Your Man in Arlington

Agree with the above. Also, a total stallion.

I can confirm that he looks like his current pics. And, while I wouldn't say he's 21, he certainly doesn't look like he's reached his 30's yet, either. Very attractive guy, IMO.

I had that impression, but thought that's what seeking.com was for. 🤷‍♂️

Not to mention the misfire into the wrong thread:

I was able to connect with Sawyer while we were both in NYC, and I had a superlative experience with him. He is everything you see in his profile and I would highly recommend him if that's what you're looking for. If you have *specific questions*, I'm happy to try and answer them by DM. But, since his profile is accurate, I don't have anything to add on the general "what was it like" level.

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Messaged him, but was left in the seen zone. His profile text does imply he's looking for one single "individual"... so there's that.

I have fortunately only really experienced this with one provider (others have checked their phone in limited way after playtime), but I hear of this complaint often. I hope it remains the exception for me. ☝️

I found his profile text interesting enough (brain research and kissing), that after an initial introductory contact, I asked for photos that showed his face and he was more than happy to provide them. He turned out to be a very good looking guy IMO. So, yes, I will reach out to a faceless profile if the text is engaging enough and then request face photos once it's established we're both serious.

This, absolutely yes. I only ever send one initial inquiry. There's no way to make someone want your business if they don't.

My regular and best provider for me so far has about 50 reviews, with a couple of 2-star and one 4-star among all of the 5-star reviews. So, when looking at RM reviews; I look who the reviewers are, the number of reviews, and the specific complaints if there's a negative review. Everyone has bad days, we are humans with bodies, or someone is just a bad client. And, I kind of respect a provider who doesn't preemptively block in those cases. All of this talk of reviews and rating gaming reminds me of Freddie Wong’s 3.5 star rule: Use the ‘3.5-star rule’ to find the most ‘authentic’ Chinese food, says viral TikTok WWW.TODAY.COM You're probably going to rush to check the rating of your go-to Chinese spot after you watch this.

It depends of the kind of guy you're attracted to, and what BFE means to you, but I had a nice laid back 2 hour BFE-in-my-book experience with JulianJesse last Spring. Ooops! His profile is currently expired, but he may be on vacation and back in NYC soon? I would check again.

I would say that what your describing is the idea behind "public accommodation" and is part of being professional in any line of work. (This doesn't apply to all of the guys doing this as a way to get paid to hookup, which is totally fine, too!) This particular line of work has it's own peculiarities and requirements, a level of intimacy - manufactured or not - that make accommodating anyone from the public more challenging. Should a provider be expected to provide service to someone not of their preferred gender? Yes, plenty of straight guys seek male clients, but I don't know that it would be unprofessional if they didn't or vice versa with gay providers. And, I agree, the code is respect. If you don't want to or don't think you can provide someone with good service, there are respectful ways to relay that.

Thanks for the input everyone! 24 hours has been my rule of thumb, too. I'll probably stick with that as long as I have enough lead time. I've noticed this, too... maybe up to 4 hours depending on when I reach out since I'm an early riser. I just feel better giving them the greatest "benefit of the doubt" if I need to tell them that I've already made other plans.

Just wondering how long you all wait for a provider to respond when inquiring about meeting a few days in advance? Since my time and schedule is usually limited; if a provider isn't interested or available, I'd like to be able to make other plans. But, also don't want to end up in a situation where more than one provider is expecting a booking.

There's some chatter here:

While not an escort, I use Whitman Walker for sexual healthcare, as I decided they would have more experience in that area than my suburban primary care doctor. If a one stop provider is of interest, it's worth noting that they offer primary care now, as well.

Anyone have experience with CollegeBoyFun? Don't usually look at top-only guys, but he has a sort of normcore vibe that I find appealing.

Rather than seeing it as non-escorts (or never-escorts) using RM to promote their fan pages, I'd speculate the fan sites are disrupting the total economy of sex work pulling people from one to one meetings into a safer, less time and work per dollar business model, with a recurring revenue component, as well. This would lead to higher prices for those that go the creator route (why not charge $1k or more to meet, when its optional income), and likely drive up prices for other sex workers who don't want the exposure or lifestyle that being a creator requires. Related, I've felt that the quality of commercial porn has deteriorated since the start of the pandemic, which both limited shooting for a while and coincided with rise of fan sites. I figure it's the erosion of the talent pipeline?

I've noticed that 7" seems to be the default listing for an average sized dick, to the point where I would be disappointed if it was actually as advertised. If it just tickles the back of my throat while balls deep—my favorite when performing oral—then it's certainly not 7 inches.

Interesting. I found his personality the thing that clicked the best for me with him. We spent quite a while chatting, in a very good way. Warm, smart, interested/interesting, and passionate guy. I don't put a premium on hard muscle, be he certainly had those in spades. Plus, he gave an *amazing* back massage, as good or better than most "massage professionals."

I would suggest that anyone considering meeting this gentlemen do their own due diligence with available resources.

Thanks for sharing your experience. I ended up meeting Taylorb, and as you said, he is a very attractive all-American twink. He was polite, good communicator and easy to schedule. I know of at least one European provider who hides and shows his face pics when traveling into North America. Not the case here, I just never knew that the DMV was such a popular Winter destination for providers from Florida.

Oh... and, then there is TaylorB, who has 7 photos, all with his face blurred out. I just find this President's Day Weekend swarm quite odd.

They are multiplying: Collegeboyfl. At least this one has a hard on showing in one of his two torso pics.