starman05

THIS!

Casual, there won't be some clear answers here. One person's being professional and considerate is another person's trying too hard. I never thought I'd get to the point where I'd think 'oh, geez, don't call back' with the guy I was hung up on. It can take years and years, but you move on. I would block the provider's number (screen grab some key conversations if you feel you should) and unfollow on any social. I wish someone had given this advice to me years ago. I try to do that now. I can see old patterns forming and I cut things off before they take a wrong turn.

More or less. I got a little (okay, a lot) attached to a guy when I was in the process of coming out; a massage was a safe way to feel nurtured. It shouldn't have gone further than that. Though, in fairness to me, he shouldn't have slapped on a condom and fucked me so passionately, tenderly and beautifully. To him, it was a casual fuck. To me, it meant feeling safe and cared for at a time when I needed it. The lines blurred. There was a lot of other shit. I walked away. Years passed and I called to wish him a happy holiday -- to my shock, he called back and said we should get together (as pals). I said sure but hoped he'd never follow up. He didn't. This is far from your situation. I would just try to move on quickly if you can. Tell yourself it has nothing to do with you -- and it doesn't. He's going through something that you're not meant to be a part of. Find another regular. Lots of fish in the ocean.

bump; anyone with recent experiences? TIA!

well that sucks. I'm sorry that happened. We are so freaking vulnerable naked on their tables. I'm afraid for how fragile I am emotionally around some of these guys. Can't they just effing provide a fantasy for an hour before we head back out into the cold cruel world where it's a given people aren't going to accept us.

this is great advice; I hire for massage; I crave intimacy and touch not sex per se. I think creating firm standards is a great idea. This site has saved me from so many scammers. This post helps clarify things further.

I tried a reverse image and hottie BRANT DAUGHERTY came up! that's not him but they could be brothers.

I wouldn't ask a bottom to 69 after I topped him. I mean maybe after a long soapy shower.

I think just getting to look at him is an extra. what a hunk.

It’s probably down now but I recall a clip of Austin in bed with a twink post sex and he asks the kid why did u reach out me, kid says I wanted to meet you and have fun austin says tell everyone how old you are and he turns 5he kids face to the camera and he says 19 19, I swear

that's my kind of chest. I wonder what he charges just to let someone rest their head on his chest while he whispers into your ear: Everything's going to be all right.

A search here shows he used to be in weho and had one "i" in his name; now, it's two "i's" and he's in more Koreatown, I think mfinder ad has him starting at 200 that's a big hike to 320 the thing is, personally, I'd rather see a guy 4x a year for a high price IF the massage is excellent a disconnected rub and tug for $120 is a waste of money Call me "buddy," get the knots out, and a bear hug at the end is the dream 🛌 plus, face cradle and decent street parking, of course 😉

I agree 100% - sometimes, I don’t want more either

if only there was some way to tell for sure whether or not he'd just pretend to scare you and show a fun time or truly scare the shit out of you.

I've never had a better massage that also had no real connection. I've had many where I've been called Buddy, been winked at, held. I know it's not for reals but it is in that moment for me, sometimes. His massage is great, he goes deep and I'm kind of a wimp. I've just been "spoiled" by guys who put forth a little fake affection 🤷‍♂️

Geez all he has to do is stand there and I'm intimidated

I had the same issue, it hurt! I don’t look like a bodybuilder but he was nice

and a note from his Mommy, too. There's twinks and then, there's twinkies that are still in the oven! I'd end up buying the kid a burger and just giving him money for college or rent.

Provocative name

live and learn; my pals are always trying to tell me not to read into things too much; easier advice to give than to hear, let alone follow I wouldn't call it harassment what he did but more like teasing. I hardly ever expect extras at a spa --- too many people around. sometimes I take care of all that in advance if I go to a spa, which isn't often, just so there are zero expectations.

any one taken the plunge? he's new but pix look great -- especially as one includes a shot of a table! He might be working with a visiting therapist who appears to be in or around the same location LucasLA on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com

I don't see any threads on Yonik I never would have thought that guy was once a woman.

Yikes thx for the warning, Typical!

I've seen his Instagram; can't tell where he's from; could be Germany or Texas? he's scary and sexy looking

I know there's always Venmo but if a guy starts adding services how does he know his client has the cash on him to add to his tip? Sometimes I've had massage therapists try to do more, thinking oh, they want more money. But maybe just maybe I'm not as undesirable as I think I am? (Nahhhh!)