; great response. thank you

You know, just in case. I want to see someone but a little voice in my head is saying let someone know where you’ll be

I had one other -- Dean -- who was gorgeous and so skilled. I was always draped but our massages felt more intimate than times I've had sex for some reason. He moved across the country and got into another line of work. I miss him.

I saw a guy for six years, less the last two years. His touch was gold. He was sexy and while I wasn't a kid anymore, I still felt like I was. Late bloomer. I lied to myself that someday he'd return the feelings, and all the attention and help (not $$ -- beyond the massage fee) was going to win out for me in the end. He started to get into some weird ETS (sp?) stuff and friends helping friends (remember that one?) I didn't feel safe anymore so, it was over. We've bumped into each other once or thrice over the years and I have some fond and some sad memories of our times together.

I mean, to each his own l, but I asked a guy once to take me out bowling for my birthday and he did. sure, it was on the clock but I had fun and got what I wanted.

He’s shy but really good, goes deep

He's not far from me and I have been stressed beyond belief. Sounds like I'd be MORE stressed if I went to see him.

can he do a more vanilla scene? I'm afraid he'd break me in half!

Anyone else with recent experiences? tia

I learned 'riz' came from chaRISma but where does drippy come from

Ha! Well, a little more than that… but thx for you sympathies

he's back; slight name change, I think. anyone have experience with him? that chest! Swoon! Anttuane on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com

I mean it depends on what your type is and what part of LA you'll be in. Candle Spa in the Valley is really good.

In my head, I know I'm the one paying for a service and if the provider can't provide it any longer, I should be grateful for the times it did work, and I KNOW I should move on and find someone else. Someone better. In my heart, I play over and over the times we each shared personal info, and I can't help but think it's all my fault. The fact that I spend most of my time naked and am physically and, often, emotionally, vulnerable to him causes me to react more with my heart than my head. Feeling safe -- which I do when I'm with certain providers -- is the launching pad to developing feelings. Love, a crush, fondness -- whatever you want to call it. When you're on that table feeling safe and nurtured (H/E or no), there's nothing better. And knowing it's over and not knowing why? Well, that can be the worst feeling ever.

I held my breath in between "his whole arm" and "up and down your crack"

I think some providers block without thinking too much about it. I know fans who complain about actors blocking them on X, formerly Twitter. They've written about how confused they are and how they have no idea why they were blocked. I think providers are dealing with a lot of inquiries that don't lead to many clients so they just get block happy. OP's provider looks incredibly hot; I wonder what he does in his 'boyfriend experience.'

Another time I got hung up on a trainer; he called me buddy, stretched me, appeared gay friendly (closeted guys can be that way) and I was making progress with my physique. He was the perfect buffer between me and assholes on the gym floor. Or so I thought. He had to be heaven sent! More like Hades, he turned out to be raging narcissist and I spent way too much time trying to convince him that I deserved to be treated like a human being. A shrink kept telling me there are other trainers out there. I got STUCK. Happy ending: he's out of my life, I blocked him and, sadly, a few mutual acquaintances just to be safe. I have a new trainer now and I keep my distance and am in the best shape of my life.