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I'm blessed with work and jobs that keep a roof over my head and just enough spending $ so I can get a massage to relieve stress and get my heart broken every few years. I've learned that the adage about putting your own mask on if they pop down while you're flying and THEN put the mask on the children is the best way to go. I gotta take care of myself first. Once I have enough, I can try to help others. But movies like Pretty Woman and others have given us skewed versions on what those situations are like in real life.

Dingdi, I've been in your shoes many times. Mostly with massage therapists and personal trainers. They make me feel like I'm the only guy in the world. The minute I fall it's time to move on. Most often, I don't. It's like a drug that hits me. I have to have some poor schlub in my life no matter what. Mistake. I've got a trainer now and while he checks every box, I haven't fallen for him 'in that way,' and, as it's been a while, I don't think it'll happen. A) he's straight B) He's considerably younger. Thank God because I've finally been able to make some strides. If you can enjoy the time you're with him, great. Keep it going. But when I can't compartmentalize it, I need to leave.

Again, As I'm 5'6" + and I like tall guys I'm pretty content with 5'9" + but 6'1" is a sweet spot, generally

no, not that size! I'm talking about height. I'm not tall nor am I a shrimp. I hit about 5'6 1/2" on a good day and I tell people I'm 5'7" and no one ever gives me a hard time (no pun intended). I saw a massage provider recently who advertised as 6'1". That's a great height given that resting my head on a guy's pec is one of my favorite things. Granted, that only happens with a hug hello and goodbye with a masseur. The provider I saw was maybe 5'10 or 5'11. He was great and I'll definitely repeat. But I'm just wondering if anyone else runs into height discrepancies?

Any recent encounters? his rent masseur ad appears expired

I'd be screaming for my momma before I got on the table.

I have had therapeutic only and those experiences have felt intimate in terms of TLC, affection, etc.; conversely, I've had promises of more from providers and experiences have felt empty any other experiences with this guy? I'll probably try him. Appreciate any DMs on what to expect. Thanks.

ha! I wish I lived abroad!

I saw him 2x over the years. Massage was great; it felt personal, at times, and at others, impersonal. I think there's a really nice guy in there I want to get to know but...that's tough to do in a one-hour massage. I felt really safe and nurtured a few times throughout; I wanted those to last the whole massage.

I booked a guy for Feb. 14 on year; I couldn't believe he was available when I asked for that day. It was more of a cerebral, affectionate session. I think a provider will know to put the accent on romance if a client wants to book on Valentine's Day.

btw, if there's anyone who can provide a scenario Jamie21 describes (I'm in Los Angeles) shoot me a DM. TIA!

Maybe he smiles in a premium photo 🤷🏼‍♂️😉😬 great chest

You may be overpaying for the hours he sleeps, but you’re underpaying for the hours he’s awake IF you get the right guy there are people who are in relationships who have nights like you describe all the time (swoon!) there are people in relationships who never have nights like you describe there are people who pay for nights like you described and they’ve been worth every fucking (no pun intended) penny and then there are people who have never had a night like you describe ☹️ You’re a great writer, btw the hotel employee riding up in the elevator being a “her” was a nice touch no competition

great arms, chest and smile. swooooon

First massage ever, the guy opened up my hole, slipped on a condom and fucked me. I wasn't a kid, but I looked it and I let him take the lead. Figured this happened all the time. Ha! It does not. Recently, a guy went to town on me and I wasn't expecting it. He did things that had never been done to me. I think he would have been happy to have fucked me or have had me fuck him but I kept brushing our respective dicks away and he got the message. I never felt in danger or like I was forced but at the same time, I wish we'd had better communication. The massage was actually fantastic; if I see him again, I'm going to have to be more up clear. I'd like sensual, sure. But I don't want to go that far again unless I'm in love.

another bump; any recent experiences? tia

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ha! I was the one tired out after that massage...I needed a massage!

I think anytime we emerge unscathed (not counting the money) we are lucky, lucky, lucky. I tired a guy extremely well reviewed for massage. he was a few inches shorter than his advertised height. Massage was just so so table was lumpy, room was cold body insane hot but extras came off as mechanical i left but never came

Happy New Year, all! West Hollywood Gay Massage - Male Masseurs for Men in CA - Masseurfinder Wondering if anyone has any experience with Nick in LA from Masseurfinder I'm looking for strictly therapeutic -- no extras. TIA!!

once again, this site has saved me $ and heartache. it's awful to set aside time and money to get some stress relief and heaven forbid a touch of intimacy (that you can convince yourself is genuine) only to have it all go to hell.

He's been on my radar for a long time. I haven't reached out though; this is JUST me but the first three reviews kind of all sound the same. Not saying they were written by the same person; just sharing that's how they come off to me. I'd love to lay my head on that massive chest. I might take the plunge in 2025.

I said to a provider once that I had a fantasy that starts off where we're buddies... "And then...?" He asks. "That's it."

Yes, broken toy or broken boy sums it up. body's insanely hot tho