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He's not far from me and I have been stressed beyond belief. Sounds like I'd be MORE stressed if I went to see him.

can he do a more vanilla scene? I'm afraid he'd break me in half!

Anyone else with recent experiences? tia

I learned 'riz' came from chaRISma but where does drippy come from

Ha! Well, a little more than that… but thx for you sympathies

he's back; slight name change, I think. anyone have experience with him? that chest! Swoon! Anttuane on RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com

I mean it depends on what your type is and what part of LA you'll be in. Candle Spa in the Valley is really good.

In my head, I know I'm the one paying for a service and if the provider can't provide it any longer, I should be grateful for the times it did work, and I KNOW I should move on and find someone else. Someone better. In my heart, I play over and over the times we each shared personal info, and I can't help but think it's all my fault. The fact that I spend most of my time naked and am physically and, often, emotionally, vulnerable to him causes me to react more with my heart than my head. Feeling safe -- which I do when I'm with certain providers -- is the launching pad to developing feelings. Love, a crush, fondness -- whatever you want to call it. When you're on that table feeling safe and nurtured (H/E or no), there's nothing better. And knowing it's over and not knowing why? Well, that can be the worst feeling ever.

I held my breath in between "his whole arm" and "up and down your crack"

I think some providers block without thinking too much about it. I know fans who complain about actors blocking them on X, formerly Twitter. They've written about how confused they are and how they have no idea why they were blocked. I think providers are dealing with a lot of inquiries that don't lead to many clients so they just get block happy. OP's provider looks incredibly hot; I wonder what he does in his 'boyfriend experience.'

Another time I got hung up on a trainer; he called me buddy, stretched me, appeared gay friendly (closeted guys can be that way) and I was making progress with my physique. He was the perfect buffer between me and assholes on the gym floor. Or so I thought. He had to be heaven sent! More like Hades, he turned out to be raging narcissist and I spent way too much time trying to convince him that I deserved to be treated like a human being. A shrink kept telling me there are other trainers out there. I got STUCK. Happy ending: he's out of my life, I blocked him and, sadly, a few mutual acquaintances just to be safe. I have a new trainer now and I keep my distance and am in the best shape of my life.

THIS!

Casual, there won't be some clear answers here. One person's being professional and considerate is another person's trying too hard. I never thought I'd get to the point where I'd think 'oh, geez, don't call back' with the guy I was hung up on. It can take years and years, but you move on. I would block the provider's number (screen grab some key conversations if you feel you should) and unfollow on any social. I wish someone had given this advice to me years ago. I try to do that now. I can see old patterns forming and I cut things off before they take a wrong turn.

More or less. I got a little (okay, a lot) attached to a guy when I was in the process of coming out; a massage was a safe way to feel nurtured. It shouldn't have gone further than that. Though, in fairness to me, he shouldn't have slapped on a condom and fucked me so passionately, tenderly and beautifully. To him, it was a casual fuck. To me, it meant feeling safe and cared for at a time when I needed it. The lines blurred. There was a lot of other shit. I walked away. Years passed and I called to wish him a happy holiday -- to my shock, he called back and said we should get together (as pals). I said sure but hoped he'd never follow up. He didn't. This is far from your situation. I would just try to move on quickly if you can. Tell yourself it has nothing to do with you -- and it doesn't. He's going through something that you're not meant to be a part of. Find another regular. Lots of fish in the ocean.

bump; anyone with recent experiences? TIA!

well that sucks. I'm sorry that happened. We are so freaking vulnerable naked on their tables. I'm afraid for how fragile I am emotionally around some of these guys. Can't they just effing provide a fantasy for an hour before we head back out into the cold cruel world where it's a given people aren't going to accept us.

this is great advice; I hire for massage; I crave intimacy and touch not sex per se. I think creating firm standards is a great idea. This site has saved me from so many scammers. This post helps clarify things further.

I tried a reverse image and hottie BRANT DAUGHERTY came up! that's not him but they could be brothers.

I wouldn't ask a bottom to 69 after I topped him. I mean maybe after a long soapy shower.

I think just getting to look at him is an extra. what a hunk.

It’s probably down now but I recall a clip of Austin in bed with a twink post sex and he asks the kid why did u reach out me, kid says I wanted to meet you and have fun austin says tell everyone how old you are and he turns 5he kids face to the camera and he says 19 19, I swear

that's my kind of chest. I wonder what he charges just to let someone rest their head on his chest while he whispers into your ear: Everything's going to be all right.

A search here shows he used to be in weho and had one "i" in his name; now, it's two "i's" and he's in more Koreatown, I think mfinder ad has him starting at 200 that's a big hike to 320 the thing is, personally, I'd rather see a guy 4x a year for a high price IF the massage is excellent a disconnected rub and tug for $120 is a waste of money Call me "buddy," get the knots out, and a bear hug at the end is the dream 🛌 plus, face cradle and decent street parking, of course 😉

I agree 100% - sometimes, I don’t want more either

if only there was some way to tell for sure whether or not he'd just pretend to scare you and show a fun time or truly scare the shit out of you.