Your Man in Arlington

Saw him earlier this year, PM me for more info.

And, now profile is disabled "Billy_mass is no longer available on RentMasseur."

Is that a golem in the lake?

This is what I will be doing before my next trip to NYC and can commit to a meeting. It's always worked for me before. 👍 Still, doesn't seem like anyone's had an experience to report back on.

Erotic Massage: "Close by spooning together and connecting your heart centers with love, compassion and gratitude. Help them to sit up and end with a Heart Salutation. Offer them water or juice to drink and a chocolate or piece of fruit to eat. You may want to share what this experience was like for you. How was it to give and/or receive in this way?" I consider myself fairly crunchy but this was 😳.

Considering he is a "Rent.Men Exclusive," I think there is a good chance he gave himself those awards. (As far as I could find, he's never done porn.)

A couple of providers I've hired have OnlyFans accounts which I subscribed to before hiring as part of researching and deciding to go with them. For $10 or so, it's worth it before making a larger investment. If you have the bandwidth for it, I think it could both be a way to make some money from guys who just want to rub one out and as marketing for your services.

Why elimate a potentially good customer based on an assumption? I had looked at the profile of my current regular over the course of a year so, so many times before reaching out because I had just moved across the country, completely upended my life, and had to come to an agreement with my husband about our situation. When I told him how long I had waited to get in touch during the first time we got together and he told him what a great time I was having, he laughed it off with a "Why did you wait so long?" 🤷‍♂️

This, plus I'm going through their reviews to see if it's a good match. I don't like providers messaging me just because I viewed their profile, so I have the "do not track me" setting turned on. It's kind of like a store owner rushing out to sell me something just because I paused in front of their window for a minute.

I usually think of snowballing on the context of oral/CIM.

Looks like he grew 2", his now lists his height as 6'7".

Looking back... it the wording in both of these is "special experience", so that might make a difference: travelxlboy and Adam_Maxwell. My bad!

I've found it's important to look at who is leaving the reviews, the other reviews they have left (if they make them visible on their profile), and if they left reviews for other providers I've met. That information can validate the relevance of a particular RM review. Since taste, individual chemistry, and people's current mental and emotional state play a large role in such a personal interaction, I still take a YMMV approach to any review.

Decided to inquire: $260 for 90 min sensual massage described as "Deep tissue sports relaxing massage." Disappeared when I inquired about whether we both would be nude and touching. For my holiday weekend de-stress, I think will instead book a regular who is therapeutic with some sensual elements (lightly clothed and no MT or HE); but who is cute, gay and thoroughly and skillfully massages everywhere (that's not genitalia) for $100 less.

Here's his MF Profile: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/46543/ Interested, but with no reviews... 🤷‍♂️

That is exactly what I'm about to do. I've just seen in it a number of profiles, and have a better understanding of what it means in a masseur ad.

That makes sense. Possibly in the same vein as this thread:

I've seen escort providers on RentMen (not talking about massage providers) mention that they offer "special service" among other things (eg. kink). Is this just another term for BFE, or am I missing something? Thanks for any insight!

So far, I haven't played music when hosting or had a provider play music when visiting, unless it's a booked as a massage, and not a strictly deli type meeting.

I love wine and have an extensive collection, but I don't mix alcohol and playtime. I can't even have any food for the day before playtime. I old. 😜

My doctor prescribed it for me and I use it after after sexual encounters. It's not 100% effective, but does very well at 85% and should protect against oral exposure, even if there's intercourse with condoms. My doctor explained that you can't continually take it, so he doesn't prescribe it for people who are hooking up 7 days a week. And, from what I understand, the thesis is that it will reduce overall transmission and thus its prevalence. There's more information here: Don’t Take Chances: Why Doxycycline is a Great Bet Against STIs WWW.UCSF.EDU A short course of antibiotics, Doxy-PEP, can prevent some STIs after condomless sex. You might note: "Doxy-Pep is an option to reduce the risk of syphilis, gonorrhea and chlamydia for transwomen as well as gay, bisexual or other men who have sex with men and who have had at least one of these STIs in the past 12 months." I've never had one of these STIs, but my doctor still recommended it for me anyway. Hope this helps!

I've only had 2 providers request a photo, and they were both hosting, so I can understand that from a security perspective. Otherwise they have seemed to have no interest in seeing a photo of me before meeting up, and I don't think it mattered to them and the service they provide. There is the issue of chemistry between a client and provider. It's not always there when you meet up in person, or it's only there in certain aspects of the experience. The best providers, however, seem to be able to manufacture chemistry out of thin air. So, no, you should never worry about being out of a provider's league; if that's how you feel with them, they're not doing their job well.

Looks like he's back in Philly now. His OF content looks to have gone in a way more sub-bottom daddy-pleaser direction. 🧐

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Definitely some or most assume this. For me, playtime consistently runs full hour or close to it. And, fortunately, I've had no problem so far letting them know I'd like to shower together and hang out chatting and possibly cuddling until I signal I'm ready to wrap things up.