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    RugbyBen got a reaction from thomas in General thoughts on interactions with providers   
    I've sometimes been with masseurs well out of my league and it's still gone way further than what I expected or paid for. I started going to a guy recently where within 30 minutes of my first visit he was climbing on the table to fuck me. I didn't ask or pay for it and I'm not exactly irresistible so I assume he's just horny and likes to play. 
    I've also been with regular masseurs where the sexual element fluctuates. One time it might be just a hand job at the end the next he's giving me an amazing rim job. I think there is an element of personal horniness with some masseurs so it's possible that's all it is. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from thomas in General thoughts on interactions with providers   
    He advertises purely as therapeutic massage and his price reflects that. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from Monarchy79 in General thoughts on interactions with providers   
    I've sometimes been with masseurs well out of my league and it's still gone way further than what I expected or paid for. I started going to a guy recently where within 30 minutes of my first visit he was climbing on the table to fuck me. I didn't ask or pay for it and I'm not exactly irresistible so I assume he's just horny and likes to play. 
    I've also been with regular masseurs where the sexual element fluctuates. One time it might be just a hand job at the end the next he's giving me an amazing rim job. I think there is an element of personal horniness with some masseurs so it's possible that's all it is. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from + robear in General thoughts on interactions with providers   
    I've sometimes been with masseurs well out of my league and it's still gone way further than what I expected or paid for. I started going to a guy recently where within 30 minutes of my first visit he was climbing on the table to fuck me. I didn't ask or pay for it and I'm not exactly irresistible so I assume he's just horny and likes to play. 
    I've also been with regular masseurs where the sexual element fluctuates. One time it might be just a hand job at the end the next he's giving me an amazing rim job. I think there is an element of personal horniness with some masseurs so it's possible that's all it is. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from + Vegas_Millennial in General thoughts on interactions with providers   
    I've sometimes been with masseurs well out of my league and it's still gone way further than what I expected or paid for. I started going to a guy recently where within 30 minutes of my first visit he was climbing on the table to fuck me. I didn't ask or pay for it and I'm not exactly irresistible so I assume he's just horny and likes to play. 
    I've also been with regular masseurs where the sexual element fluctuates. One time it might be just a hand job at the end the next he's giving me an amazing rim job. I think there is an element of personal horniness with some masseurs so it's possible that's all it is. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from Bluefin in "ASK"   
    This may just be a difference in massage culture but UK masseurs mostly put ask on their profile so its never bothered me really. 
    They tend to have different price points for each massage type and give you the detail of what each massage entails so I guess it makes more sense to put ask as it does depend on what type you choose. 
    There's very little up selling during a massage here. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from Johnrom in "ASK"   
    This may just be a difference in massage culture but UK masseurs mostly put ask on their profile so its never bothered me really. 
    They tend to have different price points for each massage type and give you the detail of what each massage entails so I guess it makes more sense to put ask as it does depend on what type you choose. 
    There's very little up selling during a massage here. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from MikeBiDude in "ASK"   
    This may just be a difference in massage culture but UK masseurs mostly put ask on their profile so its never bothered me really. 
    They tend to have different price points for each massage type and give you the detail of what each massage entails so I guess it makes more sense to put ask as it does depend on what type you choose. 
    There's very little up selling during a massage here. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from pubic_assistance in General thoughts on interactions with providers   
    I've sometimes been with masseurs well out of my league and it's still gone way further than what I expected or paid for. I started going to a guy recently where within 30 minutes of my first visit he was climbing on the table to fuck me. I didn't ask or pay for it and I'm not exactly irresistible so I assume he's just horny and likes to play. 
    I've also been with regular masseurs where the sexual element fluctuates. One time it might be just a hand job at the end the next he's giving me an amazing rim job. I think there is an element of personal horniness with some masseurs so it's possible that's all it is. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from Casual in General thoughts on interactions with providers   
    I've sometimes been with masseurs well out of my league and it's still gone way further than what I expected or paid for. I started going to a guy recently where within 30 minutes of my first visit he was climbing on the table to fuck me. I didn't ask or pay for it and I'm not exactly irresistible so I assume he's just horny and likes to play. 
    I've also been with regular masseurs where the sexual element fluctuates. One time it might be just a hand job at the end the next he's giving me an amazing rim job. I think there is an element of personal horniness with some masseurs so it's possible that's all it is. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from Tactile Daddy in "ASK"   
    This may just be a difference in massage culture but UK masseurs mostly put ask on their profile so its never bothered me really. 
    They tend to have different price points for each massage type and give you the detail of what each massage entails so I guess it makes more sense to put ask as it does depend on what type you choose. 
    There's very little up selling during a massage here. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from LD19847 in Masseurs in London   
    I know someone who's seen him recently and they said, decent enough massage and a nice guy with a great body but expensive relative to other options. 
    He's straight so although he will get naked and give you a happy ending there's a limit to how into it he's likely to be. 
     
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from Massageislife in What does Erotic Massage Include   
    As everyone says there's no standard definitions and it does vary by masseur.
    Personally for sensual I'd expect to be naked and undraped and there was a HE.
    For erotic I'd expect mutual nudity and mutual touch plus a HE as a minimum. 
    I'd say broadly most massages I've had under those categories met those expectations. 
    Sometimes they don't but then sometimes they go much further than you expect which are always the most memorable!
    Worth noting I'm in the UK and I do get the impression masseurs here can be more upfront. Often when I reach out to a masseur i get sent a menu of options and price ranges by UK based masseurs. Had that the other day and all I'd done is look at his rentmasseur profile. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from Redwine56 in What does Erotic Massage Include   
    As everyone says there's no standard definitions and it does vary by masseur.
    Personally for sensual I'd expect to be naked and undraped and there was a HE.
    For erotic I'd expect mutual nudity and mutual touch plus a HE as a minimum. 
    I'd say broadly most massages I've had under those categories met those expectations. 
    Sometimes they don't but then sometimes they go much further than you expect which are always the most memorable!
    Worth noting I'm in the UK and I do get the impression masseurs here can be more upfront. Often when I reach out to a masseur i get sent a menu of options and price ranges by UK based masseurs. Had that the other day and all I'd done is look at his rentmasseur profile. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from cbsldn in Masseurs in London   
    I haven't seen him myself but know someone who did see Cameron and was very positive about the experience
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from Casual in r/eroticmalemassage   
    Yes. Have posted quite a few of my massage experiences over there
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from Jack Vernon in Legit Massage Turned Fun?   
    It In the UK we don't really have massage chains and so even legit, qualified massage therapists usually work out of their home where there's always a better chance something might happen. 
    That said about 10-15 years ago I went to one guy who had a very professional set up in his home. It all looked like a medical office with his qualifications and other paraphernalia displayed, he wore quite a formal looking white outfit and got me to fill in and sign a form about my medical history. 
    However he was also unphased when I said no to draping and it felt like he lingered on working on bits of me that got a audible reaction particularly around my glutes. Then there was a slight pause and then he moved up to work near my head and through the hole I could see he was no longer wearing trousers. Sure enough he was completely naked and soon when he was back at my side he rested his hardening cock in my hand. 
    He then climbed on the table and rubbed his naked body against mine. Eventually I turned over and we kissed and 69d for a bit before we both came over my chest and face. After he cleaned me up he finished the massage still naked. 
    I tried to see him again not long after but schedules didn't match and where he lived was awkward for me to get to. Not long after he started working out of a studio space in a health and Wellness shop which was much closer to me. I went along as the massage had been good but expecting nothing more given the location but as I stripped off for the massage he joined me in getting naked. So for over 10 years, on and off, I'd go along for a mutually naked massage that would always involve some kind of fun, at least kissing and wanking but sometimes even fucking with the added thrill of no one outside the room knowing what was happening. 
    Sometimes when he was particularly horny the sex would overwhelm the massage to some extent, so a few times he had his tongue in my hole 10 minutes in getting me ready for his cock. It fizzled out for various reasons around Covid. I still see him sometimes but it's now pretty much above board though he's still fine for me to be naked and still lingers a bit on the more sensual parts and seems happy if that makes me hard. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from + dctraveler in r/eroticmalemassage   
    Yes. Have posted quite a few of my massage experiences over there
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from Moke in 411 TalentHands. From London visiting SF   
    Don't know him. Don't think I've ever seen him advertise in London. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from + glutes in 411 TalentHands. From London visiting SF   
    Don't know him. Don't think I've ever seen him advertise in London. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from thechosenmagi in Legit Massage Turned Fun?   
    It In the UK we don't really have massage chains and so even legit, qualified massage therapists usually work out of their home where there's always a better chance something might happen. 
    That said about 10-15 years ago I went to one guy who had a very professional set up in his home. It all looked like a medical office with his qualifications and other paraphernalia displayed, he wore quite a formal looking white outfit and got me to fill in and sign a form about my medical history. 
    However he was also unphased when I said no to draping and it felt like he lingered on working on bits of me that got a audible reaction particularly around my glutes. Then there was a slight pause and then he moved up to work near my head and through the hole I could see he was no longer wearing trousers. Sure enough he was completely naked and soon when he was back at my side he rested his hardening cock in my hand. 
    He then climbed on the table and rubbed his naked body against mine. Eventually I turned over and we kissed and 69d for a bit before we both came over my chest and face. After he cleaned me up he finished the massage still naked. 
    I tried to see him again not long after but schedules didn't match and where he lived was awkward for me to get to. Not long after he started working out of a studio space in a health and Wellness shop which was much closer to me. I went along as the massage had been good but expecting nothing more given the location but as I stripped off for the massage he joined me in getting naked. So for over 10 years, on and off, I'd go along for a mutually naked massage that would always involve some kind of fun, at least kissing and wanking but sometimes even fucking with the added thrill of no one outside the room knowing what was happening. 
    Sometimes when he was particularly horny the sex would overwhelm the massage to some extent, so a few times he had his tongue in my hole 10 minutes in getting me ready for his cock. It fizzled out for various reasons around Covid. I still see him sometimes but it's now pretty much above board though he's still fine for me to be naked and still lingers a bit on the more sensual parts and seems happy if that makes me hard. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from mkm556 in Legit Massage Turned Fun?   
    It In the UK we don't really have massage chains and so even legit, qualified massage therapists usually work out of their home where there's always a better chance something might happen. 
    That said about 10-15 years ago I went to one guy who had a very professional set up in his home. It all looked like a medical office with his qualifications and other paraphernalia displayed, he wore quite a formal looking white outfit and got me to fill in and sign a form about my medical history. 
    However he was also unphased when I said no to draping and it felt like he lingered on working on bits of me that got a audible reaction particularly around my glutes. Then there was a slight pause and then he moved up to work near my head and through the hole I could see he was no longer wearing trousers. Sure enough he was completely naked and soon when he was back at my side he rested his hardening cock in my hand. 
    He then climbed on the table and rubbed his naked body against mine. Eventually I turned over and we kissed and 69d for a bit before we both came over my chest and face. After he cleaned me up he finished the massage still naked. 
    I tried to see him again not long after but schedules didn't match and where he lived was awkward for me to get to. Not long after he started working out of a studio space in a health and Wellness shop which was much closer to me. I went along as the massage had been good but expecting nothing more given the location but as I stripped off for the massage he joined me in getting naked. So for over 10 years, on and off, I'd go along for a mutually naked massage that would always involve some kind of fun, at least kissing and wanking but sometimes even fucking with the added thrill of no one outside the room knowing what was happening. 
    Sometimes when he was particularly horny the sex would overwhelm the massage to some extent, so a few times he had his tongue in my hole 10 minutes in getting me ready for his cock. It fizzled out for various reasons around Covid. I still see him sometimes but it's now pretty much above board though he's still fine for me to be naked and still lingers a bit on the more sensual parts and seems happy if that makes me hard. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from tuxedomasc in Legit Massage Turned Fun?   
    It In the UK we don't really have massage chains and so even legit, qualified massage therapists usually work out of their home where there's always a better chance something might happen. 
    That said about 10-15 years ago I went to one guy who had a very professional set up in his home. It all looked like a medical office with his qualifications and other paraphernalia displayed, he wore quite a formal looking white outfit and got me to fill in and sign a form about my medical history. 
    However he was also unphased when I said no to draping and it felt like he lingered on working on bits of me that got a audible reaction particularly around my glutes. Then there was a slight pause and then he moved up to work near my head and through the hole I could see he was no longer wearing trousers. Sure enough he was completely naked and soon when he was back at my side he rested his hardening cock in my hand. 
    He then climbed on the table and rubbed his naked body against mine. Eventually I turned over and we kissed and 69d for a bit before we both came over my chest and face. After he cleaned me up he finished the massage still naked. 
    I tried to see him again not long after but schedules didn't match and where he lived was awkward for me to get to. Not long after he started working out of a studio space in a health and Wellness shop which was much closer to me. I went along as the massage had been good but expecting nothing more given the location but as I stripped off for the massage he joined me in getting naked. So for over 10 years, on and off, I'd go along for a mutually naked massage that would always involve some kind of fun, at least kissing and wanking but sometimes even fucking with the added thrill of no one outside the room knowing what was happening. 
    Sometimes when he was particularly horny the sex would overwhelm the massage to some extent, so a few times he had his tongue in my hole 10 minutes in getting me ready for his cock. It fizzled out for various reasons around Covid. I still see him sometimes but it's now pretty much above board though he's still fine for me to be naked and still lingers a bit on the more sensual parts and seems happy if that makes me hard. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from LOLO in Legit Massage Turned Fun?   
    It In the UK we don't really have massage chains and so even legit, qualified massage therapists usually work out of their home where there's always a better chance something might happen. 
    That said about 10-15 years ago I went to one guy who had a very professional set up in his home. It all looked like a medical office with his qualifications and other paraphernalia displayed, he wore quite a formal looking white outfit and got me to fill in and sign a form about my medical history. 
    However he was also unphased when I said no to draping and it felt like he lingered on working on bits of me that got a audible reaction particularly around my glutes. Then there was a slight pause and then he moved up to work near my head and through the hole I could see he was no longer wearing trousers. Sure enough he was completely naked and soon when he was back at my side he rested his hardening cock in my hand. 
    He then climbed on the table and rubbed his naked body against mine. Eventually I turned over and we kissed and 69d for a bit before we both came over my chest and face. After he cleaned me up he finished the massage still naked. 
    I tried to see him again not long after but schedules didn't match and where he lived was awkward for me to get to. Not long after he started working out of a studio space in a health and Wellness shop which was much closer to me. I went along as the massage had been good but expecting nothing more given the location but as I stripped off for the massage he joined me in getting naked. So for over 10 years, on and off, I'd go along for a mutually naked massage that would always involve some kind of fun, at least kissing and wanking but sometimes even fucking with the added thrill of no one outside the room knowing what was happening. 
    Sometimes when he was particularly horny the sex would overwhelm the massage to some extent, so a few times he had his tongue in my hole 10 minutes in getting me ready for his cock. It fizzled out for various reasons around Covid. I still see him sometimes but it's now pretty much above board though he's still fine for me to be naked and still lingers a bit on the more sensual parts and seems happy if that makes me hard. 
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    RugbyBen got a reaction from Mark4133 in Legit Massage Turned Fun?   
    It In the UK we don't really have massage chains and so even legit, qualified massage therapists usually work out of their home where there's always a better chance something might happen. 
    That said about 10-15 years ago I went to one guy who had a very professional set up in his home. It all looked like a medical office with his qualifications and other paraphernalia displayed, he wore quite a formal looking white outfit and got me to fill in and sign a form about my medical history. 
    However he was also unphased when I said no to draping and it felt like he lingered on working on bits of me that got a audible reaction particularly around my glutes. Then there was a slight pause and then he moved up to work near my head and through the hole I could see he was no longer wearing trousers. Sure enough he was completely naked and soon when he was back at my side he rested his hardening cock in my hand. 
    He then climbed on the table and rubbed his naked body against mine. Eventually I turned over and we kissed and 69d for a bit before we both came over my chest and face. After he cleaned me up he finished the massage still naked. 
    I tried to see him again not long after but schedules didn't match and where he lived was awkward for me to get to. Not long after he started working out of a studio space in a health and Wellness shop which was much closer to me. I went along as the massage had been good but expecting nothing more given the location but as I stripped off for the massage he joined me in getting naked. So for over 10 years, on and off, I'd go along for a mutually naked massage that would always involve some kind of fun, at least kissing and wanking but sometimes even fucking with the added thrill of no one outside the room knowing what was happening. 
    Sometimes when he was particularly horny the sex would overwhelm the massage to some extent, so a few times he had his tongue in my hole 10 minutes in getting me ready for his cock. It fizzled out for various reasons around Covid. I still see him sometimes but it's now pretty much above board though he's still fine for me to be naked and still lingers a bit on the more sensual parts and seems happy if that makes me hard. 
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