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This is why I never expect it from a provider, but am pleasantly surprised when it's something they want to do as part of our get together. There are some select few providers who are not sensitive to another guy's appearance, really just love sex, and/or get off on pleasing other guys. It's great to find someone who really loves their job!

I'm heading out of town next week and had set up a meeting with a provider at my destination. He's well reviewed on RM and positively mentioned here, so seems legit. However, his profile expired a few days ago and we hadn't switched to text messages yet. Not sure if RM messages will still work for him? Or if it's worth sponsoring his profile if I would like the meeting to happen? Or, whether that's a weird thing to do for a provider I haven't yet met? Or, whether I should just move on? Any insight from the forum would be much appreciated. Thanks!

I get that's not what YOU want, but fortunately there is a range of providers, both escort and massage, and hopefully everyone can find what they are looking for. And, I actually wasn't worried about his orgasm, just enjoying the experience as it unfolded, so yeah. 🤷‍♂️

Different, but still similar, I'm close friends with my Pilates instructor of 15 years, even though we met in a strictly professional client and trainer context. I'm not the only one, she's also friends with a handful of her other clients, celebrating holidays, going out dinner and shows, etc... with them. I think the culturally-driven romantic overtones that apply to a client/provider relationship make a friendship in that context more complex to navigate, but I know some people successfully do it (even though it's not something that would work for me right now).

This is the case for me, too. My husband and I have vastly different libidos, and we came to the decision that this was the best way for me to meet certain of my needs and really appreciate the clean boundary. I still want to like (well enough) and be friendly with providers, especially since not all of a meeting is hot and heave play time; but couldn't see becoming actual friends unless the provide/client phase of the relationship was over.

I totally agree with you on this. In my experience relayed above, I did pay a higher than therapeutic rate, and still did not request or expect to have him cum at the end. I think just happened to be a mutual chemistry thing, and I let him know I appreciated the experience the best way I knew how, with a big thank you and a big tip on top of that higher rate.

As I said, why not both? Especially since the massage was, in my opinion after 20+ years of getting therapeutic massages, seriously top notch.

"Newer to DC and looking for Friends and Mates! Love dudes who keep things natural and don’t trim or shave! Hit me up. Let’s chat, open to mode." I'm sure he means open to more, but this gives me a "get paid to hook up with a guy I think is hot" vibe. That said, I buddy-listed him and may eventually reach out. After all, I don't trim or shave!

I had a massage with a hot Columbian kid, who was both super skilled at deep tissue massage and the extras. He was rock hard the entire session, and after I came with him straddling me and me frotting from behind, he announced that he needed to cum, too, and shot so much it covered my chest and my face. So, why not both?

This is absolutely true. A train might get you in faster (traffic into Tokyo can come to a near complete halt), but it's still not enough time.

A bit off topic: is there a reason you prefer rentmen.eu to rent.men? I've noticed most of the provider links here are to .eu.

Interesting. I've only been checking rent.men for the non-Germany Safe/bb info. But, yes, rentmen.eu doesn't have a Safe/bb field at all.

If I see and ad which lists BFE as a service, but has no "I am into" section, I will still inquire and see if our preferred activities match. I will even still inquire about kissing if some lists BFE as a service, but has an I am into section that leaves out certain particulars (like kissing) since it could be an oversight. I mean, how could BFE not include kissing? 🤷‍♂️

From what I understand, some potential clients don't even read profiles in detail, so it may not matter whether you omit it from the list of what you do or explicitly state so in your profile text. Either way, I think it would be helpful for both you and potential clients to confirm you don't kiss in your first reply to an initial inquiry.

I've checked with multiple browsers in Private browsing mode (fresh cookies), and I always see it. I've also VPN'd to other cities in other states (including Los Angeles), checked in private mode, and I still see it. Not sure why you aren't. It's really only Germany where I can't see it.

No face pics, lists age as 27, profile dates back to January 2016. 🤔

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I just took the time to scroll through the NYC Mintboys and this is the perfect—I mean perfect—description, at least for someone of my generation. How did this guys find Mintboys and how did they decide to make the "effort" to create profile? I mean, really!?!?

While it's still only a handful, so far I've only hired guys in their late 20's and I've not had a single no show or cancellation. And while I do my homework, I have taken a couple of chances or less-verifiable providers who both worked out. <Aggressively knocking on wood.>

It's visible in every other country I've checked, including signed out in the US. It's only not visible in Germany, signed in or signed out. 🤔

Try clearing your browser cache, that fixed it for me.

When switching back and forth with a VPN, I've noticed that "Safe/bb" isn't visible on profiles when connecting through Germany. Out of curiousity, does anyone know the reason for this?

I missed the outage, but when I got up this morning, I had to clear my browser cache in order to get in-browser RM Messaging to load properly.

There are couple of old threads mentioning him, but no actual reporting on MarcoMarsini in NYC. He has a long positive review history, but the omission of HIV status raises a flag for me. Thanks in advance for any info!

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