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how can it be YMMV when he's doing it in a busy chiropractic office? I've been there; it's bustling with activity; he'd have to put a ball gag in my mouth to keep me from crying out if our 'mileage started to vary' Wait.🤔

6’4” 220 lbs swoon but only a member for a few days hopefully Some reviews will appear soon

I would gently suggest that he's more 'straight to bed' than 'straight' I work in show business and am regularly meeting aspiring actors and it almost becomes a game where I can guess how quickly it will take the actor to work into casual conversation 'well, my wife...' 'well, my girlfriend...' I swear one time I joked 'how long is she going to be in Canada?' "Did I tell you that?' I could be wrong but I don't come off threatening or leering; I think some guys are just so conditioned to include subtly or not so subtly that they're straight that they don't even know how it comes off; of course, many are indeed straight; others? not so much.

I have times in my life when I really just want to go in and collapse on a guy's table and have him nurture me. I can always take care of business before I arrive or after I get home. Knowing he's straight takes all the 'will he or won't he' (MOST of the time) from the equation/experience.

I think I've been to the chiropractic office where he works and he might have worked on me ONCE when my regular guy was out. I was in for several treatments after getting rear ended (don't...it's too easy; it was a car.) I think after wrapping his arms around me for the adjustment he might have said something like 'don't try to break free' and I said, 'I can't.' His arms were that huge. Or maybe that was just in my head. I remember him having lots of charisma and he did a good adjustment. I'd be up for trying him for a massage. Frankly, I have had instances where I go for a sensual massage and the guy slaps on a condom and asks if I want to get penetrated or when I'm on my back, he'll jump on me and try to ride me. Those are rare instances for sure but there's something about going in for something simply therapeutic, especially if he's really good at it. Does anyone know if he does massage out of the chiropractic office? or somewhere nearby? TIA

This is a great post, SamMiller. I couldn't agree more on your points. There's something off (For me, personally) about when I text for info on parking, head rest or not and rates and I get a rate sheet with $ options for MT/HE. Makes me feel like I'm just a number. ("You are, Blanche! You are!") I prefer to just see how things unfold -- or not. I've mostly been extremely lucky hiring off websites and print ads back in the day. (One guy brandished a gun and I did my best not to react.) I think it's a good idea to do a search based on what you suggest. That said I did find a real gem recently on MF. If you have any LA recommendations you can PM me on that would be appreciated. Thanks!

once again this forum has saved me $ and heartache.

my guess is guys who advertise one way but claim legit and no erotic are YMMV type guys. They probably do erotic but want to give themselves an out in case someone they just can't with.

when he flew on the plane from Hawaii to NY did he have a note taped to his shirt in case he got lost? Seriously, he's a young one.

A great experience is priceless but an unfulfilling one at dirt cheap rates is a waste of time and money. I like his line about opening doors together. But, yeah, a little pricey even if I were in SF. (But I see he's coming back(?) to LA later this month)

Oh that’s too bad i mean good for him but sad for us and the rest of the world

I see what you did there

my only suggestion to anyone trying Jason O is to ask him not to go TOO deep. I was way too sore after our massage. He definitely knows what he's doing but it was just too deep. the other guy in this thread makes me never want to eat a carb again

too bad; looks like a big teddy bear can spooning be added to a massage?

ah found him on RM; wow; what a cutie.

Thank you. Does he have a link? 🙏🏻

that's always a fantasy. Some guy ravages me and later, I say WTF, man! and he gets his phone out and shows me a text detailing a scenario and I say, 'yeah, that's not my number.' A fantasy, of course.

ah, that's too bad about Turkish muscle; that's so my type. I love a big strong massive chest with pecs that jut out over the stomach and big arms. swoon

I'm a sucker for a great chest. I wish he had better reviews or that my gut said yeah try him. I'm afraid I've been guilty of being short and to the point when I inquire about hiring. Table with head rest, price, and parking at my most important q's. I never ask about extras. I'm not opposed but feels weird asking up front before we've ever met. I do think it's best to use full sentences and be polite. If I get curt responses then that probably tells me what I need to know.

So… he’s not a fireman?

it's possible it was the same guy; begin with T? I am officially in elder gay territory; I have a small tiny window to get out there and meet someone but I'm finding a lot of helpful advice in some Instagram accounts. No more narcissists, no more unavailable people. I express my interest and then move on. If he responds? great. If not, don't wait for the magic to happen. it won't.

I want to move to OK and drop by the fire station with some cookies; you guys don't know me but you helped my grandma out. Start crying and pray he's compassionate.

I posted this thought on kind of a whim but my thanks to jeezifonly and tracermain for the philosophical/emotional and biological input/information. One therapist in particular I met early after coming out; he was handsome and nurturing and kind. My biggest mistake was trying to forge a friendship. today, I have someone who is excellent at his job and I leave satisfied. No desire to forge anything beyond the 90 minutes a few times a month.

has anyone ever allowed things to, shall we say, progress during a massage and then, shortly into it, you ask yourself WHAT am I doing here? and you suddenly lose all interest. I mean you don't even know each other!

OP, sorry this has happened to you. maybe bring a lawyer with you when you go to the police; maybe you can give them details without revealing that you hired them. This sucks. A reminder to be careful with first time providers. Burner phones should be a must. That way they don't know who's calling them.